Whether it was the rich lady who was deceived by the down-and-out scholar in the previous storybook; or the legitimate wife in the next storybook, which one of them didn't obediently obey the man's words at first?
But what happens after you hear it?
After listening to the words of the down-and-out scholar, the rich lady was cheated of her body and money...
The legitimate wife listened to her husband's words and obediently raised her children at home and took care of the whole family. As a result, her man fell in love with a white lotus at first sight, and they colluded with each other, driving her half crazy and half stupid, and cost her her life.
Gu Qingling told Yao Anxin that you can listen to what men say, but you have to learn to distinguish for yourself, some can be listened to and some cannot.
If you listen to men in everything, haha...
"If your mother had listened to your father in everything, I'm afraid your mother would have died a long time ago."
When Yao Anxin left, Gu Qingling said this to her.
She looked confused and didn't understand why the old lady suddenly said such a sentence.
Could it be said that her mother had encountered danger after marrying into the Yao family?
Yao Anxin pursed her lips, feeling a little unhappy.
"What's the matter? Why do you look like this?" Mrs. Yao felt a little strange when she saw that she was hesitant to speak after she entered the room.
Yao Anxin looked at the other people in the room and said nothing.
Mrs. Yao noticed something and waved the maid in the room to get out.
"What happened? Did the old lady tell me?" Yao Anxin's homework mentioned the issue of wives and concubines.
Mrs. Yao knew that her daughter's writing was wrong, but she hesitated and ultimately did not point it out.
She has always been at odds with the old lady, and the old lady often gave her concubines to cause trouble. As a legitimate wife, concubines are naturally enemies to her.
Can……
Can this kind of thing be written into a thought report?
The old lady is the mother-in-law.
Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have been enemies since ancient times.
The old lady may not necessarily like Yao Anxin writing these things in it.
Therefore, Mrs. Yao clearly knew that what Yao Anxin wrote was a little too "naive" and she could point out other things. But on this point, Mrs. Yao did not interfere.
Seeing that her daughter's expression was wrong, Mrs. Yao knew that there were no other issues in the ideological report, but there was definitely something about wives and concubines. She just didn't know what the old lady meant...
"Mother..." Yao Anxin suddenly threw herself into Mrs. Yao's arms and didn't speak for a long time.
Mrs. Yao felt a little distressed when she saw that she looked badly beaten.
What on earth did the old lady say?
How did her daughter become like this?
Yao Anxin lay in Mrs. Yao's arms for a long time. Just when Mrs. Yao was thinking about how to solve this problem, Yao Anxin said: "Mom, thank you for your hard work!"
Mrs. Yao: "What's wrong with you? Why did you say that suddenly? Could it be...that the old lady said something?"
"The old lady said, it's a good thing you don't listen to my father in everything, otherwise I would..." Yao Anxin's eyes turned red, "I'm motherless."
Mrs. Yao asked with a question mark on her face: "What do you mean?!"
In this way, Yao Anxin explained the lesson that the old lady taught her.
Mrs. Yao: "..."
——Old lady, what do you want to do?!
——I know you might talk about how to be a good wife, but I didn’t expect you to talk about this.
——Why should women not listen to men... How can my daughter get married in the future after you tell me this?
——Wait a minute, is the old lady really planning to let Sister Xin give birth and find a husband?!
Mrs. Yao opened her mouth and wanted to say something, but in the end she couldn't.
Because she realized that Yao Anxin's situation was different from hers.
She is "marrying", so she "obeys her father at home, and her husband when she marries"; but her daughter is recruiting a new wife, so if Sister Xin is asked to "obey her husband" again, then...
What's the difference between that and getting married?
If Sister Xin cannot suppress her future husband, how can she keep the family property in Dafang?
Thinking of this, Mrs. Yao reached out and touched Yao Anxin's head, and said softly: "The old lady is right, you will listen to what the old lady says in the future. It doesn't matter even if you don't understand it for a while. Write it down and take it out from time to time."
Just take a look and you’ll understand…”
"Oh, my daughter knows. Because my daughter didn't answer the question about her legitimate wife well, the old lady asked me to come back and write another one. Mom, I'm going to write like this..."
…
Little did Gu Qingling know that she was so focused on training Yao Anxin that she made Mrs. Yao think too much.
One, she didn't know that Yao Anxin would discuss these homeworks with Mrs. Yao; the other, as long as the houses could stand upright, she didn't really want to interfere in the affairs between husband and wife.
Time traveled to the present day, apart from the matter of Mrs. Yao arranging a room for Doctor Yao, when had Gu Qingling ever intervened in the affairs of a married couple?
Ahem!
What Gu Qingling intervened in was either the financial problems of the Yao family or the education of their children.
Gu Qingling not only planned to let Yao Anxin read the script, but also wanted Yao Anxin to enjoy several live versions. She believed that only by telling Yao Anxin about safety that had happened in real life, would she have a real feeling and experience.
Deeper.
But, where can I find so many live versions?
Gu Qingling came up with two plans. One was that she bought a theater version, gave them a script, and asked them to act it out for Yao Anxin.
As long as Yao Anxin doesn't know about it during the performance, she will treat the "play" as if it were real.
One is that she arranged for people to collect stories from other people's homes and revealed them to Yao Anxin through the servants' mouths.
"Maybe, both?"
Gu Qingling touched her chin and couldn't help but feel a little moved.
Ahem!
She would never admit it. In fact, she wanted to "gossip" a little bit.
I have no choice, I stay in the house every day, and there are no newspapers or magazines to read. Apart from my son, grandson, or son, and grandson, there is really no good way to spend time.
You can't let her go play chess or embroider, right?
Sorry, although Gu Qingling inherited the memory of the original owner, but playing chess, embroidery...
hehe!
Are you sure that's a good idea for fun?
"Spring, I give you a task."
"The old lady ordered."
"Buy me a troupe."
…
"Mother Chen, I have a task that I want to give you."
"Old lady, please give me your instructions."
"I want to cultivate some eyes and ears to learn about the trivial matters in Jinling. Look at this..."
"Old lady, please rest assured, I know what to do about this matter."
…
After handing over the matter, Gu Qingling was very happy and felt that she had solved another problem.
Next, let’s see how the people below complete it.
Of course, it would have been better if I had not received a letter from Li Wenchong when I was so happy.
Gu Qingling: "..."
——This guy, do you have to write letters so diligently?!
——Who writes one letter a day?
——They are not passionately in love.
After writing so many letters, Gu Qingling didn't reply to any of them. Li Wenchong seemed to have realized something was wrong, and said directly in the letter: "Why don't you reply to me? Do you want me to come and pick it up in person?"
The words were a naked threat.
Gu Qingling took a breath and panicked: Replying to Mao Xian's letter, what does I have to do with you?
