It's not that she doesn't expect love, but if the love in the world is like this, she doesn't want it.
She wants a man who can treat her equally, and she wants that man to be her only, but she won't marry him.
The man beside him is clean and upright, able to take care of the whole family, able to protect the whole family, and able to grow old with her and stay together forever.
Her standards are that simple.
But how many people in the world can achieve that?
The standards are other people's, so for a woman, what are the benefits of getting married?
But Yao Anxin did not dare to say such words to others, because she knew very well that her thoughts and ideas were not tolerated in the world.
It's okay if she doesn't say it, but if she does, it will definitely be criticized by a thousand people.
"You're a woman, what are you doing if you don't get married?"
"You're crazy! Men farm and women weave, the order of heaven and earth..."
"Woman, how can you not get married? There is something wrong with your brain. How did your family teach you?"
…
They will not only blame Yao Anxin's tutor, but they may also spread the blame to other members of the Yao family, including her parents, brothers, and her cousins.
This is not her problem alone, it is the whole family's problem.
If she didn't want to drag her family down, she could only endure it and disguise herself as what they wanted.
Maybe she will never meet the person she likes in this life, but she has a family.
Yao Anxin walked through the corridor and heard laughter coming from the yard. When she looked up, she saw that it was Yao Jiu'an and a group of children playing there under the supervision of the maid and mother-in-law.
Seeing the innocent smiles on their faces, Yao Anxin raised the corners of her lips slightly.
Who says you can't live without love?
She has a family and she is willing to protect them, that is enough.
…
When Uncle Yao saw the two martial arts masters of Second Master Yao, he looked surprised.
Because if he admits correctly, these two people should be the two people in the court who are said to have "retired"?!
Why did they come to Jinling?
Not only did he arrive in Jinling, he also became his second brother's martial arts master.
"Second brother, I'm afraid this Mr. Zhao is not an ordinary person!"
I met the two men, and on the way back, Uncle Yao spoke to Mr. Yao.
Second Master Yao looked like "I knew it was so" and said, "So, why do you think Mom wants Brother Zhao to be Brother Can's godfather?"
Uncle Yao pondered for a moment and said, "Maybe the reason you said is right. But... why didn't you tell us directly?"
"Mother feeds everything to our mouths. When will we grow up?" Yao Erye often stayed by Gu Qingling's side. He didn't think it was a big deal and said, "It's our birthday now and we are fathers, Sister Xin."
My son is getting married, and Brother Hong will be able to see each other in a few years... We are already such an old man, and yet we still need my mother to explain everything clearly. What is the difference between us and useless people?"
Uncle Yao felt surprised and looked at Second Master Yao as if he were looking at something strange: "You can do it, second brother. We have been apart for three days, so we should meet each other with new eyes."
Second Master Yao rolled his eyes at him: "What did you say? After all, I have read a lot of books and run a lot of errands for my mother in the past three years. No matter what, I have to make some progress, right? Let's go on.
, I will quit my martial arts studies next year, and maybe I can even get a part-time job as an official, hehe... By then, I will no longer be a freeloader."
"Why, someone said such a thing in front of you? I'm afraid he is not mentally ill..."
"Isn't it just that he has a brain disease and has pink eye? Otherwise, why would he always keep an eye on things in other people's backyards? Who makes him incapable of that? Just like me, he married such a capable wife and was able to subdue her.
Obedient?"
Uncle Yao thought that Second Master Yao would be angry, but he didn't expect that he would say such a thing. He also looked proud, which made people feel like he was asking for a beating.
Everyone in the world is afraid of marrying a powerful wife. If you marry, it is easy to spread bad rumors such as "tigress" and "fear of the wife".
Therefore, no matter how capable Mrs. Yao is at home, she still looks like "her husband is the top priority" outside.
Unexpectedly, his second brother was exactly the opposite.
"You, you...you are so thick-skinned!" Uncle Yao laughed and said silently in his heart that he did not have the same broad-mindedness as his second brother.
It seems that in some aspects, he may not be as good as his second brother.
Second Master Yao said proudly: "Brother, I'm not thick-skinned, I'm smart and clear-minded. Let me ask you, if my wife is great, who will be the ultimate beneficiary?"
"Of course it's you."
"But what if I get into trouble with my wife?"
"What's the meaning?"
"Not only did I lose my status as the 'ultimate beneficiary', but I would still be laughed at by others, saying that I couldn't even take care of a woman... So, I just let go of living a good life, and I had to make a scene.
what?"
Uncle Yao: "..."
you're right!
In this matter, he seems to be really not as smart as his second brother.
When Li Wenchong came to Yao's house a little later, he found strangely that Uncle Yao no longer looked coldly on him. Although he was not enthusiastic, he also came up to talk to him and have a chat.
However, the direction of Uncle Yao's chat...
Li Wenchong's thoughts suddenly changed. Was he trying to find out who he was?
He immediately laughed.
He came from a place like the palace. If an uncle Yao could easily find out, what would he do?
Therefore, Li Wenchong set one trap after another for Uncle Yao. Not only did he not let the other party find out his background, but Li Wenchong found out a lot of things from Uncle Yao.
For example, Uncle Yao wants to marry his daughter Yao Anxin to a certain low-level official with unknown background but great potential; while Mrs. Yao despises that low-level official and wants to marry Yao Anxin to the eldest son of a certain prince’s wife who died...
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Of course, this is not a big deal. The point is - Gu Qingling actually revealed to them that he wanted Brother Can to recognize him as his godfather?!
Gu Qingling never discussed this matter with him.
Li Wenchong was very excited. He knew as soon as he heard that Gu Qingling was trying to test the bottom line of her children.
In other words, Gu Qingling did indeed intend to marry him, and she was already making arrangements.
This is great news!
Ha ha ha ha……
According to this situation, he has recognized his biological son first. Will it be far away when he can marry his biological son back to his mother?
"What do Deqing think?"
Suddenly he heard someone calling his name. Uncle Yao was still not used to it. Who in the court saw him calling someone other than his official name?
At home, Mrs. Yao calls him "Master", and her servants call him "Master" or "Master". Gu Qingling sometimes calls him "Da Lang", sometimes calls him "Boss", and when angry, she calls him by his full name.
.
It is relatively rare to drop the surname and call "Deqing" directly.
"Young Master Zhao seems to like Brother Can very much..." Uncle Yao did not answer, but said tentatively, "I heard from my second brother that Young Master Zhao already has a sweetheart, and I think he will have his own child when she gets married.
, I’m afraid I won’t have that much time to take care of Brother Can by then, right? It’s okay if you don’t have some things, but once you have them and then lose them... it will be a bit painful.”
"Deqing is worried that if I have children in the future, I won't love Brother Can anymore?" Li Wenchong laughed and said, "I understand what you mean. It's because you feel sorry for Brother Can that you are so guarded against me.
However, what you are worried about is not a problem, because I estimate that there will be no other children in this life."
