In fact, this cannot be entirely blamed on Gu Qingling. The era she lived in in her previous life was too different from the current world. The farmers in her impression were like that. The situation in Zhuangzi was miserable enough, but what could be worse?
And the original owner was a person who didn't know the suffering in the world, so he didn't know it even more.
So, ultimately, this is a cognitive difference.
Ye Maosheng has been writing letters to Miss Yao Qi for so long, and he has some understanding of this young lady who is a bit squeamish and arrogant.
Therefore, when he chose this place as the place to get married, he was mentally prepared for her to get angry.
He just wanted to give her a blow and let her know clearly who he was, where he came from, and where he grew up.
If she can't even accept this, then these things will definitely become her "picky" points in the future.
If he didn't want to be a "grudge couple", he had to let her sober up.
However, he seemed to underestimate Miss Yao Qi.
Although Miss Yao Qi is squeamish, she was already vaccinated by the old lady Gu Qingling when she chose Ye Maosheng as her fiancé. She was also told that the worst case scenario would be that she would have to rely on her own dowry in the future.
Have a meal.
Therefore, the most important thing is not what the Ye family looks like, but how much dowry you have and whether you can support yourself, your future husband and children.
If other members of your husband's family covet your dowry, how are you supposed to keep it?
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After entering the bridal chamber, Miss Yao Qi no longer had any romantic thoughts. She felt that she would have to fight a tough battle later - she needed to make it clear to Ye Maosheng what her bottom line was, and she also needed to ask him clearly what his bottom line was.
They need to set up a "running-in period" to adapt to each other.
This is what Gu Qingling taught her - you don't need to hide what you can't do, just tell your husband directly.
Then you need to know his bottom line. During this running-in period, you both have to take steps back and run into each other to find a point of balance.
He is a scholar and a local official, so he is definitely not an impulsive person. If you reason with him, he will definitely reason with you.
As long as you don't touch his bottom line, he will never make things difficult for you, his "mother-in-law," even for the sake of the Yao family.
If he dares, go back to your parents' house for help.
Of course, if you have touched his bottom line and caused your own death, then don't blame your mother-in-law for being cold-blooded and not helping you.
Before she got married, Gu Qingling gave Miss Yao Qi a lesson, telling her what she could and couldn't do.
Miss Yao Qi just has the self-esteem of everyone, and she is not really stupid.
With so much preliminary preparation, even if she is dissatisfied with the status quo, she will not directly make a fuss. Instead, she will first find a way to negotiate with Ye Maosheng, and if the negotiation fails, she will not make a fuss again.
Therefore, when Ye Maosheng came back from the toast outside and entered the room, he was greeted by a calm-looking Miss Yao Qi who wanted to talk to him.
Ye Maosheng:????!!!!
Where's Xipa?
Shouldn't it be me who lifts the wedding veil?
"Miss Qi...?"
Miss Yao Qi raised her head, expressed satisfaction with Ye Maosheng's appearance, and said, "You can call me Ru Yue from now on."
"Ruyue." Although it was a bit unexpected, Ye Maosheng still responded politely, "You can call me Maosheng."
"Okay, Mao Sheng," Miss Yao Qi didn't feel any shame (she did, but she forgot about it because she wanted to talk about something), she patted her side and asked him to sit down, looking businesslike, "
I have something I want to talk to you about, and I think it’s necessary.”
Ye Maosheng raised his eyebrows and sat over.
This feeling is really amazing. On his wedding night, he didn't receive the wedding invitation, didn't see a shy bride, and was talked to by the bride?
All the daughters of big families are like this...
Tough?
Miss Yao Qi expressed her disdain for the living environment of the Ye family very frankly. She wanted to know how long she would stay here. If it took a long time, she would like to build a new yard.
She is not used to living in such an environment, and she wants to build a yard according to her own ideas.
Of course, if Old Man Ye and Mrs. Ye originally lived with them, she would also leave a yard for them and arrange for servants to serve them.
She is used to being served by others and has little assets. It is not realistic for her to serve her parents-in-law without relying on others. However, she can guarantee that the servants she arranges are trained according to the standards of the aristocratic family and will definitely be able to serve her.
Arrange everything properly and there won't be any problems.
So the question now is whether Ye Maosheng agrees, and whether the rest of the Ye family agrees.
"This is my bottom line, but what about you, what is your bottom line?" Miss Yao Qi raised her chin slightly, signaling for him to answer her question.
Miss Yao Qi, who was well-behaved in front of Gu Qingling, was somewhat arrogant in front of Ye Maosheng. Although she was not overbearing, it was obvious that she placed her status higher.
Even though I tried hard to have a discussion, my tone had a hint of "command".
Ye Maosheng laughed a little, the situation was much better than he thought, and he had already understood her temperament to some extent in the letter she wrote, and said: "We will not stay here longer, if you want to stay here again,
There is no problem with building a yard...it's just that after your yard is built, are you going to leave it empty or are you going to prepare it for people to live in?"
He reminded Miss Yao Qi that if she wanted to keep it empty, it was best to leave it empty from the beginning instead of letting anyone move in. Otherwise, once someone moves in and they come back in a few years, no one knows who owns the yard.
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No matter how well you say it at the beginning, once you get started, it will be difficult to finish.
"If we won't stay longer, then how long will we stay?" Miss Yao Qi frowned slightly, "If the time is not long, I can consider enduring it."
The word "patience" was used, which showed Miss Yao Qi's dislike of this place. Ye Maosheng laughed again: "I have three months of marriage leave."
"Three months..." Miss Yao Qi calculated, "But where will all my servants live? How often will we come back in the future? Every time we come back, the servants must have a place to stay, right? What if I should...
Bring a lot of things..."
Balabala, the more we talk, the more I feel that even if we don’t stay here long, it is still necessary to build a new yard.
One, she is not used to the "shabby house" of the Ye family; the other, she is used to being squeamish, and she may not be used to living with them.
Instead of doing this, it would be better to separate from the beginning. It smells good when you are far away, but smells bad when you are close. Maybe you can avoid some unnecessary troubles.
He doesn't need to worry about money or anything else. She wants to live in a new yard, so she will build it herself. Everything here belongs to her.
Just like she did in the Yao family before, she usually lived in her own courtyard, but if something happened, she would still go to the old lady's courtyard.
Ye Maosheng quickly understood that Miss Yao Qi wanted to maintain her previous living conditions in the Yao family - she regarded his parents as Mrs. Yao who went to pay her respects every day.
Live your own life, step by step, and go to your elders to greet and talk to them when needed.
He was also very interested in the "bottom line" and "running-in period" proposed by Miss Yao Qi. He felt that Miss Yao Qi was not as "brainless" and "impulsive" as shown in the letter, and she clearly had some ideas.
This is good, he wants to be promoted, and he doesn't want the woman in the backyard to be too stupid and cause him trouble.
