"Can you tell me what the reason is? And that book, can I read it?"
Ye Maosheng took out the book and handed it to Xie Xuefeng: "The reason is very simple. Someone sent me a few Yangzhou thin horses, and I asked her to come forward and refuse... When she refused, she was not angry, but she didn't know
Why did she feel unhappy when she mentioned this matter later? Are women really that vindictive?"
"Women definitely hold grudges, and are very petty. What's more, everyone holds grudges about this kind of thing. But, you even let her reject it, why is she still angry?" Xie Xuefeng was also a little confused, so he took the script and started to read it.
Miss Yao Ba also likes to read story books. He usually reads them with Miss Yao Ba when he has nothing to do. So when he saw the name and content of this story book, Xie Xuefeng knew that it was one of the books he had read before.
Thinking of Miss Yao Ba's "After Reading Thoughts" at that time, Xie Xuefeng had a flash of inspiration and seemed to understand.
He raised his head and stared at Ye Maosheng for a long time as if he were looking at something rare.
Ye Maosheng was so scared by him: "What are you doing? Is there something wrong with me?"
"I'm just trying to see how charming you are to win over Miss Seventh so quickly. I see, Miss Seventh has quite a temper..."
Ye Maosheng: "..."
How do you know?
Also, why do you ask such a strange question?
He is a grown man, but if he can't "conquer" his own wife, then is he still a man?
"You don't seem to understand what I mean," Xie Xuefeng shook the storybook in his hand, "These storybooks all have one characteristic, that is, the loyalty of men and women to love. Listen clearly, it's a man and a woman.
. Generally speaking, it is normal for a man to have three wives and four concubines, but in these books, men are always 'willing to win the heart of one person and stay together forever', do you understand?"
Ye Maosheng's eyes widened: "What do you mean..."
"I think the reason why Miss Yao Qi is angry is not because you have accepted those Yangzhou thin horses, but because she is attracted to you. She wants a love like the one in this storybook, but you...
"Xie Xuefeng shrugged and said, "Obviously, she didn't get an answer from you, or she got an opposite answer, and she lost her temper."
Ye Maosheng: "..."
So shocked!
When he and Miss Yao Qi got married, it was a matter of discussion and had nothing to do with feelings. It was just "cooperation" - the man took the lead outside, the woman took the lead inside, and everyone just worked together to live a good life.
But now, Xie Xuefeng told him that Miss Yao Qi was attracted to him and her standards for him had also been raised.
Ye Maosheng felt a little embarrassed. Although he had never thought about whether to take a concubine or not, but...
But whether he wants to accept it and whether Miss Yao Qi will let him accept it are two different things.
It’s really hard to answer this question regarding a man’s dignity.
"Where's the Eighth Miss? I see that you and the Eighth Miss agree with each other. If she doesn't agree, what will you do?" Ye Maosheng asked the question to Xie Xuefeng.
The married couple must have more experience than him, who has just stepped in the door. What's more, Xie Xuefeng comes from a big family, and their family also has problems with concubines.
Xie Xuefeng was happy because he knew better than him how to solve this problem.
"Even if she doesn't agree, what else can I do? I'm not at home usually, and she's in charge, so I'm going to push someone in to make her unhappy? If she's going to be unhappy every day, how can my life be easy?" Xie Xuefeng
Very polished commander, he said, "It's rare for me to stay at home, so I just want to be quiet and comfortable. She will be blushing all day long and have a thick neck. How can I survive?"
Ye Maosheng looked surprised: "Don't you Xie family have a concubine?"
"Yes, that's why I'm so annoyed watching those concubines making trouble every day." Xie Xuefeng glanced at Ye Maosheng and said, "You are from a poor family and have never experienced it, so you don't know much about the women in the backyard.
Too much is definitely not a good thing. Everyone has selfish motives. Let me ask you, if every woman has her own flesh and blood, how can they not fight for their own children? For men, the palms and backs of their hands are all flesh, which woman
You will be more interested in whichever woman you prefer, but for a woman, if she loses, she may risk her life. How do you think a woman can not fight?"
Xie Xuefeng didn't use his own family as an example, but directly used the dirty inner courtyards of major families on the market. One by one, which one is not related to these?
On the contrary, those whose backyards are clean live the most comfortable lives.
Xie Xuefeng said: "I married someone just to have everything go as planned. She married me happily, but I changed her to a different person. Why bother? Sleeping with one woman is no more important than sleeping with several women.
What's the difference? Could it be that if I sleep with more women, I will have more descendants in the future? I haven't seen any big family that thrives on women having children. Besides, do you think that with Mrs. Yao's methods, her daughter-in-law
If she can hold two children at once, will she be able to give birth to a concubine?"
Ye Maosheng has never thought about this problem. Mrs. Yao's three daughters-in-law all got pregnant in the same year, and they gave birth to two children. They must have a secret recipe in their hands, otherwise how could it be such a coincidence?
Later, many ladies who were friends with Mrs. Yao but couldn't have children, didn't they all become pregnant one after another after returning home, and there was good news?
Therefore, Ye Maosheng never doubted that Miss Yao Qi could not have children.
If this is the case, then what is the concubine here for?
She is not needed to give birth to a child. The wife can give birth to her by herself. If you go to sleep with a concubine, isn't it just adding a burden to the wife?
Later on, if someone is unhappy and shows off to you every day, it will make your life difficult.
If she resorts to flattery or other means, if something happens to your concubine or concubine every day, it will be enough for you to eat a pot.
Don't say that a woman should regard her husband as her God, be virtuous and virtuous, be tolerant, and take good care of the man's concubines and concubines. Haha, even brothers will have conflicts, let alone not born from the same mother.
Ye Maosheng doesn't think that having more brothers and sisters is a good thing at all.
"But everyone takes concubines, but you are the only one who doesn't, so you don't worry about getting along with others?" Ye Maosheng lowered his eyes slightly, as if he was asking a question or talking to himself.
Xie Xuefeng laughed out loud: "It depends on how you look at it. You want to be a solitary minister, and it's normal not to be gregarious; but you don't want to be a solitary minister, and you want to make more friends in this way...also
It doesn’t have to be a woman, money, fame, wealth, all kinds of things are fine. And you look at the Yao family, you can’t be alone even if you want to. Sometimes, if an official is too perfect,
It’s not necessarily a good thing. A few more shortcomings exposed in front of you can make people lower their guard.”
Ye Maosheng stood up and saluted Xie Xuefeng: "Thank you very much!"
Xie Xuefeng quickly stood up to avoid it: "Hey, we are brothers-in-law, grasshoppers on a rope. Only when you are good can I be good, and we should take care of each other. Besides, I am just talking nonsense, and my brother-in-law can hear it in his heart.
