Just like that, Yao Anling, who had always compared herself with Yao Anxin and always wanted to surpass Yao Anxin, exploded, and she actually started practicing calligraphy with a brush.
If Mrs. Yao Er was here, she would definitely be surprised: Oh, my little dear, you can actually calm down?
In fact, the fact that Yao Anling is like this is also the result of Mrs. Yao. Who makes Mrs. Yao always like to compare herself with Mrs. Yao?
Not only does she compare herself with Mrs. Yao, but she also compares her children with Mrs. Yao's children. No, Yao Anling compares herself with Yao Anxin.
There is no way, who made them Yao An's only two direct daughters?
Although the age difference is a bit bigger, that's the only difference.
Gu Qingling sat in class for a while and then left quietly.
On the other side, Yao Anyi had already changed his clothes and was being served breakfast by his servants.
It's just this breakfast. Some of the food is not tasty.
He didn't know what the old lady's plan was. She said she wanted to ban him and let him think clearly here, but what could he think about?
A ten-year-old child locked in a room, can he still think clearly about how he changed from a boy to a girl?
This kind of thing is not something he can decide.
After finishing the meal absentmindedly, Yao Anyi was in a daze in the room.
When Gu Qingling came in, this was what she saw. She coughed lightly: "Ahem!"
Yao Anyi came to his senses and quickly stood up to salute and say hello.
He didn't dare to look at Gu Qingling's expression. He always felt that if he did, he would be eaten by a big monster. He was also a little worried. Now that the old lady knew about this, how would she "punish" him?
mother?
Although he has been a girl for ten years, Yao Anyi does not hate his mother. He feels that this is probably his fate.
"Have you thought it through?"
Yao Anyi looked at her timidly and asked in a low voice: "I don't know what the old lady... wants me... to think..."
"Do you want to be a boy or a girl?"
Yao Anyi: "..."
Is this something he can choose?
"Don't think about your father and your mother, just think about yourself. From the depths of your heart, think about whether you want to be a boy or a girl." Gu Qingling looked into his eyes and said,
He said very seriously, "You should know that you were able to hide your identity and be a girl for ten years because you were young and no one noticed you, so it doesn't matter whether you are a boy or a girl, but what about the future? Girl's family
When you reach a certain age, you have to marry someone. Since you are a girl, I can't let you get married, right? But marry someone, you are a boy..."
Gu Qingling asked Yao Anyi to imagine what it would be like if a boy married another boy.
People get married to have a wife and have children, but they end up marrying a boy. What is happening?
This is not a marriage, but a feud.
If Yao Anyi really wanted to be a girl, just this one thing alone would be embarrassing enough, let alone other things. Gu Qingling said that she was a very traditional parent, and she could not let the Yao family's family go to her just for him.
The girl cannot "marry" out.
"If there is an old girl in any family who refuses to marry, it will affect the marriages of other people in the future. If possible, I don't want this to happen to the Yao family."
Even though he said that, of course, if Yao Anyi really wanted to be a girl and didn't want to get married yet, there was no way Lu Qingling would force him.
After all, life is your own choice, and Yao Anyi is responsible for whatever it turns out to be in the end.
But the ugly thing to say first is to make Yao Anyi understand what problems he will face in the future if he chooses to be a girl. Let’s not talk about anything else, just marriage can crush him to death.
"Of course, if you want to be a boy, that's okay," Gu Qingling continued, "In the worst case, I'll find a moral monk and tell you that you are destined to be a disaster, and you have to be raised as a girl for the first ten years, otherwise you won't survive.
As an adult, you can grow up well only after surviving these ten years..."
Yao Anyi suddenly raised his head and looked at Gu Qingling in shock: "I...can I be a boy?!"
"Of course." Gu Qingling was very sure and said, "Why not? You are a boy. If you want to be a boy, you can."
"But my mother..." Yao Anyi hesitated.
He has been a girl for ten years and never thought that one day he might become a boy.
At least, I never thought that I would become a child again when I was ten years old.
But now, an old lady who was said to be trying to kill him actually told him - it's okay, because you are a boy to begin with.
"Don't think about your mother, just ask yourself." Gu Qingling pointed at Yao Anyi's chest and said, "I can solve all other problems. Just ask yourself, do you want to be a boy or a girl?
Child, in your heart, what kind of person do you think you should be."
Gu Qingling was still afraid that Yao Anyi didn't know what boys were like, so she named Uncle Yao, Second Master Yao, and Yao Anhong, and told him that maybe these three people couldn't be the best role models in his mind, but boys probably were.
Like this - they can study, take imperial examinations, go out to do business, stand alone and become the backbone of the family...
Boys have many rights to choose. They don't have to learn from female celebrities, they don't have to be detained in a three-foot backyard, they don't have to worry about being rejected by others when they show up in public, and they don't have to worry about not being able to study or become famous.
"What should a good boy look like? Probably..." Gu Qingling described the "modesty gentleman" in her imagination. He is a master of the six arts of a gentleman, has talents from all over the world, can be a leader in literature, can rule the country in military affairs, and has a firm belief.
There is a sure way to achieve it. If you are successful, you can help the world. If you are poor, you can only benefit yourself.
Anyway, all the beautiful words she could think of were used in the direction of "him".
The words made Yao Anyi's blood boil, and he asked her naa naa: "Is there really such a person in the world?"
"Yes!" Gu Qingling said with great certainty, "It's just that we haven't met. If you want, I believe you can become that person. Even if you are not as accomplished as 'him', if you can achieve six or seven, it is still a success."
It’s definitely something to be proud of. So, are you willing to be that person?”
"I do!" Yao Anyi clenched his fists, raised his palm-sized face, and said eagerly, "I wish, old lady, I want to be that kind of person."
Gu Qingling smiled, raised the corners of her lips slightly, and said: "If you want to be that kind of person, you have to be yourself first. Then, think about it, do you want to be a boy or a girl?
?"
Yao Anyi: "...boy!"
It was undeniable that when Gu Qingling told him that there was such an upright man in the world, Yao Anyi's heart suddenly felt longing for him.
He wanted to be that kind of man, and since he couldn't, he still wanted to meet that kind of man.
No one wants to live in a stinky ditch without being seen. Everyone wants to live in the sunshine. If you have the ability, become the existence that people look up to...
