Gu Qingling asked Li Wenchong if he still remembered the first time he saw the brothers at Yao's house.
Second Master Yao looked fearless, as if someone was holding him up even if the sky fell. But Uncle Yao was different, he seemed very cautious.
"He is the eldest son, and the burden on his shoulders is heavier. If you want to think more carefully, you should be more careful. But he may be cautious in front of me, and he is not as casual and alert as the second master. He seems a bit reserved." Gu Qingling was very cautious.
He said with certainty, "When he faces me, he is not facing a mother, but an elder who must be respected."
Li Wenchong opened his mouth and hesitated: "Isn't it normal for people to be different? Even twins have their differences, let alone brothers separated by several years."
"Then look at Brother Can. Is he like his second brother? No matter what requests he makes from me, he is loyal and loyal, as a matter of course?"
Li Wenchong: "...Brother Can is still young. And he has gradually become sensible. If he has any ideas, he will also reason with us."
Gu Qingling shook her head gently: "I know you will refuse, but I know you love me unconditionally, you just don't agree with my idea, and I know you won't agree, no matter whether there is a reason or not, just because I proposed it...
…There is a difference between these. One is confident and fearless. The other is timid, thinking over and over again, and looking for a good reason before he has the courage to ask the other party. They are completely different! What exactly led to this result?
Woolen cloth?"
Li Wenchong fell silent.
After Uncle Yao was born, although he did not do as much as the Fu family, he was taken away and educated by the old lady at a young age, leaving Gu Qingling as his biological mother.
So after the young Gu Qingling gave birth to her second son, Mr. Yao, it was natural that she put all her efforts into it, and her partiality went as far as her throat.
What Gu Qingling did back then might not be as neurotic as Mrs. Fu, but...
As long as you do a little research, there are clues.
But later on, Gu Qingling "awoke" and changed her mind.
Li Wenchong suddenly felt that Yao Jiuye was very lucky. The timing of his birth was perfect, just after Gu Qingling changed into a mature child who knew how to love him correctly and had energy and time to spend on him.
Can he say that he is a little jealous of his son who was born in a blessed nest?
"I have discussed Brother Can's education with you before, and you have approved my education method and think it is very useful, right?" Gu Qingling said, "Because of our status, there is no so-called old man above you.
Man, I don’t need to teach Brother Can to anyone. He is very courageous and unconstrained, but he is also respectful and polite, as gentle as the sun, and can warm the people around him. Have you ever seen negative energy in him?
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Maybe Yao Jiuye would feel distressed because he was restricted from eating sweets, and he might feel aggrieved because of the blame, but he would never generate any negative energy because of these things.
He is like a little sun, just use it, and soon forget it, who should be illuminated.
If Yao Jiuye hadn't performed well in the study room and had the appearance of a "little man" at a young age, Li Wenchong would have suspected that he was a fool who was easy to deceive.
Li Wenchong nodded: "You did a great job in teaching him. Whether in the royal family or in aristocratic families, I have rarely seen such a sunny child like him."
"The relationship between husband and wife has a great influence on children. If you look at the grandson of the first emperor, then look at the grandson of the fifth emperor, and look at other families in the capital where the husband and wife are not getting along...if you compare the personalities of these children together, you can see
There is no difference." Gu Qingling said with a smile, "The husband and wife have a harmonious relationship and can feel the care and love from their parents. This child must have an optimistic temper and smile. On the contrary, the child is very sensitive and does not have much smile on his face.
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Li Wenchong actually ran to investigate.
Before, he just thought that Gu Qingling could educate children. She could defeat Uncle Yao and Second Master Yao, and her methods were extraordinary.
Seeing that Master Yao Jiu was well-raised by her, and he would not compete for that position, Master Yao Jiu would only dote on her a little, which was fine, so he did not separate mother and son, and followed the royal rules.
Standard training.
In fact, Yao Jiuye was really well raised by Gu Qingling.
He is very intelligent, alert and sensitive, and has a refined human nature without losing the innocence of a child. He has his own arrogance and is a familiar person. No matter where he goes, he can make a group of friends.
Those people also like him.
Moreover, Gu Qingling had no objection to Yao Jiuye receiving royal education. In addition to the husbands she selected, she also accepted those selected by Li Wenchong.
But when scheduling classes, she hoped that Yao Jiuye could be happier and have a certain amount of freedom.
Yao Jiuye's growth experience is completely different from his.
"This is the result of the investigation?"
"Yes, Master."
Li Wenchong looked at the thing in his hand and frowned deeply.
Whether it's from aristocratic families or ordinary people, he found that what Gu Qingling said was very correct. The relationship between husband and wife and the family's growing environment have a great influence on a child's personality.
If the relationship between husband and wife is harmonious, the children will always be more sunny. Even if they are poor, they can grow like weeds.
And if the relationship between husband and wife is not good, there are many women in the backyard, and there are all kinds of struggles, no matter how good the conditions at home are, the children will have less smiles on their faces and will be particularly sensitive to certain things.
Mrs. Fu, what happened to Mr. Fu is not an exception, it’s just more extreme.
"well……"
Li Wenchong sighed softly and rubbed his temples, not daring to report this investigation.
joke!
In order to prevent the mother-child relationship from deepening and the maternal relatives taking over the power, the royal family separated the influence of the biological mother on the child. If the royal brother knew that the ancestor's operation was "toxic", wouldn't it be a slap in the face?
The royal family is no better than ordinary families.
Ordinary families only have a small amount of income. After fighting and fighting, the influence is not more than the wall of the family. But when it comes to the royal family, it is something that affects the direction of the entire Ming Dynasty. How can we not be cautious?
On the one hand, there are relatives who may appear in the future, and on the other hand, there is the missing mother's love. Li Wenchong feels that even if he is the emperor, he will choose the former, right?
As long as you don't go to extremes, the lack of maternal love will not kill anyone, but with maternal relatives, not only will people die, but it may also be a disaster that destroys the country.
After thinking about it, Li Wenchong vented his anger with Gu Qingling and said that the matter was over and would not be uploaded again.
"My imperial brother's princes are all grown up. If something like this happens at this time, I'm afraid it will cause some unnecessary disputes. The first ones were separated from their biological mothers when they were young and were raised alone, but the second ones were raised alone.
If you want to hand it over to your biological mother... everyone will think too much."
Growing up next to your biological mother means that there is a higher possibility of maternal relatives, which indirectly deprives the prince of his right to compete.
Although Li Wenchong knew that there were already more than ten adult princes in front of his brother, there was a high probability that it would not be the turn of the next ones, but what if?
The most fearful thing in this world is "what if".
At this time, he spread the word that "children need maternal love in their childhood", and others thought he had some bad intentions.
Li Wenchong has been peaceful and stable for so many years. Now he has a wife and children, and he doesn't want to "make waves on the ground".