"Moreover," thinking of the twins in Dafang, Gu Qingling suddenly frowned and said, "Do you feel that the two boys in Dafang are a little too weak?"
Normally I don't think that when the four boys from the second room come, the two boys from the first room are overpowered and feel aggrieved at every turn.
If she hadn't been sitting there, Gu Qingling suspected that Mrs. Yao would have tried to reason with Mrs. Yao.
Gu Qingling wondered if she paid too little attention to raising children in her first house?
"It's a bit too easy to be wronged." Li Wenchong indeed feels this way.
For children, it's normal for them to fight and fight, but the two boys in the big room were a little restrained and seemed to follow too many rules.
Because they follow the rules, they also want others to follow them. But they meet the second wife who has the final say with their fists and is totally unreasonable. This gives rise to the feeling that when a scholar encounters a soldier, he has no reason to explain.
The two boys in the big house are still young and don't know this sentence, but this is the feeling they give people.
"Is the eldest lady's control too tight?" Li Wenchong said speculatively, "I remember that you were in a hurry to let the two boys in the eldest family go to kindergarten because you were worried that the eldest lady's control was too tight and you wanted them to relax.
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"It seems that even if they go to kindergarten, they can't completely get rid of the influence of the eldest wife on them. I'm afraid she is a bit strict in private. Children are like this. It's not good if you control them too strictly, and it's not okay to ignore them."
Regardless of whether it looks like a second bedroom or not, it looks like a big bedroom.
For example, when she trained her eldest granddaughter Yao Anxin, her second grandson Yao Anhong, her third grandson Yao Anyi, and her fourth granddaughter Yao Anling, she took the right medicine and worked hard.
When they were still in Jinling, she could still take care of them, but after they remarried, she could no longer take care of them.
She always interfered with the affairs of the Yao family against the Li family, which would cause people to gossip. Gu Qingling didn't want to play the role of a villain, so she just ignored the general direction and let the two families toss themselves.
Li Wenchong: "Yes, children are difficult to manage. Each child has his or her own personality, and education strategies must be adopted. Each child must use one strategy, and there is no template that can be applied. No matter how experienced you are,
No one can guarantee that every child they raise will be fine."
Even Gu Qingling doesn't dare to say that he has taught Yao Jiuye perfectly now. He can only say that the results are gratifying.
He didn't expect that Yao Jiuye was very intelligent and quick-witted. He also had a very broad vision and had his own ideas.
Having ideas is a good thing, but on the other hand, it's also a bad thing - if his imperial brother hadn't been enlightened and if he hadn't been so favored, Gu Qingling's ideas, let alone Yao Jiuye, would have killed him.
Without Li Wenchong's favor to provide the foundation, without Li Wenchong's mediation in the middle, many things would not be what they are today. Gu Qingling lost her life the moment she appeared.
Therefore, Gu Qingling is Li Wenchong who succeeds and loses because of Li Wenchong. Many of her things depend on the support of Li Wenchong in the middle. Without him, she would end badly.
Of course, it was because of him that Gu Qingling was so bold.
Otherwise, she wouldn't have dared to be as bold as she is now. She would have been cautious and just living in an ignoble way.
People are like this, they can do great things no matter how courageous they are.
She has the courage to be as courageous as she is now, and it was Li Wenchong who helped her support her.
The couple exchanged parenting experiences for a long time.
They don't know exactly how Mrs. Yao raises children, but they know from the results that the situation may be unsatisfactory.
It's impossible to ignore it after seeing it, but how can we avoid it from causing misunderstanding to Mrs. Yao and take care of the two children at the same time?
"I think we might have to start from the school." Li Wenchong said, "The school is more authoritative. It can hold a parent-teacher meeting, let parents communicate with each other, and then ask the husband to talk about parenting... I can't say that it will all work.
, but the more you talk, the more you will listen."
"We also need to keep Mrs. Yao busy so that she has no time to take care of the children." Gu Qingling made up her mind that Mrs. Yao would never be free in the next period of time.
She even entertained the idea of letting Mrs. Yao have another pregnancy - although it was a bit dangerous for an elderly woman to give birth, there was nothing to be afraid of as the spiritual spring was there.
The only one who will suffer a little is probably Mrs. Yao.
"Uh..." Li Wenchong touched his nose angrily and said, "Didn't I tell you? In fact, your eldest daughter-in-law... has never used contraception. From the look of her, it seems that she wants to have another child."
Gu Qingling's eyes widened.
"It was especially obvious when your second daughter-in-law gave birth. But later on, before the fate came, she gradually calmed down and focused on the two children." She even acted secretly without telling Uncle Yao, saying
I promised Uncle Yao not to have children, but later went back on my word. It was Mrs. Yao who was talking about this.
Inadvertently, Li Wenchong revealed the information that he was eyeing various inner courtyards.
Gu Qingling didn't say anything.
Li Wenchong had told her long ago that he was Emperor Mingguang's spy and held Emperor Mingguang's secret guard in his hands.
It can be said that Li Wenchong was the last secret move left to him by Emperor Mingguang.
Therefore, Li Wenchong knew about the affairs of each inner court, and Gu Qingling did not find it strange.
"My second daughter-in-law probably doesn't want to have a baby, right?"
"I don't know about that. It's so far away that I can't hear it so clearly. But I can tell from her look that four children are enough to bother her, and she probably doesn't want to have any more."
Li Wenchong looked at Gu Qingling and said, "If you are really planning to give your eldest daughter-in-law another child, you have to be mentally prepared."
"What kind of mental preparation?"
"You have the secret recipe for giving birth to a child." Which family in Beijing would dislike their daughter-in-law for having fewer children?
When the second Mrs. Yao gave birth to the younger couple, she was still not very old, just in her early thirties, and Mrs. Yao was almost forty years old, and she was considered an "old clam with pearls in her arms".
"It's okay, she's not fifty yet, and she's taking good care of herself. Since she has time to worry about Brother Shou and Brother Kang, she probably has time to have another baby."
"Aren't you afraid that she will spoil the little one rotten?"
Gu Qingling was silent for a moment: "Let's see when the time comes. If it doesn't work, let Sister Xin think of a way. She is older and doesn't have much time to take care of the children. Let her learn from the second bedroom and leave the younger one to the one above.
Brother."
"That depends on how well Brother Shou and Brother Kang have been educated."
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Anyway, it's not his own business, Li Wenchong doesn't care whether Mrs. Yao can be reborn or not.
If this could make Gu Qingling feel at ease, he would be happy to let Mrs. Yao suffer again.
The next day, Yao Anling happily moved into Prince Chong's Mansion with all her parcels packed.
As expected, Gu Qingling prepared a separate courtyard for her, which was very close to Yao Jiuye's courtyard. The uncle and nephew could bump into each other and talk if they had nothing to do.
Of course, since Prince Chong's residence has a female family member, it is inconvenient for Yao Jiuye to invite the prince to his house as a guest.
Fortunately, they have their own "Natural History" and there is a gathering place there, so there is no need to worry too much.
Some people were also curious about Master Yao Jiu's "eldest niece" and asked him what kind of person Miss Yao Si was.
Yao Jiuye rolled his eyes: "Go, go, stop asking about my niece. Who knows the rules when asking about other people's women?"
Someone said with a playful smile: "Hey hey hey... these guys are still single, right? Let me help you guys think about it. After all, we are young talents, why don't we call you nephew?"
"Let's go to the martial arts training ground to show off."
The people on the side listened and quickly encouraged: "Go, go, go quickly. Whoever doesn't go is a puppy."
"Hahahaha... Who wants to go to the martial arts training ground? Take me with you, I will go too."
"This guy is thinking about my sister-in-law. Brother Can is angry."
"Oh, who is so bold as to dare to take advantage of Brother Can's sister-in-law? Isn't his sister-in-law already married?"
