In the evening, when Ding Ning came home from get off work, she found that Li Hao had brought a rare visitor to the house.
"This is Rong Chuqin, President of Rong Family, Mr. Rong, and this is my wife Ding Ning."
Ding Ning was startled. It wasn't that she didn't know this person, but why did the famous Mr. Rong come to her house?
Li Hao and Ding Ning are both doctors. They both work in highly confidential private hospitals and have extremely high professional ethics. Ding Ning only knows that three generations of Li Hao's family have worked in Rong's Hospital, and Li Hao only knows that his wife is a doctor.
Psychiatrists, although they can talk about cases, they never ask questions about patients.
Therefore, Rong Chuqin could only rely on his friendship with Li Hao to find Ding Ning in private.
"Are you Song Tang's husband?" When Rong Chuqin expressed his intention to come, Ding Ning felt incredible, "So, you are her husband! ... But Mr. Rong, we cannot reveal the patient's privacy, even if you are
her husband."
Li Hao raised his eyebrows, are you so disrespectful?
Ding Ning glared back at him, "Your face is worthless in front of professional ethics!"
Rong Chuqin said eagerly and sincerely: "Okay, then please tell me, as her husband and the closest person to her, what should I do to help her condition?"
Li Hao helped from the side, "Yes, yes, this can be said, right? Just tell him something that can say..."
Ding Ning rolled her eyes and gouged it out fiercely, and he was so cowardly that he suppressed what he said next.
Rong Chuqin also glanced over with a cold look. He didn't know who the man was who had just pledged his chest to him. Ha, it really fulfilled that sentence, a man's mouth is a liar!
Li Hao lowered his head and pressed the tip of his nose, adding tea to everyone, "Don't just talk, drink tea, drink tea..."
Ding Ning saw that Rong Chuqin was not as affectionate as what was reported on the Internet. Combined with Song Tang's description of her newlywed husband, she seemed to be standing in the vision of God and saw the whole thing more thoroughly.
The purpose of a doctor is to treat illnesses and save lives.
Moreover, for people suffering from emotional illness, the help of their family members is also very important.
Ding Ning turned to look at her husband and ordered: "Li Hao, go to the study and stay there. Don't come out unless I call you."
"Ah? I can't listen either?"
"What qualifications do you, an outsider, have to listen to my patient's privacy?"
"..."
Rong Chuqin smiled and said nothing. It turned out that Dr. Li Hao, who often threatened people with a scalpel, was so cowardly in front of his wife.
Li Hao stood up and prepared to go to the study. He emphasized, "I happen to have a case to study, so I'll go and get busy. Don't call me if you have nothing to do."
Ding Ning: "Go in, there's so much nonsense!"
Li Hao: "..."
The tea was a little cold, so Ding Ning added hot water, "It's light tea. Drinking a little won't affect your sleep."
"Thanks."
As soon as Li Hao left, Ding Ning spoke more freely and used more direct words, "You are much more handsome in person than in the photos. No wonder Song Tang couldn't forget you for seven years."
Rong Chuqin was stunned. It was an accident, a surprise, and the greatest luck.
"Seven years ago when you broke up, she relapsed once."
His brows immediately furrowed. This simple sentence dug another piece of flesh into Rong Chuqin's heart, causing him pain.
Ding Ning took a sip of hot tea and Xu Xu said: "She experienced a car accident when she was a child. She suffered from post-traumatic stress disorder and was aphasic for a period of time. However, as she grew older, she gradually improved. Seven years ago
After experiencing a love break, she had insomnia every day. At night, she would think of the scene of the car accident and would uncontrollably self-harm, so she came to me. At that time, I thought her condition was not serious, so I only gave her some
She was able to fall asleep, her mood stabilized, and her condition was quickly under control."
Maybe it’s because he has seen too many cases, but Ding Ning’s words were emotionless and her expression was very objective.
But to Rong Chuqin's ears, every word was filled with tears and every sentence was filled with tears. It turned out that she had relapsed seven years ago because of him.
"Later, she went to college in Haicheng and came to see me three or four times intermittently. She regarded me as a friend and shared some interesting things with me every time she came. In my opinion, she has recovered."
"But today, she came to see me, and I saw that her condition was particularly bad. The injury on her finger was caused by buckling the cement flower bed herself. She said that she had no control at all at the time, which was a kind of self-mutilation. I asked her what
What happened before this? She said that her husband accidentally ate coriander and was severely allergic. When her husband was pushed to the emergency room, she sat outside and the scene of the car accident when she was a child reappeared in her mind. Obviously, that car accident
It’s the allergen, and you’re the trigger.”
The more Rong Chuqin listened, the more he blamed himself, and the more he listened, the more distressed he became.
"She has clearly shown signs of self-mutilation, so I prescribed some medicine to her to see how it goes."
Rong Chuqin opened his lips and asked with difficulty: "What can I do?"
Ding Ning spread her hands and said, "For now, it seems that as long as nothing happens to you, it will be fine. The two times she got sick were both caused by great mood swings because of you."
Rong Chuqin clenched his fists and smiled bitterly.
Seeing his helpless look, Ding Ning added, "Mr. Rong, Song Tang told me today that she feels that you love her very much, and she also wants to love you, but she doesn't know how to love you."
Rong Chuqin looked confused. He didn't know whether this news was good or bad, whether it was worth being happy or not.
"I think her symptoms are still manifestations of post-traumatic stress disorder. She has emotional problems. In layman's terms, she has lost the ability to love someone."
"..."
Both parties fell silent. Ding Ning was a psychiatrist and she knew that Rong Chuqin needed time to digest the information.
After a long time, Rong Chuqin seemed to have adjusted his emotions, his eyes were firm, his expression was calm, and he said very calmly: "It doesn't matter, I just love her."
Even if she never gets an equal response, even if she never falls in love with him again.
Ding Ning: "She wants to secretly cure the disease and give you a normal wife. Therefore, I speculate that she really wants to love you, but she is ill and the hardware conditions do not allow it."
Rong Chuqin: "Will her disease have any impact on herself?"
Ding Ning shook her head, "It's hard to say. At present, it seems that as long as she doesn't relapse, she can live a normal life. If you consider having children, you have to wait for her condition to stabilize for at least a year."
Rong Chuqin: "Is there any treatment method? Will it be uncomfortable during treatment?"
Ding Ning: "There are many treatment methods. This depends on the specific analysis of the specific problem. As for whether it is uncomfortable or not, it also depends on the patient. For example, with hypnosis, we will let the patient face the thing that scares him directly. Some patients
Once you cross it, spring will bloom, but some patients cannot cross it and need to be woken up in time, which will make them more painful afterwards."
Rong Chuqin's brows that had just relaxed were frowned again.
"If you really want to do something, then make her happy." Ding Ning finally asked.