"No, no, no, that's not what I meant." Ma Xiaoli waved her hands quickly and said, "The children are all in school. The younger one is in preschool, and his brother picks him up and drops him off. I usually just give the children a meal, and it's the same with or without me."
"If I go abroad, how long will it take?"
She said that the child would be the same with or without her, but she was still worried that her child would suffer if she was away for too long.
Children are different from adults in that they can cry and make noises. Even the most sensible children can't do it without adults at home.
After hearing this, Shen Man replied: "The fastest is half a month, but you have to be prepared to return to China in a month."
She hasn't been there either, so she doesn't know. No one knows the specific situation at this time. Wouldn't it be disturbing if she said it was too accurate and couldn't come back?
When she heard about one month, Ma Xiaoli looked hesitant. But she thought a lot. At the age of thirty, if she didn't go out to see the world at this time, she might not have a chance in the future.
Thinking of this, she nodded in agreement, "I'll go!"
Shen Man was surprised by her decision, but this was the best result. If someone else was asked to go, something might happen and no one would be on his side.
"Okay, just make up your mind. I'll make arrangements at home in the next two days, but I don't know when I'll leave, so just be ready to leave at any time."
The two of them agreed, and Shen Man would report it to Director Zheng.
Nowadays, if entry and exit requirements require a certain level, the factory will register those leaving the country at the entry and exit train station and then buy tickets.
A letter of introduction is required in China, and this also needs to be prepared in advance.
Shen Man returned home in the afternoon and was going to talk to Gu Chen about this matter.
When she got off work, Li Jinhua had already finished cooking, and Gu Nan was sitting alone at the dining table, looking at the food on the table in a daze.
"What are you thinking about? So obsessed?" Shen Man sat next to her, while Gu Dacheng was coaxing his children to play in the room.
Li Jinhua was not here either, so she planned to talk to this girl.
Hearing the noise, Gu Nan turned back to look at her and said, "Second sister-in-law, why do you think it's so difficult to be with the person you like?"
In fact, she understands what her parents are against. People like gangsters are really unpleasant. Even in the countryside, everyone calls for beatings.
But she felt that Liu Huaqiang was different. He was not only kind to her, but also considerate.
Shen Man thought for a while and decided to enlighten her and replied: "This is not absolute. As long as he becomes good enough, his parents will consider your feelings."
"No parent wants to break up with their children. Do you think it's right to break up with your parents who have raised you for more than 20 years because of a man?"
These words made Gu Nan fall into deep thought. She had never considered it before and just wanted to be with Liu Huaqiang. Even if everyone disliked him, if she could see the advantages of Liu Huaqiang, others would eventually discover it one day.
Seeing that she was silent, Shen Man continued: "There is nothing wrong with loving someone. Although Liu Huaqiang is a gangster, you can't deny him because of this. I can see that he has made changes for you, so this person can't be too bad."
"That's right!" Gu Nan immediately became happy when he heard her compliment: "Second sister-in-law, you are the only one in our family who can see clearly."
But Shen Man shook his head helplessly, "Nannan, since he has made changes for you, it shows that your position in his heart is very important."
"And what you have to do now is to wait quietly for him to get better and get his parents to approve him. Instead of trying to trick them to get them to approve of this person, this will not help you, but will make Liu Huaqiang more important to his parents. The price drops in my heart, do you understand?"
As an outsider, she could see clearly. She didn't care before because Gu Chen didn't say anything. If she said it as a sister-in-law, I'm afraid Gu Nan would feel alienated.
It's different now. Li Jinhua and his wife have already educated them, and they can just enlighten themselves a little more.
If these words had been said before, I'm afraid Gu Nan wouldn't have taken them seriously.
Most women in love have no IQ, this is a fact.
Otherwise, Gu Nan would not have thought of such a bad idea, and no one would have agreed to his daughter being abused like this.
Hearing this, Gu Nan fell silent. She felt that what Shen Man said was very reasonable. Liu Huaqiang had also said before that just let her wait, and things would change soon.
But she was a little impatient and that's why she did such a thing.
Thinking of this, Gu Nan raised his head and said: "Second sister-in-law, thank you for telling me this. I understand what you mean. If I think of other crooked ideas, it will only make my parents think that Liu Huaqiang is not good and that I am too extreme." Already."
After all, he is a child, and it is not easy to turn around at this time.
Shen Man smiled and patted her shoulder, "I think he is making progress, so just wait quietly."
It was difficult to eat enough at this time, so she did not think that Liu Huaqiang became a gangster because of his hobby.
If you don't have a job, you have to eat what you have at home and don't think of ways to make money. This is impossible.
So, he must have his own reasons.
At the end of the conversation, Li Jinhua came out of the kitchen with the food. She also heard it, but she never made a sound.
Having come from this age, she knew that pushing Gu Nan too hard could easily be self-defeating, so Shen Man was similar in age to her daughter, so it was best to persuade her.
At first, she wanted to find an opportunity for Shen Man to enlighten her, but in the end, the man himself came to enlighten her, and the timing was just right.
As expected of a college student, his behavior is different from that of ordinary people.
Unlike Gu Nan, who knows how to reject his parents and treat them as enemies.
After going out to eat, Gu Dacheng didn't look as ugly as before. Apparently he also heard these words.
No way, the soundproofing of this kind of house is not very good, so normal speech can be heard unless whispered.
Gu Nan's heart was relieved, and her food tasted delicious. Because of this, she hadn't had a good meal in the past few days.
Seeing this child being so heartless, Li Jinhua was so angry that her tooth ached. Why was this child different from normal people?
Thinking of this, she was also very helpless. She had been like this since she was a child, and she didn't expect this child to be any smarter.
Gu Chen came back very late in the evening, smelling of alcohol on his body. When he came back, he went into the house to wash up and change clothes. He made sure that there was no alcohol smell on his body, and then he came back to sleep.
"Daughter-in-law." He got into bed and pulled Shen Man over and held her in his arms.
Shen Man struggled twice, then looked at the sleeping child and whispered, "I have something to tell you."
"What's the matter? I don't care about big things. I don't have to worry about small things." Gu Chen smiled playfully.
Don't tell me, Shen Man likes him like this. Even though the two of them are married and have children, they can't become as ordinary as water.
A marriage without love is worse than living alone. She cannot agree with those who say that there is family affection without love.
It's ridiculous for two people who are not related by blood to get together and develop a relationship from love.
Thinking of this, she turned around and hugged Gu Chen: "Our factory will send me abroad to buy machinery. It will take about a month."