Similar to the previous response, the other party still seemed not to explain anything to him this time. He just shook his head and sighed, and finally said something in a complicated tone: "Hey, you know, if those two guys really accept you,
If they really treat you as a companion and teammate, then they will never come to you to express their gratitude."
"this……"
After hearing this, the answer is revealed, and Chen Xiaoyao's words are really profound. If you recall carefully, you will find that although senior people often helped each other when performing tasks in the past, they rarely thanked each other, even for saving lives.
Well, everyone has never expressed anything. The typical example is He Fei. First of all, it can be determined that college students have extraordinary abilities. Many times, any
He was also the one who found out the way to work. This is the reality. However, the strange thing is that every time when the mission is over and we return to the train, everyone knows who deserves the credit, but no one has ever thanked He Fei. He Fei is like this, and among other senior people
The same is true, it may seem weird and surprising, but the real answer comes from trust, from the mutual trust that has been established among senior people!
Yes, there is mutual trust and interdependence. It is precisely because everyone has known each other for a long time that senior people have established a partnership where they can trust each other and trust each other. The relationship bond comes from both time accumulation and He Fei.
Personality charm belongs to the team cohesion built under He Fei's personal cultivation. In other words, it is easy for a newcomer to join the team. However, if you want to truly integrate into the team, truly integrate into the collective, and even be completely absorbed and accepted by all senior members,
The process is far from easy.
………
When it comes to cohesion, you can't get around He Fei, the team leader. I have to say that He Fei's charisma is indeed extraordinary. He has done a lot of things. It is he who links everyone together and who uses his time to wipe out
It was he who personally knitted this loose team, which had been difficult to trust each other, into a unified group after all members had their own differences. It was also he who led everyone to persevere until now.
how so?
Why go to great lengths to unite everyone?
The reason is extremely simple, because this is a cursed space, and the dangers here are comparable to hell. He Fei understands that it is impossible for a single person to survive for too long in a place where one may lose his life at any time. If the members do not trust each other, it will be difficult to persevere.
, the key lies in unity, and unity is the only way to effectively resist
The best way to deal with danger, the word 'unity' is easy to say, but in fact it is extremely difficult to do. After all, the train members are all forced by the curse, and they don't know each other in the first place, let alone trust each other? The most important thing between people is
What is difficult to achieve is trust, which has been clearly shown in many movies and TV shows or in reality.
As the so-called superficial brothers, they usually enjoy calling themselves brothers and sisters, but once a disaster strikes, it is not uncommon for them to be wary of betraying each other. When a crisis comes, not many teams can trust each other, but He Fei miraculously did it. He set an example by leading by example.
, whenever danger comes, he will do his best to protect and rescue those teammates who are recognized by him. Friendship takes time to accumulate, and so does trust. As the acquaintance grows longer, and as time goes by, everyone gradually knows who is following.
Fei can rest assured that the other party will not betray you
, will not cheat you or use you as a stepping stone. Under his leadership, you can safely leave your back to him and do what you should do. He Fei is like this, and other senior people are also cultivated in the same way.
trust, and finally, a team that is both cohesive and trustworthy was born
, the relationship between senior people is all partnership. They all know that once they are in danger, other partners will definitely try their best to rescue them, and vice versa. This is He Fei's unique personality charm, and this is also why Ye Wei did it in the first place.
The reason for choosing this person as his successor.
Since we are partners, it is basically unnecessary for partners to say "thank you" to each other.
To give a real example, for example, in the last "Undead Pursuit" mission, Chen Xiaoyao risked his life the whole time to protect Peng Hu and Cheng Ying. In order to protect the two of them, Chen Daoshi once stayed in the hospital and refused to run away.
Knowing that the worm is coming, he bravely blocks it with his hands
In front of the operating room, this move can be described as loyalty, but unexpectedly after returning, the two of them never thanked him from beginning to end. Chen Xiaoyao himself also did not take it seriously. The reason is easy to understand, because he knew in his heart that if it were replaced by
When he encounters danger, the two of them will do whatever it takes to save themselves.
This is a partner, this is a true teammate, and this is what Chen Xiaoyao said above.
After hearing this, Li Tianheng understood, completely understood. Maybe he was a little confused at first, but so what? As a person who is well versed in human affairs, he roughly understood what the other party meant after just some reflection and reflection.
It's a pity...
It is true that partners trust each other and depend on each other, but senior people cannot easily accept newcomers who are not familiar with them. Even if a newcomer does something beneficial to the team, it will only increase the senior person's personal evaluation.
, it still takes a period of contact and observation to gain complete trust. Since we are not planning to accept new people for the time being, out of politeness, we will definitely come here to express our gratitude at this time, just like Peng Hu and Cheng Ying did just now.
"So that's it, that's it, no wonder, no wonder..."
With a look of sudden enlightenment and muttering to himself, Li Tianheng figured out the meaning of Chen Xiaoyao's words, and at the same time also understood the inexplicable instructions He Fei casually gave before leaving yesterday:
"Oh, by the way, I hope you can gain recognition from other members as soon as possible."
It turned out that this was what the other party meant. At first, he just regarded it as a word of encouragement. He never thought that it would be like this. If Chen Xiaoyao hadn't reminded himself intentionally just now...
For a while, Li Tianheng just sat silently on the sofa. Seeing this, Chen Xiaoyao did not disturb him, but got up and left his seat and walked to the kitchen. Not long after, he returned to the living room with a bottle of juice, pacing back while looking up and drinking.
But at this moment...
Hooray!
Suddenly, Li Tianheng, who had been silent for a long time, suddenly stood up and jumped out of his seat. Because the movement was so sudden, Chen Xiaoyao was startled. The juice that he had not swallowed even gushed out on the spot!
"puff!"
"Cough! Cough! Cough! I...fuck you! What's wrong with you? Cough!"
Sure enough, after being choked by Leng Buding, Chen Taoist was immediately furious. He coughed and shouted at Li Tianheng. Unfortunately, Li Tianheng didn't pay attention. Instead, he raised his head and thanked him in a solemn tone: "I understand. Thank you Chen Ge for coming to tell me."
So much, I know what to do.”
After personally experiencing a supernatural mission, Li Tianheng fully understood how difficult it was to survive in the cursed space for a long time. He didn't want to die, so integrating into the team as soon as possible and gaining recognition from everyone was the first key. Yes, recognition can only be obtained by senior people
Once they recognize your character and value, senior people will be willing to save you once you are in danger. Otherwise, you will undoubtedly end up like the Hong Kong man named Huang Tianxiang.
The man with glasses deliberately tricked him!
Yes, during the mission, Li Tianheng received a call from Cheng Ying. On the phone, Li Tianheng explained Zhao Ping's request in a cold tone. It is conceivable that he did not dare to disobey Cheng Ying's order, so he had to comply with the request.
He started lying, and when he received a call from Huang Tianxiang asking about
He made up lies. Although he didn't know what happened to Huang Tianxiang after the mission was over, when he returned to the train after searching for a long time without finding Huang Tianxiang, he believed it. He not only believed that the other party had died in the mission world but also confirmed that Huang Tianxiang was dead.
Tianxiang's death is inseparable from Zhao Ping.
A newcomer who is not recognized by the seniors will often end up badly. Even if most people have no ill intentions toward you, they will not take risks to save you. What's more, there is a man with glasses in the team who doesn't seem to have bad intentions towards the newcomer.
.
………
"I understand. Thank you Chen Ge for telling me so much. I know what to do."
After listening to Li Tianheng's solemn thank you, Chen Xiaoyao smiled, immediately grinned and waved his hand in response: "Hey, there's no need to thank you, brother Li, to be honest, I'm very optimistic about you, regardless of how others think of you, at least I personally
Already took you
We become buddies, and your ferocious drive to not let up at critical moments is indeed beyond the reach of ordinary people. Of course, the above is only one aspect. As for the other aspect, I feel that you are somewhat similar to a friend I once had.
"
For some reason, when Chen Xiaoyao mentioned his former buddy, Chen Xiaoyao's smiling face changed slightly, and he inadvertently showed a trace of loss, a fleeting and obscure loss.
Li Tianheng was very happy to learn that besides He Fei, another senior member of the team had recognized him face to face. After all, in his personal impression, both He Fei and Chen Xiaoyao were both very powerful and extraordinary, and they were able to obtain both of them one after another.
How could he not be happy with the recognition? How could he not be happy? It’s just...
What does the end of Chen Xiaoyao's words mean? Why does he say that he is very similar to one of his friends?
"Um, who is your friend?"
Listening to the glitchy young man's curious questions, Chen Xiaoyao did not answer. Instead, he changed the subject and reached into his pocket. Under the gaze of Li Tianheng's eyes, which were getting wider and wider, he took out a box of game cards. A box called "Monopoly"
'Fun games!
Ignoring the problem, the young man was dumbfounded and shook the paper box in his hand. Taoist Chen showed a mean smile and asked: "Forget it, forget it, let's not talk about the past. Come on, come on. Pindao, here is a box of 'Monopoly'. You can do it now."
Follow me to find He Fei, I have nothing to do anyway, let’s have a game between the three of us!”
"Eh? What is your look like? Why are you looking at me like that? Without further ado, just tell me whether you are going or not. If you don't go, you won't give me Chen Xiaoyao face!"