Time is passing, and the disturbances continue, but no one can stop the passage of time.
Unconsciously, a year has passed since the first uncle Yi Zhonghai divorced Jia Zhang.
A year can change a lot of people, and with the surging trends, courtyards are also being disturbed.
Especially the second uncle Liu Haizhong, who took advantage of the trend when the first uncle Yi Zhonghai "lost power" and finally became an official.
Instigated by his sons Liu Guangtian and Liu Guangfu, the second uncle Liu Haizhong created a storm in the courtyard.
Not to mention the third uncle Yan Bugui, because of his status as a teacher, he tried to minimize his presence.
On this day, Lin Jiaguo, who had just gotten off work, looked used to seeing Bangge and the others rushing out of the courtyard.
Under the overall situation, many situations are happening, and Bangge and the others are the kind of people who are so prosperous that they can't control them.
After returning to the house and watching the children having fun in the house, Lin Jiaguo felt more comfortable.
"Jiaguo, your factory has not been affected, right?" Tong Li asked when she saw Lin Jiaguo coming back. She looked a little sad while hugging her four fat children.
Stop work, resume work, stop work again...
Going back and forth, intermittently, gave Tong Li a headache.
"Aunt Tong, our factory is fine." Lin Jiaguo knew that this wave of work stoppages would end soon, but he couldn't explain it.
"That's not bad." Tong Li breathed a sigh of relief obviously. As for this big family, if Lin Jiaguo and Lin Dafu really lost their stable income, they would be desperate.
"It's a mess. I don't know when it will calm down." Li Xiuzhi sighed softly and continued: "I went to buy groceries today and saw three fights along the way."
"Just try to be careful." Lin Jiaguo sat down, picked up his son, and said with a smile: "Now the people in the same alley are divided into several gangs, and they will make trouble if they disagree, but it will be fine soon."
"I hope so." Tong Li smiled bitterly and said, "Xiaoya and the others were also affected when they went to school. I hope they can be as peaceful as possible."
After talking for a while, Lin Jiaguo went to cook. When the old lady came back with the three boys, Lin Dafu also came back.
After preparing the meal, the family started to eat. Before they finished eating, they heard a quarrel.
The family didn't react much, obviously they were used to it.
"If Xu Damao and Yu Haitang continue to quarrel like this, it won't last long." Tong Li sighed, Lin Dafu shook his head and said: "Yu Li is pregnant, Qin Lian is pregnant again,
There has been no movement in Haitang, so it’s strange that Xu Damao is not in a hurry.”
Lin Jiaguo nodded slightly, Xu Damao was not a dedicated person to begin with.
One year is enough to change a lot. The Jia Zhang family became less noisy and became colder.
The first uncle Yi Zhonghai also adopted a child, but his adoption method was different. He found a family with many children, and after obtaining the consent of the parents, he used part of his salary to help raise a child. When the child grew up, he also adopted a child.
His relative.
Regarding this method, people in the hospital had everything they could say. Some said that the eldest father, Yi Zhonghai, probably did not plan to remarry because he was afraid that he would not be able to take care of the children by himself, so he chose this reliable method.
Some people also say that the eldest brother Yi Zhonghai will end up with nothing in the end, because it is not known whether he will appreciate his love in the future. After all, the child is not raised by his side, and there is no emotional foundation.
The child has come to the courtyard a few times to recognize the door. The rest will have to be verified over time.
Apart from these people, the ones who have changed the most are Xu Damao and Yu Haitang.
Since Yu Li got pregnant half a year ago, Xu Damao started to explode. Then when Sha Zhu's daughter-in-law Qin Lian followed closely and became pregnant again, Xu Damao's mentality collapsed.
There was a small quarrel every day, and a big quarrel every three days, which made Sha Zhu even dare not irritate Xu Damao.
"I heard from Yu Haitang that both of them went to the hospital for examination, but there is no definite answer." Li Xiuzhi said while letting the fat man sit up straight to eat. Lin Jiaguo next to him saw that the two fat men and the three fat men were all
He looked excited and couldn't help but laugh: "Hospitals are not omnipotent."
The development of medical technology takes time. Infertility in men and women is caused by the will of various bodies. Let alone now, even decades later, it will be necessary to use various equipment to check before the problem can be determined.
At this stage, there are too few medical equipment available. If the doctor is very skilled, it is still possible to find the cause.
If there is really something wrong with Xu Damao's health and the doctors at the hospital cannot find out the source, then this matter will become a "suspense" in a short time.
"So now both of them are accusing each other of having health problems." Li Xiuzhi shrugged and curled her lips and said, "If you ask me, I think it is much more likely that Xu Damao has health problems."
Lin Jiaguo shook his head and laughed. This statement was also based on realistic judgment. Who said that among Xu Damao's ex-wives, except Jia Hong, who was unfamiliar with them and did not know the situation, everyone else had already settled down.
For this reason, Xu Damao also had a guilty conscience. He kept making troubles and making troubles, but he softened once Yu Haitang proposed a breakup.
Now Xu Damao is unwilling and helpless, making himself very sensitive.
While the family was discussing here, in the backyard, Yu Haitang looked at the drunken Xu Damao and couldn't get rid of his anger.
In the past six months, Xu Damao didn't come home very often, and seven out of ten times when he came home, he was drunk.
When he comes home drunk, he will go to bed immediately unless he is extremely drunk. If he is only a little drunk, he will quickly bring up the topic of the child, and then it will be time for the two of them to quarrel.
When quarreling became a habit, Yu Haitang was fed up. This was very different from the love and family she expected.
Especially every time there was a quarrel, the lack of children would become the source of the outbreak, and Yu Haitang was even more furious.
In order to make less noise, Yu Haitang went to the hospital for a check-up. The doctor said that there was a high probability that there was nothing wrong with her health.
Since it is a high probability, it means there is no problem.
This is what she thinks, and she is more willing to extend her thinking from this aspect, especially Xu Damao. Although the doctor's examination did not find any problems, didn't he also add, "We have some diseases now for which we cannot find out the cause."
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From Yu Haitang's perspective, it was Xu Damao who had the problem, because she could find a bunch of reasons.
As for Xu Damao, he naturally didn't want to believe that it was because of his own health. He insisted that it was because of her and Yu Haitang. Every quarrel was now so common that people in the courtyard were used to it and didn't want to take a look at it.
Yu Haitang was fed up with Xu Damao now, and even more fed up with the bad life she was living now. After the quarrel, she filed for divorce, but Xu Damao reacted very quickly. Every time he brought up this topic, he would stop talking.
She didn't know how long she could hold on. When she thought of releasing her sister Yu Li's advice, she regretted her recklessness.
When comparing the current living conditions of her classmate He Yuyu, she felt even more sad.
"Xu Damao, there is nothing left to say between us. If you want to live a good life, then don't argue all day long. If you don't want to live a happy life, then leave."
Yu Haitang has said such words in anger many times, but now he can say them calmly, and this calmness is not a kind of indifference.
"Fuck you!" Xu Damao snorted coldly. His face was already red after drinking, but when he got excited again, his face became even redder. He pointed at Yu Haitang and said dissatisfied: "Yu Haitang, don't even think about looking at me.
Joke, I tell you, no one wants to see my joke."
"You can't do it, Silly Zhu can't do it, and the other people in the courtyard can't do it either."
The more he spoke, the more excited he became. The anger on Xu Damao's face seemed to have reached its limit. He stared at Yu Haitang and said, "You all want to see my joke, but I won't let you see it."
"Si Zhu has only given birth to one and a half babies now. I will have more babies than him in the future, no, twice as many as him."
Xu Damao was so drunk that he could no longer control his behavior and made a fuss. He vented his inner dissatisfaction wantonly and looked forward to his future without restraint.
Yu Haitang was used to it, so she sat down and looked at this person with disdain.
There is gold and jade on the outside, but there is decay on the inside!
Yu Haitang had a more thorough understanding of this word. At this time, Xu Damao looked a bit like when she first met him.
When Xu Damao was tired from talking, or perhaps the alcohol had numbed his nerves, he lay on the bed and soon began to snore.
Yu Haitang took a long breath and ran out of the house as if she wanted to escape from a prison. When she came outside, she felt as if she had been resurrected.
Treating the gazes on her as normal, Yu Haitang came to the front yard and looked at her sister Yu Li's pregnant belly. She felt sad and almost couldn't help crying.
Every time she tried to make herself stronger, but every time she couldn't help it, she became more sensitive.
"Just say it if you're not feeling well, I'll listen." Yu Li's tone was calm with a hint of helplessness. Yu Haitang said before that she didn't want to be a caged bird, but now she feels like a caged bird more than anyone else.
"I didn't say that." Yu Haitang exhaled and replied, reaching out to touch her sister's belly through her clothes.
"Everyone has their own suffering, it's just different from each other." Yu Li consoled her and lowered her voice and said: "I am suffering the same way, look at my father-in-law and mother-in-law, their shrewd calculations are also causing trouble."
When Yu Haitang heard this, he seemed to feel much better. He curled his lips and said, "What are you going to do again? Aren't we all separated?"
"It's not like you don't know my father-in-law's situation. Now he almost pretends to be a grandson in the yard. Faced with this situation, his calculations are even more meticulous."
"Jie Kuang, Jiefang, and Jie Di are often mentioned, and the whole family seems to be almost set on fire by a spark."
Yu Li's complaints made Yu Haitang couldn't help laughing, and sighed: "As for the wives in this courtyard, Li Xiuzhi is in the best situation."
"The old woman has a strong body and helps share the pressure of raising her children, not to mention her parents-in-law. Her salary in turn subsidizes her to support the family."
"Even my sister-in-law is sensible and doesn't make any noise at all. Sister, why do you think her life is so good?"
The more she talked about comparisons, the sadder Yu Haitang became. Yu Li rolled her eyes at her and said angrily: "Who told you to be blind!"
"You didn't know what kind of man you wanted to choose at the beginning, but you chose Xu Damao. You can't even persuade him."
Upon hearing this, Yu Haitang was extremely embarrassed. Yu Li said a few words and stopped mentioning the matter. Instead, she changed the topic and said: "Tell me, what do you think? In your situation, how can you survive?"
I'm not sure how long the couple will live together."
Yu Haitang fell silent. She knew her sister's worries. After being silent for a while, she raised her head and said seriously: "I want to give Xu Damao another half year. If I get pregnant in this half year, most of the problem will be solved."
"If there is still no movement and Xu Damao continues to make trouble, then I will choose divorce."
Yu Li listened calmly and did not give her own suggestions. Finally, she sighed, patted Yu Haitang's hand and said, "Go and help me wash the vegetables. Let's eat here later."