Chapter 388 The First Master Yi Zhonghai’s Thoughts on Bangge’s Marriage
"I can't solve the problem." Qin Huairu became distressed. She also saw that her son was becoming more and more extreme. He would get angry if he said the wrong words.
If this continues, she also knows that some things will not be stable.
"Master, do you have any ideas? I know you really care about him."
Qin Huairu asked, and the first man, Yi Zhonghai, smoked a cigarette and looked hesitant.
The best way is to let Banggeng leave and go somewhere a little further away.
A new place, a new beginning, and no one would point fingers at him then.
But when I think of Bangge's current state, who knows what will happen if he is left unattended.
The hesitant elder Yi Zhonghai told Qin Huairu his idea. When Qin Huairu heard it, she immediately felt that it was not possible. At this time, she was not at all worried about letting Banggeng leave.
"Master, please think of other ways." Qin Huairu said bitterly: "As soon as he left, I became even more worried. As you know, he is already impatient. Now that something has happened, he is even more impatient.
Already."
The first uncle Yi Zhonghai knew that what Qin Huairu said was true, otherwise he would not have persuaded him to stay after the stick story came out.
"Then do you mind something?" The first uncle Yi Zhonghai asked Qin Huairu first. He had some ideas, but he was not sure whether he could talk about Bangge and Qin Huairu.
"Master, please explain it more clearly. I don't understand." Qin Huairu was confused by the question and didn't know what Master Yi Zhonghai meant.
After taking a few puffs of cigarette, the elder Yi Zhonghai said: "My idea is to let Banggen find a partner to start a family."
"As long as we have a family, some problems won't be a problem."
"Getting married?" Qin Huairu was confused. Can Bangge go on a blind date at this time?
When she came back to her senses, she looked at the face of the first uncle Yi Zhonghai again. She thought of what the first uncle Yi Zhonghai had just said when he asked her if she minded something, and her expression changed slightly.
"Master, you don't want to introduce Banggeng to someone with a family, do you?"
Qin Huairu's expression changed again and again. At this time, the conditions for being able to live together with General Banggeng were not very good.
"Then how long do you think Banggeng will be delayed?" Yi Zhonghai, the first man, saw Qin Huairu's fierce reaction and said in an inexplicable tone: "Banggeng has a certain reputation now, and he can't change it even if he wants to change it in the future."
"I originally wanted to wait a few years before thinking of some solutions, but now Bangge is so sensitive, what do you think I should do?"
"But you can't ask someone to take care of you." Qin Huairu's expression turned bitter. She knew how she had gotten through these years, and she didn't want BangGeng to get involved in something.
"It doesn't necessarily mean dragging the family with you." Yi Zhonghai took a puff of cigarette and said to Qin Huairu: "It's not that there are always difficulties in choosing a partner for some reasons. If you keep this matter in mind, you can always find the right one.
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Qin Huairu was silent. She knew what Yi Zhonghai meant when he said it was difficult to choose a partner due to some reasons. It was nothing more than physical defects.
"Don't think that I will harm Bangge. In fact, you already know some things in your mind, but you just don't want to think about it deeply."
The first uncle Yi Zhonghai directly revealed the thing that Qin Huairu wanted to think about the most in his heart, and Qin Huairu's expression changed again.
After a while, Qin Huairu smiled bitterly again, and she understood that what Yi Zhonghai said was the truth.
Three months after Banggeng came in, Qin Huairu didn't have much confidence in Banggeng's marriage deep down. Although she had fantasized about some possibilities, the actual situation made her extremely sure that Banggeng's marriage was really going to happen.
It's a big problem.
"Master, I have to think about it, don't mind." Qin Huairu said and went out of the room. She was confused now and didn't know how to tell this to Master Yi Zhonghai.
Grandpa Yi Zhonghai also knows that this matter is not so easy to make a decision. After all, Qin Huairu, as Banggeng’s mother, certainly hopes that Banggeng’s life will be better and better, instead of letting Banggeng do something unwillingly from the beginning.
wishful things.
Qin Huairu returned to the house, and the more she thought about it, the more irritated she became. On the one hand, she had beautiful thoughts about her son's future, and on the other hand, she faced the naked reality. Inexplicably, she felt a little panicked in her heart.
When Guihua came back and saw her mother looking irritable, she asked why.
Qin Huairu looked at her daughter, thought about it, and then told her about the matter, wanting to hear her thoughts.
After hearing this, Guihua fell silent. After a while, she said: "Mom, you should ask my brother about this first. If he is not willing, no matter how much you think about it, what's the use?
"
At this time, Qin Huairu heard the meaning of recognition in her daughter's words, and she felt a surge of anger in her heart, like a nameless fire.
"Guihua, in your eyes, is your brother's marriage such a big problem?"
Mom Qin Huairu's tone was angry, which Guihua could hear and see. Her expression remained unchanged and her tone was calm: "Mom, others don't care how my brother got there for three months. In their eyes,
It’s just my brother who went in.”
"Don't think that as time goes by, no one will mention this matter. This kind of thing will follow my brother for the rest of his life."
"A kind-hearted person will not mention this matter when in contact with my brother. A bad-hearted person may mention this matter often. I hope there will be more and more stories about my brother."
After saying this, Guihua's expression changed, and she smiled bitterly and said: "Mom, you are angry and have fire in your heart, I know it."
"Actually, you know very well that my second sister left for some reason."
"You asked me to move out of this courtyard, weren't you thinking about something?"
As she spoke, Guihua looked at her mother and continued: "You hope that my brother will get better and better in the future. We all know that, but some things cannot be solved just by thinking about it."
"If my brother is willing, it might be a good idea to find someone with a personality that suits him."
"As long as a girl has good conduct, can't she help support a family?"
Listening to Guihua's words, the unknown fire in Qin Huairu's heart immediately dissipated. She looked at her daughter and said with a bitter smile: "Mom shouldn't be angry with you. I'd better think about it again."
Guihua doesn't want to say much. Some things can't be solved by just saying a few words.
At night, Qin Huairu tossed and turned and couldn't sleep. She had several thoughts in her mind that made her unable to stop thinking about them whenever she closed her eyes.
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Regarding this matter, both Yi Zhonghai and Qin Huairu chose not to mention it to Banggeng for the time being. Banggeng also felt uncomfortable day by day because of some things and did not pay attention to some things.
On this day, Lin Jiaguo happened to come to the branch that Hu Kui was in charge of to do something. When he saw Banggeng delivering the food, he quarreled a little with someone. He walked over and asked a few people to leave.
Lin Jiaguo pulled Banggan out of the warehouse and went outside. He handed Banggan the cigarette. After Banggan took it, the two of them lit it.
"Uncle Lin, I don't want to do it anymore." Banggeng said with a somewhat gloomy look. Lin Jiaguo blew out a puff of smoke, looked at him and said, "If you don't want to do it, what are you going to do?"
"BangGeng, you can't stay at home all day long. If you really do that, people will point fingers at you."
BangGeng's face turned ugly when he heard this. He knew that Lin Jiaguo was telling the truth.
"Uncle Lin, they say a person has a different face, but my life is very annoying now."
Banggan said with a very irritable tone, took a puff of cigarette and then said: "I want to go far away now, to a place where no one knows me."
At this time, Bangge didn't care at all about the reason for Yi Zhonghai's persuasion. His mother and grandma were going to have a quarrel when he left. Now he couldn't care less about it.
Lin Jiaguo didn't know how to persuade him. Some things were really a whirlpool for Bangge.
"You have to discuss this matter with your mother, and you have to tell her what you think, do you understand?"
Banggeng nodded after hearing this. He knew that Lin Jiaguo was worried that he would leave without saying goodbye.
The two exchanged a few words, and Bang Geng left first. Hu Kui came over and handed the cigarette to his master Lin Jiaguo. Just now he saw his master Lin Jiaguo and Bang Geng here.
"Don't feel embarrassed, you have done what you have to do, just let him go." Lin Jiaguo directly explained to his apprentice Hu Kui that there were some things that Hu Kui could not solve even if he was a relative.
Hu Kui nodded slightly and said helplessly: "Master, Jingru and I can only do what we can."
"As soon as the news came to Jingru's family, I didn't know how to explain it."
Lin Jiaguo also sighed slightly. Good things don't go out, and bad things spread thousands of miles. This is what they say.
"I'll tell Qin Huairu about this. Banggeng doesn't want to do it anymore. You go tell Qin Huairu here. She'll be embarrassed too."
"Yeah!" Hu Kui nodded slightly. Lin Jiaguo chatted with his apprentice for a while and then left first.
In the evening, Lin Jiaguo came to the courtyard here. After finding Qin Huairu, he told the matter.
"Sister Qin, please take more care of this matter. I can't help you here."
Qin Huairu immediately smiled bitterly when he heard this and said to Lin Jiaguo: "Jiaguo, please stop worrying about this. I'll have a good talk with him here."
Lin Jiaguo didn't say much. After saying hello to the people in the courtyard, he left the courtyard and went home.
After dinner, Qin Huairu came to Banggen's house. After closing the door, she asked her son Banggen's plan.
She knew that scolding wouldn't solve the problem, especially given Banggeng's current mentality. The more she scolded him, the less likely it would be to solve the problem, and it would only make him throw away his hands and leave.
Although Bangge didn't want to embarrass his mother, he really wanted to leave, leaving this place where he felt like everyone was pointing fingers at him.
After hearing her son's thoughts, Qin Huairu knew that her attempts to persuade him were of no use.
"Banggen, if mom introduces you to a blind date, would you be willing?" Qin Huairu thought about it and asked again. Banggen was about to leave, and she was worried. Uneasy, she still chose Yi Zhonghai.
Suggestions to talk to her.
Bangge was stunned when he heard what his mother said. At this time, would anyone go on a blind date with him?
"Mom, do you think this can be done?" Banggeng thought his mother was confused and wanted to use this method to persuade him to stay.
Qin Huairu looked at her son, her mouth opened and she didn't know what to say. Her tangled look made Banggian even more confused.
"Mom, you won't fool me, will you?" he asked. Qin Huairu thought about it and decided to tell Banggeng about it. Just like her daughter Guihua said, there are some things that Banggian cannot avoid.