Chapter 86 The suppression of seniority, the helplessness of some people
Originally, he was not familiar with him here. Most of the people he was familiar with before were almost dead. In addition, he had lost contact with him in recent years. For a while, Yi Zhonghai didn't know who to ask if he wanted to find someone.
Looking at these people, Yi Zhonghai knew that he couldn't bring up the adoption matter, otherwise the noise would be too big, and he couldn't explain clearly. For a man with a good reputation, he was feeling extremely uncomfortable holding it in now.
After thinking about it, I decided to go back to the city. Since those people had made their plans, they would just show off.
Pushing his bicycle, Yi Zhonghai, an old man, was about to walk back. Some distance outside the village entrance, he met an old man holding a hoe.
"Are you Yi Zhonghai?" The old man saw Yi Zhonghai, and after thinking about it, he called out his name. Only then did Yi Zhonghai see the old man's appearance clearly, and after thinking about it for a while, he said: "Are you Uncle Chen?"
"Hahaha, you haven't forgotten me, old man!", the old man laughed heartily.
Yi Zhonghai also laughed, parked his bicycle, took out a cigarette, handed one to the old man, and said with a smile: "Uncle Chen, you smoke, I didn't recognize you just now, don't mind."
Uncle Chen took the cigarette, and Yi Zhonghai took out a match and lit it for him. After taking a puff, Uncle Chen said, "Are you back on business?"
Yi Zhonghai also took a puff of his cigarette. Thinking of Uncle Chen's character, he smiled bitterly and said, "My relatives and elders are trying to arrange an adoption for me. I have said several times that I have no idea."
"Today Mr. Yi and Liu went directly to my mother-in-law's house without even saying hello to me. To handle this matter, my eldest brother-in-law came to my door and gave me a meal."
Listening, Uncle Chen narrowed his eyes, looked at Yi Zhonghai, and thought of the old men in the village. He took a puff of cigarette, shook his head and said: "This is your family matter, I should not have a say in it."
"But Zhong Hai, if you don't mean it, just make it clear directly and break off what needs to be done."
As soon as these words came out, the first man Yi Zhonghai narrowed his eyes and understood somewhat. Then he smiled bitterly and said: "It can't be broken by just saying it. It will be troublesome if you really pull it."
Looking at him, Uncle Chen narrowed his eyes and sighed: "Forget it, you can think about it yourself. When you have time, come home and sit down."
After saying that, the old man was ready to leave. He didn't want to get involved in this matter. Those people in the village were in great trouble. If they really wanted to ruin other people's affairs, they would be in a hurry again.
If he had a good relationship with Yi Zhonghai, it would be fine to mix it up. But the relationship between the two is only average, so there is no need to get involved.
The first man, Yi Zhonghai, looked at his back and twitched the corner of his mouth. He knew that the old man only reminded him a few words, and he didn't want to get involved with the rest.
With a sigh of regret, the first uncle Yi Zhonghai was about to go home. He had to explain this to the old lady first, otherwise she would overthink it and he would not be able to break free of this net.
When he returned to the courtyard, it was already dark. After returning the bicycle to Lin Jiaguo, he returned to the middle courtyard. Seeing that no one was home, he went to the deaf old lady in the backyard.
In the house, Shazhu and the others were having dinner. When they saw the elder Yi Zhonghai come in, they also invited him to eat.
The first uncle, Yi Zhonghai, was also hungry, so he sat down to eat without being polite.
After the meal was finished, the deaf old lady looked at Yi Zhonghai and asked, "Zhonghai, what do you mean by today's incident?"
She was a little helpless now. She saw her eldest mother being absent-minded from time to time today, so she asked. The eldest mother also wanted to find someone who could talk to her, so she told the deaf old lady.
After hearing this, the deaf old lady was a little dissatisfied with Yi Zhonghai's approach. For the elders of your Yi family to go to the aunt's natal family to take care of the adoption, it was a heart-wrenching and a slap in the face.
Isn't this just like pointing at someone's nose and scolding them!
The deaf old lady is now a little suspicious of Yi Zhonghai's idea. If he really has this intention, why would he want to let Silly Zhu support him in his old age?
The deaf old lady asked. Yi Zhonghai was about to say something, but when he saw Silly Zhu here, he shut his mouth again. When the deaf old lady saw it, she knew what was going on after thinking about it, and said to Silly Zhu: "Sun
Son, let me talk to you about something. You are also tired today. Go back to your courtyard to have a drink and have a good rest. You have to go to work tomorrow."
Silly Zhu didn't say anything, looked at the three of them, and left with a smile.
After he left, the first man, Yi Zhonghai, closed the door and said, "Old lady, I don't know about this at all. They all made their own decisions."
The deaf old lady and the eldest mother obviously didn't believe it, but looking at the expression of the eldest brother Yi Zhonghai at this time, they narrowed their eyes and believed it.
"What do you mean, are your distant relatives trying to plot against you?" After the deaf old lady believed what the elder Yi Zhonghai said, she reacted quickly. Since it was those people who made their own decisions, she had more opinions.
"Old lady, ask her." Yi Zhonghai, the first uncle, pointed at the first aunt and said with a wry smile: "She knows. Over the years, I have rarely moved around with the people over there."
"They have mentioned adoption in the past few years, but I have always refused."
The eldest mother nodded slightly. She did know this. The deaf old lady listened and then snorted coldly: "It seems that someone with evil intentions wants to plot against you."
"I think so too." Yi Zhonghai, the first man, lit up a cigarette and said with a sinister look on his face: "I guess they have already planned it, so they went to my mother-in-law's house to talk about it. There are still things to worry about later.
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The deaf old lady listened without saying a word. The eldest mother looked at the eldest uncle Yi Zhonghai, thought for a while, and said: "Old Yi, if you are willing, it would be good to adopt someone."
As the eldest mother said, the eldest brother Yi Zhonghai immediately shook his head. Just as he was about to speak, the eldest mother sighed and said, "Don't blame me for overthinking. If people have this idea, if they don't handle it well, neither you nor I will."
Being pointed at.”
"If I can adopt a good one, I will admit it. As my brother said, living like this is a fate. As long as he can support us in the future, that's enough."
"I..." The elder Yi Zhonghai wanted to speak, but the aunt shook her head at him and turned to the deaf old lady and said: "Old lady, you should understand my situation. If there really is a fight, my natal family will
Bian, I don’t know how far I’m going to be talked about.”
Hearing this, the deaf old lady also sighed with sadness. She knew that what Auntie said was right. These days, some things will have a wider impact if you talk too much.
Looking at the expressions of the two of them, the elder Yi Zhonghai said with a bitter face, "I really don't have this intention."
"Lao Yi, we must have someone to rely on." The aunt sighed, looked at the eldest uncle Yi Zhonghai, and continued: "You want Shazhu to provide for us in the future, but we have to consider him."
"He is not married yet. When he gets married, he will have more to consider and burden us. He can agree, but his wife may not be happy. Then he will definitely be in trouble again.
Jumping."
"That's not true..." The first man, Yi Zhonghai, subconsciously wanted to say Qin Huairu's name, but looking at the deaf old lady, he hurriedly shut up.
He knew that the deaf old lady had a very bad impression of Qin Huairu, especially since she was not retreating, nor was she advancing, and was just chasing stupid people, which made the deaf old lady even more dissatisfied.
The deaf old lady took a deep look at Yi Zhonghai at this time. She actually didn't understand why Yi Zhonghai was so keen on pairing up Silly Zhu and Qin Huairu.
The deaf old lady only believed a third of what he said about knowing everything. She still hasn't figured out the rest.
After being looked at by the deaf old lady, the elder Yi Zhonghai smiled. The aunt also looked at him. She also knew what Yi Zhonghai was going to say just now. As for why Yi Zhonghai was obsessed with this matter, out of trust, this pillow
She believed whatever people said.
Seeing that the two people looked strange, Yi Zhonghai gritted his teeth and said to them: "This matter is said to be a matter of adoption, but someone is trying to plot against me."
As he spoke, he looked at Aunt Ma and continued: "Don't think too much at this time, otherwise someone will take advantage of you, and we will be the unlucky ones."
As soon as the topic changed, the deaf old lady didn't say anything. In the final analysis, this matter still needs to be considered carefully by the couple. She is already this age. Who knows when she will leave with her legs. The couple will still have a long life in the future.
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If you say the right thing, it would be best for the couple to live well in the future. If you say the wrong thing, I'm afraid people will blame you if you die in the future.
The deaf old lady didn't speak, but the elder Yi Zhonghai and the aunt immediately understood. After saying a few words to the old lady, they went home to discuss it.
"Hey, every family has sutras that are difficult to recite!" the old lady sighed.
In the Intermediate Court, after returning home, the eldest father Yi Zhonghai directly stated his attitude that adoption was impossible and the eldest mother must maintain the same position as him.
The eldest mother was silent for a while, then raised her head and said, "When you get off work tomorrow, we will go back to my parents' house and explain things clearly."
"This happened. I don't want my parents to be said to be vicious. After all, my married daughter failed to give you a son and a half. If people don't know about the adoption, they will still say it is..."
My mother-in-law and my mother-in-law don’t agree.”
"Okay, let's make it clear tomorrow." Yi Zhonghai breathed a sigh of relief. Just as he was about to say something, his mother had already stood up and returned to the backyard to find the deaf old lady.
"Hey!" Upon seeing this, the first uncle Yi Zhonghai sighed, this matter is not over yet.
The next day, everyone who was supposed to go to work went to work. At around ten o'clock, at the courtyard gate, the old lady and Li Xiuzhi were pushing a stroller, preparing to go for a walk.
"Uncle, Sixth Master, and Uncle Zhonghai live in this courtyard." The voice came, and the two of them looked up and saw the woman who came to this courtyard yesterday walking over with two old men.
The old lady and Li Xiuzhi pushed the stroller out of the way. The three of them just glanced at each other, then walked into the courtyard and went to the middle courtyard.
Seeing this, the old lady frowned and said to Li Xiuzhi: "Why do I feel like you are here to cause trouble?"
After muttering, the two of them pushed the stroller and waited in the courtyard, wanting to see the situation first. At this time, Huang Fen brought the two old men to the middle courtyard. They did not see the eldest mother at home, but saw Jia and Zhang leaving.
Come out and ask.
"She should be taking care of the deaf old lady in the backyard." Jia Zhang said, and the three of them were stunned. Taking care of the old lady? Are there any elders in Yi Zhonghai's family?
Just as she was about to ask, the eldest mother came out of the backyard. When she saw Huang Fen, she was stunned. Then she looked at the two old men. Her heart skipped a beat. Are they coming to the door now?
"Auntie, we are looking for you!" When seeing Auntie, Huang Fen smiled and took a few steps forward to say hello, and then introduced: "Auntie, these are the uncle and the sixth master, both are the elders of Uncle Zhonghai.
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The aunt looked at the two of them, forced a smile, and said hello to them. The two old men responded with smiles, and then the others followed the aunt into the house.
As soon as she sat down, the eldest mother said: "Zhong Hai is still at work. If you want to find him, you have to wait until he gets off work in the evening."
As he said that, he found some cigarettes left by the elder Yi Zhonghai at home and gave them to the two old men.
"From Yi Zhonghai's family, we are here today not only to find Zhonghai, but also to find you." Uncle Yi smoked a cigarette and said with a smile. Auntie listened, narrowed her eyes, and said: "My family's affairs are all
Zhonghai made the decision and I couldn’t say anything.”
The two old men looked at each other and looked at the aunt. Mr. Yi Liu looked straight and said: "Anyone from Yi Zhonghai's family shouldn't be a bad visitor if they come to your door, but there are some things we still have to make clear to you."
"You should probably know by now that we two old men made the decision yesterday and went to your parents' house. We made it very clear that we can't just watch Zhong Hai divorce you."
After hearing this, the eldest mother's face suddenly changed, and Mr. Yi Liu said again: "After all, your mother and your brother are also reasonable people. They both said that it would be good for you two to continue this matter."
"From the Zhonghai family, we are here today as unwelcome guests, just to ask you, what are your thoughts on this matter?"
Being stared at by the three people, the eldest mother's face changed, and she said bitterly: "I didn't think about it. As long as Zhong Hai nods, I won't say anything."
Hearing this, the three of them all nodded. Uncle Yi took a puff of his cigarette and sighed: "If you think so, that's the best. Having a wife like you is his blessing to Yi Zhonghai."
"They say that when you die, you will have children to kneel down at your grave. Isn't this what people want?"
"Since you have this intention, please help talk to Zhong Hai. It will be good for both of you if the matter is settled."
The eldest mother just listened indifferently and replied a few words from time to time. The three of them did not leave. The eldest mother looked at it and said, forget it, wait until Yi Zhonghai comes back.
When she came to the front yard and saw Li Xiuzhi and the old lady, the eldest mother told them and asked the old lady to go to the backyard and look after the deaf old lady for a while. She had guests at home.
The old lady nodded and without asking, she and Li Xiuzhi pushed the stroller to the backyard.
When the two arrived, the deaf old lady started chatting with the old lady, and Li Xiuzhi teased the child with a rattle.
In the middle courtyard, after the aunt came back, she saw that the three of them had no intention of leaving, so she went to cook. Huang Fen saw this and went to help.
The two old men looked at it and thought that someone had just said something about taking care of the deaf old lady, so they walked out of the house and came to the courtyard. When they saw Mrs. Jia Zhang just sitting at the door, they walked over and asked.
After they were done, the two started chatting.
After chatting for a while, the two started to inquire. Jia and Zhang didn't pay attention. After knowing that they were the elders of the first uncle Yi Zhonghai, they told the story about the deaf old lady.
After listening, both of them felt a little unhappy. Their relatives had never seen Yi Zhonghai caring so much. Subconsciously, they ignored Jia Zhang's words that everyone in the courtyard was taking care of the deaf old lady.
After chatting for a while, the eldest mother prepared the food and then came over to ask the two of them to eat. They saw the eldest mother carrying the food to the backyard, presumably for the deaf old lady.
Looking at each other, both of them have the same thing at this time. The adoption matter must be settled as soon as possible. It is not worth it for Yi Zhonghai to waste money like this. If he has the energy to take care of a deaf old lady who is not related by blood, he might as well give it to her.
What about their blood-related relatives?
After eating, the two old men told the aunt that they wanted to go out for a walk. They left, but Huang Fen didn't go. Seeing this, the aunt had to chat with Huang Fen. The guests were still there, so she couldn't.
Leave yourself.
While chatting, Huang Fen mentioned Yi Xiaogan's story, and the words that came out of her mouth almost made Yi Xiaogan a unique virtuous grandson and filial son.
Although the eldest mother was wary, as we chatted, she began to relax and asked questions from time to time.
Seeing that Huang Fen was interested, she felt happy and started chatting.
In the evening, people who came home from get off work returned to the courtyard one after another. When Yi Zhonghai came home and saw three people sitting in his home, he was stunned.
When the aunt saw that he finally came back, she breathed a sigh of relief and went to cook.
After regaining consciousness, Yi Zhonghai could only greet the two of them with a smile and handed them cigarettes. After sitting down, Yi Zhonghai did not give the two a chance to talk and said directly: "You two, please worry about me.
I have kept it in mind, but I have no idea about the adoption."
Upon hearing this, the two old men narrowed their eyes and smoked cigarettes. Uncle Yi looked at Yi Zhonghai and said in a leisurely tone: "Zhonghai, I hear what you mean, you want your lineage to be extinct, right?"
"If you had an adopted son now, we wouldn't even give a shit, but in your current situation, why are you really going to break the pot?"
Yi Zhonghai's face changed as he listened. Yi Liuye also snorted at this time and said: "Zhonghai, we are just worried that you won't be able to mention this matter to your mother-in-law's family, so we two old men gave up our old faces and went to the house to tell us.
Already."
"Your mother-in-law's family agrees with this matter. You can go back and ask about this."
As he said that, he slapped the table and his voice became a little louder: "Others break things because they can't even take care of themselves. Why, you can't take care of you now, or your family.
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The first uncle, Yi Zhonghai, was blocked in a corner by two people each saying something. He knew clearly that the two of them had bad intentions, but no one could say anything bad about what they said.
While secretly complaining in his heart, he gritted his teeth and said firmly to the two of them: "Don't talk about it, you two. It's my own life to reach this point. It's better not to mention the adoption."
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"Bastard!" Seeing that he still looked determined, Uncle Yi cursed, pointed at him and said: "Okay, you only care about yourself, right? You can walk and run now, but you can go back every year
Look at the grave."
"In the future, when you can no longer walk, the graves of your grandparents and parents will just keep growing grass, and you won't even know if someone digs them up one day."