Han Xingjin's state cannot be changed by Jin Yu alone. He has to communicate with Han Meiyi, including the Huo family and his manager Qin Rou, and work together to slowly change it.
Jin Yu didn't have time to stay in Hong Kong City longer, and Han Meiyi had to take beauty sleep again, so he could only talk to Huo Jindong about this matter.
After Huo Jindong heard about it, his reaction was similar to that of Jin Yu. He never thought that Han Xingjin actually had low self-esteem in his heart.
What she rejects is not jobs, but jobs that she got because of others.
"But... why is this happening?" Huo Jindong learned about the past. Although he was not pampered, he was still well-fed, so why did he feel inferior?
Jin Yu studied life sciences, but because of his own problems, he also learned a lot about psychology.
“You don’t have to have been ridiculed or hurt as a child to have low self-esteem. You have never received recognition since you were a child, and there are even too many negative voices around you. You have never received honors, rarely met your own expectations, and have never experienced a sense of accomplishment... These are all
It will all lead to low self-esteem.”
Huo Jindong didn't expect it to be so complicated, "But she doesn't look like someone with low self-esteem."
"The inner shrinkage and uncertainty are inferiority complex. She just hides it better and covers it up with words and smiles."
"Do I need to see a psychiatrist?" Huo Jindong asked.
Jin Yu thought for a while, "I don't think it's necessary for the time being. Her problem is not serious. I'll consult a psychologist later."
Huo Jindong's expression was solemn. He thought that although his child did not grow up beside him, he had not suffered any grievances, had not experienced any hardships, and was going well.
Unexpectedly, although I finally became healthy physically, I still had some mental problems.
"Uncle Huo, don't worry. Nine out of ten modern people will have psychological problems. It's just whether it's serious or not. Xiaojin's problem is considered very mild. I only know it after knowing it before. Otherwise, maybe we all
She recovered on her own without noticing."
Huo Jindong frowned, "Can this still heal on its own?"
Jin Yu nodded, "Xiaojin worked hard for the college entrance examination, just to get admission to a good school with her own efforts. She also worked hard to attend classes on weekends. With our support and her own efforts, her achievement will be a matter of time."
, as she achieves more and more, she will naturally become more and more confident."
Huo Jindong thought about it, and it seemed to make sense.
This is the case for everyone. If you keep failing, or if people around you keep badmouthing you, no matter how strong your heart is, you will slowly start to doubt yourself and deny yourself.
"Then what do we do now?"
Jin Yu didn't have a clue. Han Xingjin was no longer a two- or three-year-old child. If people around him encouraged him more, things would change.
"Take your time, I'll also check the relevant information."
That night, Han Xingjin slept very well. He said what was in his heart and he felt much happier.
Jin Yu and Huo Jindong didn't sleep well. One stayed up all night checking information, and the other stayed up all night feeling sorry for his daughter.
If it weren't for the fear of disturbing other people's rest, the two of them would have been on the phone all night long.
When Jin Yu came downstairs in the morning, Han Xingjin was already chatting with Xiao Ding about the next work.
Sure enough, as Jin Yu said, it was not what she imagined.
When I went out to sea, I promoted sunglasses and sun hats.
When going skiing, just wear ski clothing from a specific brand and highlight the logo when vlogging.
When going to a show, wear a pair of branded shoes or bring branded jewelry.
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It’s just that there is one more person around who takes photos, videos and makes vlogs... Tu Ruan.