?Dear guests, last time we wrote, we said that after the demon mother overheard the mobile phone conversation between Squidward and the little demon girl in the room, especially after hearing the little demon girl promised to take leave to travel, she felt even more anxious, so she rushed
After leaving the room, he began to argue with the little demon girl. The mother and daughter refused to give in to each other. The demon dad tried to reconcile with Xini several times, but was scolded by the demon mom instead. So the demon dad once again followed his philosophy of life: "If the situation is not good, pee as soon as possible."
, chose to run to the toilet to hide.
?After the demon father ran away, the demon mother continued to insist on what she thought was right, which was to criticize the little demon girl.
?Elders generally have a habit of always thinking that they know more and have more experience than younger generations, and they always talk condescendingly and bossy when talking to younger generations.
?Many times, when you are obviously worried about the younger generation, but if you are anxious, or the younger generation is slightly disobedient to the parents' wishes, then what you say sounds like a scolding. Then you and I will go back and forth, and it often turns into a quarrel in the end.
?Parents are worried that their juniors will be hurt, and are eager to be recognized and respected by their juniors, but they have ignored a very important issue: if you want your efforts to be recognized and respected by others, you must first respect and conform to other people's thinking and thinking.
standard.
?However, parents often use the thinking and standards of adults and parents to measure and demand their juniors, and they also ask their juniors to listen to them and be grateful to them for affirming them. The result can only turn into quarrels.
?Imagine, if the younger generation doesn’t like spicy food at all, but the parents think that spicy food is good, then they get up early in the morning and go over the mountains at night, cook a table of spicy dishes for the younger generation to eat, and hope that the younger generation will listen to them and eat it in big gulps.
How is it possible to still be grateful to them?
?As long as the juniors say they don’t like it or have a slight resistance, the parents will feel that no one understands their efforts. It is obviously for the benefit of the juniors and they have worked hard, but they have ended up with no one understanding, no support, no one grateful, so they feel even more sad.
Without balance, everything turns into a quarrel in the end.
??Monster mothers will inevitably become one of these types of parents.
?She is indeed working hard. She can do anything for her family and her little enchanting girl. But she doesn’t realize it herself, or she doesn’t understand herself, which means she can’t help but think that since she has given so much
, then the little demon girl should listen to her arrangements in everything, and let her control everything about the little demon girl and everything in the family.
? To put it simply, she herself did not realize that her contribution was not selfless, without regard to gains and losses, and without regrets, but with conditions attached: that is, she could give anything, but
She has to control everyone and everything in the family.
?Everyone and everything must be decided by her and she must be listened to, otherwise she will feel psychologically unbalanced, aggrieved, sad, and feel that no one understands her and feels sorry for her.
?99.9% of human suffering comes from giving and asking for something in return, from asking for something and not getting it.
"Tell me about you. You and that male classmate haven't seen each other for many years. How do you know what is going on with him? You have only been in contact for a few days, but you are so relieved that you easily agreed to travel with him.
?" the demon mother said angrily.
"How are my classmates and friends? I have my own judgment. You don't have to worry about it! I'm almost thirty and I'm a policeman. Can't I still tell the difference between good and bad people? Can you stop worrying about it?
Just take care of yourself and take care of yourself!" The little demon girl also said angrily.
?"Do you think that now that your wings have grown hard, you can do whatever you want! Do you still think of me as your mother? I worked so hard to bring you up, for what purpose! It's not all for you! But you
Now you keep quarreling with me and don't listen to my advice. How do you expect me to live? How can I live like this?" The demon mother cried while wiping her tears with a tissue.
"Please, I'm begging you! Don't settle old scores every time something happens, as if the whole world owes you! Can you take more care of my dad and yourself when you have time? I'm begging you!"
I will worry about my own affairs, so don't worry so much! Please!" the little demon girl said with her hands clasped together.
"Anyway, I don't care. Other things can be discussed. I absolutely disagree with today's matter! If you want to travel with that man, there is no way! Absolutely not!" The demon mother patted the table and stood up and shouted loudly.
?The little demon girl originally didn’t want to continue arguing with the demon mother. She thought that no matter what, she was a parent, so she still had to respect her. If she got mad at her, it would be the family’s own loss.
?But when she heard that the demon mother spoke so domineeringly and decisively, the little demon girl, who was originally straightforward and straightforward, couldn't help it anymore and said: "Since you insist on being so unreasonable, let me tell you, originally I would
I don’t think I have to go, but I’m telling you now, I just want to go! No one can care about it!” After saying that, he returned to the room angrily and closed the door with a bang.
?The demon mother was so angry that she didn't react for a while. She followed the little demon girl to the door and couldn't get in. She raised her finger and pointed at the little demon girl's door for a long time, but she couldn't say a word.
? Turned around and prepared to go back to the room to lie down for a while. When he passed the bathroom, he remembered that the demon dad was still inside, so he shouted loudly: "Are you done yet? Come out quickly, I need to go to the bathroom!"
?This is exactly what happened: Ye Lai was arguing on the pillow, pushing down Pingshan's embroidered quilt. Everyone was begging for help, and they went to sleep under the green screen window. Until they got up and let themselves go, Xiang Dao Ye Lai was really drunk. Everyone let their bad hair go, after all.
Everyone cried in the end. The peonies contained pearls, and the beauty walked towards the court. She smiled and asked Tan Lang, "Hua Qiang, my concubine is beautiful?"
?Predict what will happen next, and listen to the explanation next time!