An ordinary person: "When love seems good, it is not love, but wisdom and morality."
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During the summer vacation of freshman year, Ning Youguang and Xia Qi were in Europe.
Leisure, enjoyment, contemplation, decadence.
During travel.
Ning Youguang asked Xia Qi: "Sister Qi Qi, do you know why people love to travel?"
Xia Qi answered without hesitation: "Because everyone likes the novelty of the journey."
Ning Youguang continued to ask: "Then do you know why everyone likes this novelty?"
Xia Qi shook his head: "I never thought about this problem."
"People like novelty because it can grab people's attention in time and make people live in the present."
"it seems to be like this."
"Matt Hager said that if you want to conquer anxiety in life, live in the moment, live in every breath."
Xia Qi was thoughtful.
She found that during this period of traveling in Europe with Youyou, she really didn’t miss the scumbag that much.
If she didn't miss him, she wouldn't feel sad at all.
You can live your life as you should, eat, drink and play as you should, without being affected at all.
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At the end of the journey, we got on the plane back to Jincheng.
Xia Qi said to Ning Youguang, who was sitting next to him and looking at the blue sky outside the plane window: "Youyou, I really appreciate you always being by my side. Now that I think about it, after seeing his true face clearly, I am especially grateful for what life has given me.
I took such a lesson. I decided to work hard, and I will be the same me who loves life, is full of energy and happiness in the future!"
Ning Youguang turned his head, looked at her and smiled softly: "So, this matter has turned over?"
Xia Qi took a deep breath and smiled: "Yes, let's turn the page! I will never ask or mention these things again, and I will try not to think about them as much as possible. Thank you.
Your companionship and guidance during this time!”
After a long silence, she continued: "I am a little happy now. This not-so-good relationship only wasted three and a half years of my life, but it made me understand a lot of things in love. Compared with the long relationship in the future,
In life, I think these lessons are worth it.”
"Yes, it is really a small thing in life, a very small thing."
"Yes, I now feel that I have made great progress in my views on love and life!"
Ning Youguang's clear eyes were filled with admiration: "You have also experienced the feeling of not getting entangled with garbage, right? Garbage will turn you into garbage."
"I don't want to."
"Then live your next life well."
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2018, August 06, Weibo.
[An ordinary person: "Love is a self-education. No matter who you meet, he is the person who should appear in your life. It is no accident. He will definitely teach you something. Therefore, I also believe that no matter I
Wherever I go, that’s where I should go, experience the things I should experience, and meet the people I should meet.]
at the same time.
In a single apartment in Boston, USA.
Shi Wangyue read Ning Youguang's Weibo with a slight smile on her face, and clicked a like button.
After doing all this, he went back to her Weibo main page and browsed it, and found that he had not missed any of her new content. Then he returned to his Weibo page and posted a Weibo:
[A person who likes ordinary people: "Some people say that liking makes people brave, but that doesn't seem to be the case here now. Like makes people timid and never say anything about it."]
Fortunately, there are also Weibo and the Internet.
Even though he was thousands of miles apart, he could still see the messages she sent.
This way he will know that he has not cut off contact with her today.
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After the two cousins came back from Europe.
Xia Qi did not continue to work hard and lie down at home. Instead, she wrote her own resume, applied for jobs, and found a suitable job to intern in the company.
Everything that happens in this world has two sides.
Falling out of love will make Xia Qi suffer, and it will also make her grow.
After returning to Europe, she healed her broken heart, started to think about life again, and decided to try a life she had never imagined before.
After all, Miss Xia loves her family, so her internship did not go far away, but she worked in Jincheng.
This made Ning Youguang feel relieved a lot.
She leaves early and comes home late every day, and is rarely at home during the day.
Although the family found it a bit surprising that the eldest girl went out to find a job, they were very supportive.
The internship life gave Xia Qi a sense of novelty.
When I first entered the workplace, my work was very busy and my salary was not much.
But it made her grow up faster, and it just made her less distracted by other messy things.
This summer.
Xia Qi understood a life principle in her heartache:
[No matter how bad your life experience is, it will eventually pass with the passage of time.]
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The children are getting older every year, and the older ones are getting older.
Two months during the summer vacation of freshman year.
Ning Youguang spent half of his time accompanying Xia Qi out of the shadow of broken love, while the other half was spent concentrating on accompanying the elders at home.
After returning to Jincheng from her trip, she split time between two families in Ningxia.
Sometimes, she would spend part of her time going to Xie's house to stay with Xie Yizun and Xia Youqing.
She tries her best to treat her family members equally.
She knows that now may be the most leisurely period of her life. If she doesn't spend it with her family, she won't have so much time for them when she gets busy in the future.
Life is unpredictable, and we don’t know when or what uncontrollable things will happen in the future.
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This morning, Xie's villa.
The first thing Ning Youguang did after getting up and washing up was to go to the back garden of the villa to help Grandma Xie, who had accidentally contracted rheumatoid arthritis two days ago and had difficulty walking, to carefully plant the fruits and vegetables she had planted. watered.
After pouring water, when she entered the house through the back door, she heard Xie Yizun shouting from inside the public bathroom on the first floor: "Sister, sister."
She stopped and asked, "What are you doing?"
"There's no more toilet paper."
She had no choice but to resign herself to her fate and go to the cupboard to get a bucket of toilet paper for Young Master Xie.
When I came back, before I even walked to the bathroom, I heard Xie Yizun reciting a Tang poem from afar: "It's noon on the day of hoeing, and sweat drips from the soil..."
"..." Ning Youguang was speechless for a moment, walked to the bathroom door and stood still, "Yiyi, you flush the water, and I will bring you toilet paper in."
"I got it." Xie Yizun's still-smelling voice came from the facade, as well as the sound of the toilet flushing.
She stood at the door for another moment, "I'm a girl and you're a boy. I can't look at your butt, so I came in with my eyes closed. You have to tell me how to get out."
Xie Yizun responded obediently: "I know."
Ning Youguang opened the bathroom door with his eyes closed and walked in slowly.
Xie Yizun also expressed precise guidance and she came to his side.
After the toilet paper was handed to his hand, Xie Yizun began to ask again: "Sister, please help me wipe my butt."
"Do your own thing."
Ning Youguang turned around and quickly left the bathroom.
Xie Yizun has already entered the senior class.
After the age of three, people of the opposite sex cannot see each other naked.
She won't wipe his butt.
When returning to the living room.
She saw Xia Youqing, Xia Youqing's agent, and workers all in the living room.
The worker was clenching his hands, standing nervously next to Xia Youqing, and said incoherently: "I'll mend it. I can mend it. Once it's mended, ma'am, you can wear it."
Xia Youqing handed her the cashmere sweater and cardigan in his hand and said, "Forget it, you can mend it yourself and wear it yourself."
The aunt's eyes showed joy, but she said sheepishly: "It's very expensive."
Xia Youqing said: "It's not expensive, just a few hundred yuan."
Hearing this, the agent on the side was stunned for a moment.
The worker held his chest and breathed a sigh of relief, took the cashmere sweater Xia Youqing gave him and left happily.
After the workers left, Xia Youqing looked calm on the surface, but her body language betrayed her. She knocked over the coffee in her hand.
When she went to the bathroom to deal with the stains and changed into clean clothes and returned to the living room, her face still looked a little ugly.
Ning Youguang raised an eyebrow: "What happened to the new cashmere sweater and cardigan that Burberry bought?"
Xia Youqing suppressed her anger and said: "I asked her to take the label of the cardigan and cut it, but she didn't expect to cut a hole for me."
"No wonder, a few hundred dollars is not enough." After Ning Youguang finished speaking, he lowered his head and raised the corners of his mouth slightly.
After not seeing each other for a while, Qingqing is able to control her emotions.
Xia Youqing picked up her phone and was extremely depressed. She placed an order for a new cashmere sweater and cardigan on the Burberry official website, and her mood improved.
Her agent was very discerning. He didn't speak during the whole process and was a quiet wallflower.
Now seeing that his artist's face improved, he looked at the delicate and picturesque girl sitting aside quietly drinking tea, and tested Xia Youqing with bright eyes: "Qingqing, have you ever thought about letting your daughter join our entertainment?
Let’s play around?”
Xia Youqing glanced at her sideways, charmingly: "She is not suitable for the entertainment industry, do you know why?"
"Why?" The agent was stunned.
The girl in front of me, with her stunning appearance, excellent figure, and unforgettable temperament, was born to be the center of attention.
Isn't it so difficult that he is not the most suitable talent for the entertainment industry?
Xia Youqing looked at the calm daughter next to her with disgust, and said slowly: "Have you ever seen an eighteen-year-old girl who doesn't like to dress up or put on makeup? She can buy three dozen of the same clothes and put them around at home. As long as she
The body shape remains unchanged and can be worn for about fifty years. Are there any female stars in the entertainment industry who don’t care about appearance?"
Are there any young girls who don’t like to dress up?
What's more, she is a very beautiful girl.
The agent stared at Ning Youguang with curiosity: "It's lucky that your daughter is a fairy and looks good even in linen. Otherwise, who would dare to ruin her skin like this if she is a little bit longer and shivering."
Xia Youqing finally found an opportunity to complain about her daughter's clothes: "Tell me, any girl today is not dressing up to death. When she has money, she buys clothes, bags, cosmetics, shoes, etc., and buys them in season.
New models are not enough, but limited editions are also required. How can there be someone like her who has everything but wants nothing."
The manager was a little confused at first, but now he smiled and said, "It's really rare, but to be honest, this kid's life is really simple."
She is older than Xia Youqing, and Ning Youguang is indeed still a child in her eyes.
"Is that simple? That's obviously laziness and too lazy to bother." Xia Youqing was speechless.
"Isn't this pretty good? It's not tiring if you don't have to work hard." The manager looked at the girl beside him who was letting them discuss it without blinking. The appreciation in his eyes became deeper and deeper, "Let me tell you, as long as a person can
If you want to live a simple life, don’t live a complicated life. It’s so tiring. Look at the people in our circle. They may look glamorous on the surface, but after finishing their work, they go back to their rooms and close the door, wishing that no one in the world would care about them.
It’s so comfortable.”
"That's what you said." Xia Youqing thought for a moment and felt that what the agent said made sense.
"So, it's nice to have a girl like yours. She doesn't have so many desires, so she can be easily satisfied. She can live the life she wants as she pleases. She can live however she wants. She doesn't have to look at anyone's face or live in a world.
In anyone's opinion, it is pure and free enough. This is a situation that many people pursue throughout their lives but may not get it."
Thinking that he had two children of this age at home, the agent couldn't help but say a few more words: "So we elders should not use our own values to judge the lives of young people like them, otherwise,
Why are we working so hard? We don’t want our children to live an easy life. If they can live a relaxed and comfortable life early on, why should we forget our original ideas and force them to pursue these false names? They like it
Fortunately, I don’t like it, and it might even hurt our relationship.”
At this point, the agent also saw that Xia Youqing's daughter probably would not enter the entertainment industry.
She saw no desire in her.
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Shortly after the fall semester of his sophomore year began, Ning Youguang went to his class teacher's office to hand in materials.
But I didn't expect to hear the head teacher's voice outside the door.
He said: "Jiang Wei, I know it's very difficult for your family, but you still have to find a way to come up with the tuition fee. I have tried my best to apply to the school for you to defer it for one month, and also
It will be a month in a few days. If you don’t pay the tuition, the teacher will be in trouble."
Jiang Wei: "Teacher...I, I will find a way."
She immediately ran away and hid in the stairwell next to her.
Later, when she heard Jiang Wei's footsteps leaving the class teacher's office, she waited for about ten more minutes before entering the class teacher's office and handing the information to the class teacher.
That night, the girls' dormitory.
After eleven o'clock at night, everything is silent.
Ning Youguang was in bed when he heard Jiang Wei's suppressed sobs coming from the lower bunk.
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The next day, it was almost time for classes to end in the afternoon at the National University of Science and Technology.
Jiang Wei plucked up the courage and walked into the class teacher's office with heavy steps.
The head teacher was sitting on an office chair working. When he saw her coming, he immediately smiled.
Jiang Wei lowered his head and quickly said what he had been thinking about for a long time: "Teacher, can you give me some more time? Our family..."
But unexpectedly, before he finished speaking, he heard the cheerful voice of the head teacher: "Jiang Wei, there is no need for grace."
Her heart sank, and she had no choice but to grit her teeth and tell her class teacher the real situation at home: "Teacher, the construction site in our hometown is not doing well this year. Dad always has nothing to do. He begged the foreman for a long time, but he didn't give any money.
We have no money at all now, I know it’s very difficult for you, but our family has tried every possible way.”
As she spoke, tears fell from her eyes.
The head teacher stood up, walked to her side, patted her shoulder gently, and said consolingly: "Don't worry, there is a kind person who is willing to sponsor the tuition and fees for four years of college for 20 poor students in our school, and you are one of them."
1. From now on, just study hard and don’t worry about tuition fees anymore. You can also tell your family the good news later to make them feel at ease."
Jiang Wei was stunned. He had been suffering from pain since he was little.
She never thought that one day she would have a chance to change.
Such a good thing could happen to her.
"Teacher, I... thank you so much for that kind person, and thank you and the school, I..." She shed tears and kept bowing to the class teacher.
The class teacher took a step back and did not accept her great gift. Instead, he said with a smile: "You don't have to thank me or the school. Just thank the kind person in your heart. I hope you have good luck today and get help from others. When you graduate in the future, you will be better."
I can also help other people in need. As for...the kind person, she donated anonymously, and the school cannot reveal her name."
It is impossible to know the identity of the kind person who helped me, and I will not be able to repay him personally in the future.
Jiang Wei was disappointed and could only pray repeatedly in his heart that the kind man would have a safe and happy life and a prosperous business.
She thought: "If he can help 20 college students pay their four-year tuition fees at once, he must be a big businessman who likes to do good deeds."
Then, after thanking the head teacher, the school, and the kind people sincerely, I happily left the head teacher's office.
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It's dinner time after school.
Because today I am so lucky and so happy.
Jiang Wei left the class teacher's office and went to the school cafeteria. She luxuriously ordered two plates of stir-fries at the stir-fry stall, one of which was her long-favorite sweet and sour pork ribs, and the other was a salted fish and eggplant stew that went well with rice.
Two stir-fried dishes and a bowl of white rice. After the chef prepared them, they were neatly placed on a green dinner plate. The aroma was fragrant.
In the cafeteria, Jiang Wei happily took his meal from the window, and when he was looking for a seat with his dinner plate, he happened to see his roommate Ning Youguang also eating in the cafeteria at the moment.
There is an empty seat opposite her.
After hesitating for a moment, she sat down opposite her with a dinner plate: "Ning Youguang, what a coincidence, you are also eating."
The girl raised her head, with a smile as gentle as the wind on her beautiful hibiscus face: "What a coincidence."
There are also two dishes on the plate in front of her, a bowl of white rice.
Two dishes are completely vegetarian, one is stir-fried shredded lotus root, and the other is moonlight in the lotus pond.
I ate less than half of the white rice.
Jiang Wei generously placed the dinner plate between the two of them, "Everything you eat is full of vegetables. Do you want to try my sweet and sour pork ribs?"
Ning Youguang chuckled, picked up the chopsticks and generously took away a piece of rich-colored sweet and sour pork ribs on her plate, "Then I'm not welcome."
After saying that, she put the ribs into her mouth, chewed them slowly, and nodded: "It's delicious."
When Jiang Wei saw that she didn't refuse, the smile on his face became brighter, "Then you eat more."
Then, she used unused chopsticks to pick up two or three more pieces for her.
"That's enough, that's enough. I'm almost full."
Ning Youguang actually doesn't like eating meat. The reason why he is willing to eat his roommate's ribs is because he knows that she is in a good mood today.
Needing someone to share her happiness and joy.1314
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Happy New Year, dear little ones, I wish you peace and joy, good luck, everything you want, and no fear...
Wish: In 2022, all the good things in the world belong to you!