When Ning Youguang teaches her classmates at school, she will leave about ten minutes between classes for students to freely ask her questions. She calls this the "question and answer session."
The “question and answer session” is undoubtedly the most popular session in Teacher Ning’s class.
Every time there is a class, the atmosphere in the class will be pushed to its climax when it comes to the "question and answer session".
On this day, there was another "Q&A session" with Teacher Ning during class.
Some students laughed and asked: "Why is the teacher so beautiful still single?"
Wearing a white suit, nude high-heeled shoes, her long hair gently tied up, and wearing glasses, Teacher Ning raised her eyebrows: "Beautiful, is there any problem with being single?"
The audience roared with laughter, and the students all said:
"No no."
"Teachers are the treasures of our national science and technology universities, and not just anyone can be worthy of them."
"so……"
“Be sure to choose slowly.”
"Hahahahahaha."
"Can teachers accept teacher-student love?" Ning Youguang looked at it, and the person in the audience asked the question was a fair-looking boy.
"I respect all emotional relationships based on your love and my will."
"Is it okay for girls?" A girl in the audience asked with round eyes. She was a very beautiful girl.
"There is nothing wrong with girls." Ning Youguang smiled and put away the teaching aids on the podium, "However, the teacher only plans to fall in love with his soul mate for the time being."
"Ah, who is the teacher's soul mate?" The boys and girls in the audience were shocked and curious.
"Knowledge." Ning Youguang stretched out his index finger and pushed up the glasses on the bridge of his nose.
The thin rose gold chain on her glasses swayed with her movements, reflecting a few gleams of light, making her already carefully crafted face look a little hazy.
Her temperament, from the sassy one at the beginning, instantly became a little more unfathomable, mysterious, and alluring.
The students in the audience went crazy instantly.
Regardless of boys or girls, many of them blushed and whispered to the classmates next to them:
"Teacher Ning looks so polite and scum when he wears glasses."
"I want to be Teacher Ning's glasses."
"Another day of being cried by Teacher Ning."
“Beautiful and sassy, awsl!”
"..."
Looking at the scene in the audience that looked like a star-chasing scene, Ning Youguang was speechless for half a second and asked: "One by one, none of you asked me about the content of the lecture just now, so I will assume that you all understood it."
After saying that, she picked up the neatly packed teaching aids and said, "get out of class is over."
The students in the audience immediately sat up straight and stretched out their hands:
"No, teacher, we didn't understand."
"Teacher, please tell us more!"
Some students were very clever and quickly stood up and asked serious questions loudly: "Teacher, I want to know, as a psychologist, what are the problems you want to find out in these treatments?"
This question really left Ning Youguang behind.
She stood up in front of the podium again and answered seriously: "Every time a client comes to me, I don't want to find out the problem. I just hope that they can understand themselves better and let them see if there is anything inside them."
Variety."
"Then what will you do if your treatment method is not effective for the client?"
"If I feel that a certain treatment is not enlightening them, then I will terminate the treatment immediately."
Later, several students seriously raised several professional-related questions, and Ning Youguang patiently answered them one by one.
It wasn't until the next class was about to start that the enthusiastic students in the classroom let Teacher Ning leave.
When Ning Youguang walked out of the classroom with a smile, there were many boys and girls following her, laughing and saying goodbye to her.
She did not turn around, but raised her hand and waved to them.
…
Since the bell has rang for the next class, the campus of the National University of Science and Technology is a little empty at the moment, with no one around.
In this slightly quiet situation.
When Ning Youguang concentrated on walking, the light footsteps coming from behind became more obvious.
She turned around and saw a tall, thin girl with casually handsome clothes and a handsome face, following behind her leisurely.
is her student.
"Fang Tian, what's the matter with you following me?" she asked loudly.
The tall and thin girl paused for a moment, then trotted up to her. After thinking about it for a long time, she asked cautiously:
"Teacher, can I buy you a cup of milk tea?"
Ning Youguang saw the confusion in her eyes and asked with a chuckle: "Aren't you going to have class next period?"
Fang Tian shook his head: "No."
"Okay, let's go."
…
On the National University of Science and Technology Pedestrian Street, there was no one at the milk tea shop decorated in an Internet celebrity style.
"Teacher, your Zhi Zhi Berry." Fang Tian gently placed the milk tea he had just taken from the bar in front of Ning Youguang.
"Thank you." Ning Youguang chuckled and slowly inserted the straw.
Fang Tian, however, started to get nervous while holding his unopened milk tea.
She lowered her head, worried.
Ning Youguang took a sip of milk tea and observed her quietly for a while before asking slowly: "Are you confused and want to talk to me?"
Fang Tian looked up at her, and after a long while, he said in a muffled voice:
"Teacher, do you believe in numerology?"
"How to say?"
"It's just fortune telling, metaphysics, feng shui, etc. Do you believe it, teacher?"
Ning Youguang took another sip of milk tea and gently chewed the pulp inside, "I can't say I don't believe it at all."
Fang Tian's eyes widened instantly: "So the teacher also thinks that metaphysics is not feudal superstition, right?"
Ning Youguang thought for a moment and replied seriously: "How should I put it? There is a saying that the end of science is metaphysics. Everything in this world is reasonable as long as it exists. The reason why many people think metaphysics is superstitious is because they have no understanding of these subjects.
They all seem to understand but are not fully understood, so they are called superstitions.”
After hearing her words, Fang Tian felt like a balloon that had been popped. His whole body softened, and a confused and gloomy look appeared on his face:
"Teacher, I didn't believe it before, but now I have to believe it."
"Is it because of some opportunity?" Ning Youguang asked softly.
Fang Tian nodded heavily, and then calmed down his confusion and said: "It's like this, didn't I go home last week? My grandfather found a Feng Shui master to look at our house again. Before that, he had already found
We have had several Feng Shui masters visit our house. In the past, every time a Feng Shui master came to see our house, they would always say things like 'um', 'good', 'ok', etc. But last week, the Feng Shui master told my grandpa
Very carefully. I was listening carefully at the time. After listening to his explanation, I went to search our house. I was shocked. Teacher, do you know? There are all the bad things about the Feng Shui of the house. Our house
They were all hit, and my whole back is feeling bad.”
"Does this have anything to do with you believing this?"
"Yes!" Fang Tian's eyes showed deep fear.
"Is it because of what happened at home recently?" Ning Youguang's voice became softer.
"Yes, teacher, all this is because of my mother." When he mentioned "my mother," Fang Tian's brows furrowed.
"What happened to your mother?"
"Our house is newly bought. We have just moved here for less than three years. Before that, my mother had been in poor health. It was not because it was not good to move to a new home, but because she had been in poor health for a long time.
She has a history of mental illness and has been taking medicine. In addition, she also has gynecological problems, so she has been taking medicine for a long time. But since we moved into our new home, she has been constantly taking medicine.
People who sell health care products, do micro-business, and do pyramid schemes are cheating." At this point, Fang Tian became anxious all over, "Any normal person knows that those people are scammers, but my mother just believes them. In the past two years,
When she came down, all the money she had was defrauded. Not only that, after being defrauded, she still didn’t feel that she was deceived. Now she started to borrow money to buy these physical treatments, health care products, medicines, etc.
My father and I only learned about these situations recently."
"Is it so serious?" Ning Youguang asked in surprise.
"Yes, my mother has borrowed a lot of money from outside, and we are all afraid that she will be cheated more. So, I found out that our house was like this last week, and I was even more afraid. If it hadn't been for my mother,
, I might not feel this way if I just listen to what Mr. Feng Shui said, but now I really can’t help but believe it.”
"It seems that mom's problem is a bit serious."
"Yes, teacher, what should I do? I don't know what to do to prevent my mother from being deceived again. I don't dare to go home now. I'm afraid to go back and live in that house."
Knowing that the girl in front of him was in extreme fear, Ning Youguang sat closer to her and gently stroked her back to make her breathe easier.
Then, she said in a gentle voice: "Mom's problem needs to be waited and seen for the time being, but the teacher can still talk to you about the problem of bad feng shui in your house."
"Teacher?" Fang Tian gradually calmed down under Ning Youguang's comfort.
"Everything around us has a magnetic field. Everyone's external magnetic field, including your house's feng shui, your horoscope, ID number, and phone number, all of which add up to only account for 40% of your luck.
The so-called environment changes with one's heart, and the good or bad luck in life is not all due to the rotation of these magnetic fields. The most important thing is related to a person's character. Moreover, when these contents are interpreted, it does not represent all of a person, it can only
It’s just a temporary description of a person’s state in a short period, so you have to look at this problem in variables. If you encounter a bad explanation, don’t be too afraid of it, because variables are changing at any time.”
"So the house isn't the main reason why mom is like this, right?"
"What do you think?"
"I understand." Fang Tian breathed out deeply.
"If after I have told you this, you are still afraid of the problem of the house, you can ask your family to hire a trustworthy Feng Shui master to change the Feng Shui of your home. You don't need to spend too much money. It only costs a few thousand yuan.
Just get it done within.”
"The problem is that my dad doesn't believe this. It's too difficult." Fang Tian felt particularly distressed when he thought about the quarrels between his father and grandfather at home over these things.
"If dad really doesn't believe this, then it depends on the house he lives in and the things he encounters. You have to learn to respect him. This is how he is."
Fang Tian obviously couldn't accept his father's stubborn cognition and all the messy things at home.
Ning Youguang also knows that accepting something that one cannot agree with requires a process for everyone.
So, she changed the topic and continued: "As a daughter, you cannot confront your mother in her current state. According to my judgment, your mother has many fears. When a person is extremely fearful, her fear of the world
The sense of trust is very low. She won’t listen to anything you say, so it’s useless to reason with her or teach her what to do.”
"Yes, teacher, when I just found out that my mother was defrauded of so much money, I patiently communicated with her, and she told me so much. But now, she is completely refusing to communicate at home. She just
Believing those liars, being willing to be deceived by them, and not trusting us is like being possessed by evil spirits. Now she will be anxious to anyone who says those medicines are not good. She just thinks that the medicine is very effective for her, and she keeps telling people that.
The medicine is very effective. We sent those medicines to the Food and Drug Administration for inspection. The Food and Drug Administration said they were useless, but she insisted that they were very useful. The problem is that those medicines are really expensive, costing hundreds of thousands per course of treatment.
, she didn’t feel better after eating it.”
Fang Tian held his head in his hands, feeling extremely distressed.
"Frankly speaking, I really can't understand why she did that. If she continues to borrow money to buy it like this, our house will not be saved."
"Have you ever visited that store? Go and see what they do."
"We couldn't find that store. We found it before and called the police on the spot. But not long after we called the police, they moved."
"Hasn't mom always been in contact with them?"
"She still went, but she didn't tell us where she was. She knew we wouldn't let her go there for treatment."
"Because of this matter, my father lost his temper at home and had many quarrels with her. The whole family even knew about it. Many people in our family came to persuade her not to continue to be deceived. She was also
She promised us that she would not go there and that the treatment was over. However, later we found out that she still went there secretly. She couldn't borrow money to go there now, so she took out a loan. It's terrible."
"It's indeed scary." Ning Youguang said slowly.
She knew that the student in front of her was facing a huge family crisis, and she had countless ways to analyze with her why her mother was like this, but these only addressed the symptoms rather than the root cause.
After thinking for a while, she asked: "Did your family take your mother to see a psychiatrist?"
"Yes, I have seen several psychiatrists and taken medicine, but it has no effect." This makes people despair.
"How do you need the teacher to help you?"
Fang Tian was stunned for a moment, and then slowly said the purpose of looking for her today: "Can the teacher take my mother's case?"
"Would your mother be willing to see me for medical treatment?"
Fang Tian was extremely distressed, "She doesn't want to see a psychiatrist."
Ning Youguang sighed softly: "Fang Tian, I will ask for the opinions of visitors over ten years old. If they strongly refuse to accept the counseling of a psychologist, I will not force them. This is as a professional
There is a principle that psychiatrists must abide by - psychiatrists work to help people help themselves. If the client refuses to help, then no matter how capable I am, it will be in vain."
Fang Tian lowered his head and fell silent, his whole body exuding an aura of despair and irritability.
"However, for my mother's illness, taking medicine is of no use at all. I think only psychological healing can help her."
"Your guess is correct."
"Then teacher..."
"As your teacher, of course I hope to be able to help you, but when your mother walks into my consulting room, I am her psychiatrist. No matter what, I cannot destroy my principles as a psychological counselor.
"
Fang Tian collapsed emotionally, "Then what should I do, teacher, I'm so scared..."
Ning Youguang gently held the helpless student in front of him in his arms and said in a gentle voice: "Teacher, I know you are scared. If you can convince your mother to seek my help, I will take your mother's case."
Fang Tian hugged the teacher who was lighter than him tightly, smelled the faint fragrance on her body, and cried hard.
Then, she raised her head, looked at her, and said almost stubbornly: "Teacher, I will ask the head teacher for leave tomorrow and go home. No matter what method I use, I must bring my mother to you."
"Okay, I'll wait for you." Ning Youguang smiled gently.
Then, she pushed the milk tea that she had pushed aside and pushed it back in front of her: "Before this, the teacher has to tell you that if anything bad happens around us, once it is discovered, it means it is a good thing.
At the beginning of the transformation, blessings and misfortunes depend on each other, so don't be afraid, life will always go on. The most important thing for you right now is not to put too much psychological burden on yourself and worry about what will happen to your mother. She is now
I am a patient who is in urgent need of your help. At this time, you must take better care of yourself, whether it is body, mind, money, etc., and steadily accumulate energy. Otherwise, you will not be able to better help and take care of you in a critical moment.
Family."
"Teacher, then I will treat everything that happens, as you said, as the beginning of things getting better."
Fang Tian took a big sip of milk tea, and a smile appeared on his troubled face.1314