"You can't figure out why your veto power is exercised, and you feel like your dignity is shattered?" Ning Youguang said.
"Yes, if the handsome guy is interested in someone with better conditions than me, or someone with similar conditions to mine, I will admit it, but why is he looking at a small poem?" Li Qing was puzzled.
Being able to talk about the reasons that make you miserable is considered progress.
Ning Youguang Wensheng said: "I know you are hurt, but what makes you sad the most is not that the handsome guy doesn't like you, but that you actually failed completely in the comparison with Xiao Shi."
Li Qing thought for a moment and said, "You're right."
Ning Youguang took a sip of water and asked slowly: "Have you been accustomed to comparing yourself with others since you were a child in your native family?"
"What's the problem with that? If you don't compare, how can you know how you are, right?"
Ning Youguang sighed and said: "Dear, this is the crux of the problem. In fact, the answer to how a person is is not found in comparing himself with others, but the key lies in himself. Take yourself as the answer."
Say, do you think there are any changes between you now and a week ago?"
"Of course, I have lost a lot of hair, the dark circles under my eyes have become more serious, I am in low spirits, and my complexion is not good..."
"How do you feel about these changes?"
"I am not as good-looking as before, and I am not as energetic as before. I always feel that I am not good at this or that, and I start to wonder if my previous evaluation of myself is a bit self-righteous. I will keep thinking about what problems I still have.
How is it worse than a small poem? Wait."
The more Li Qing talked, the more frustrated he became.
Ning Youguang raised his hand, interrupting her words and stopping her self-criticism.
She said: "I ask you, are you still a master's student who graduated from the National University of Science and Technology, a level 10 piano player, a wealthy family, height 16cm, weight less than 100, good looks, own a car and a house in Beijing, love traveling, and know how to do good things
Cai, the helpful and kind-hearted Li Qing?"
Li Qing rarely laughed out loud, "Of course, these are all me. Although I am in a bad state now, it does not mean that all these things I have have disappeared."
Ning Youguang also laughed, striking while the iron was hot: "Yes, you are still you, you just experienced a rather absurd secret love, and a boy who is not very familiar with you and has nothing to do with you, and who is pretty good-looking, made his choice
, and you still can’t figure out why he made that choice, but as long as you respect his choice and know rationally that those two people have nothing to do with you, your life will not be affected at all, and your life will continue as usual.
, you should fall in love and fall in love in the future, you can like whoever you like, there is more freedom of choice, isn't it?"
After a long silence, Li Qing asked hoarsely, "So, I'm not worse than Xiao Shi, right?"
Ning Youguang laughed and said, "Of course, who said that two girls like the same boy, and when the boy chooses one of them, the other girl must be the worse one? Such reasoning is completely unreasonable and illogical.
ah."
After thinking for a while, she then asked, "Did you watch Taiwanese idol dramas when you were a child?"
Li Qing became interested and shouted, "Of course I'll watch it, I really like it. I watch it on the TV every time I have a holiday."
"At that time, were the female leads on TV all born well, beautiful, well-educated, and loved by their parents and many relatives and friends?"
"Yes." Li Qing nodded seriously.
"Are all the first girls the kind of ordinary ugly ducklings who are born poorly, have average looks, have no education, and have no outstanding skills, and are not doing well in society?"
"Yes, so..."
"You didn't feel embarrassed when you watched it at that time, but now if you watch this kind of TV series again, you will not be able to watch an episode. You will feel that not only the male protagonist in these TV shows is blind, but the screenwriter is also mentally retarded. He is a normal person.
I know that in real life, there are many girls with such good conditions as the second female lead, and there are many rich and handsome people queuing up to get them. How could they rush to compare with such a girl who is not on the same level because of their love brain, and why they would fall for such a stupid man?
Crazy, crazy for him, hitting a big wall because of him?"
"..." It seems that I am talking about myself.
"Now, what would you do if you were the second female lead?"
Li Qing buried his head in the pillow and said in a muffled voice, "Of course I should stay away from the abnormal human beings, the hero and heroine, and be alone, or find a more splendid flower field."
"That's it." Ning Youguang laughed, "You've figured it out, haven't you?"
"Yes, this matter is because I have trapped myself in a cage. I don't need to compare with Xiaoshi at all. It is his right to dislike me. Emotional matters cannot be forced. They are born in my life.
Words are not important.”
Ning Youguang smiled and nodded, "That's right. You have to believe that you have always been good, and you are not without marketability when it comes to the opposite sex. Now, you just met a boy who is not right for you for a short time. From now on,
, you still have a lot of possibilities to get better love."
Li Qing's face also regained its luster, "I understand, and I will never criticize myself or deny my own value when comparing myself with others."
Ning Youguang smiled, got up and went to the kitchen to bring two plates of cherry tomatoes and lychees that had been washed long ago, and placed them in front of Li Qing, "Yes, there is no harm if there is no comparison."
When the knot in the heart is opened, people feel relaxed all of a sudden.
Seeing the two plates of juicy and beautiful fruits in front of him, Li Qing's appetite was instantly whetted.
Ning Youguang didn't need to say hello, so he picked up the fruit plate and started eating it.
After two plates of fruit, she stretched like a well-fed cat, and then fell asleep leaning on the sofa in Ning Youguang's room.
The sunlight passed through the window and fell quietly on her body. Li Qing, who was in deep sleep, gradually lost her pale face, turning into a layer of pink, as sweet as a baby's.
Ning Youguang gently pinched her wrist and checked her pulse. After finding that there was indeed nothing wrong with her body, he stood up gently, went to the cabinet and took a blanket to cover her body.
During this sleep, Li Qing slept until dusk.
Ning Youguang had quietly gone out to have lunch, and then quietly came back to read a book in the room.
After waking up, Li Qing saw Ning Youguang lazily leaning against the window reading a book, as quiet and peaceful as a beautiful painting.
She stared blankly for a long time, as if she was in a dream and woke up again.
[Oh, this is Ning Youguang’s dormitory.]
Smiling silently, she was so mesmerized by the beauty of the picture in front of her that she didn't want to wake up.