After the middle-aged lady told her story, she looked at Ning Youguang with a puzzled face.
Ning Youguang smiled and analyzed with her: "This involves the relationship between mentality and disease. Systolic blood pressure is something you should not do for others, and a competitive mood causes qi and blood to circulate in a directed manner, increasing systolic blood pressure.
Your unfair mood is called a signal, and it can cause you to get sick. You have to think carefully about what you just said."
"I just can't think about it." The middle-aged lady frowned deeply.
"It's been more than a year since this happened, and the result that you still can't figure out is that there's something wrong with your body, right?"
The middle-aged lady lowered her head and said, "Is that so?"
"Yes, I think the leader should not let you retire. This is the direct cause of your high blood pressure." Ning Youguang said calmly, "Retiring is a one-size-fits-all approach. This is the need of reform and the need of the situation. From then on,
From a leadership perspective, why do you want to be special? What special conditions do you have? Change your mindset on this matter and think about it calmly."
After a long silence, the lady looked at Ning Youguang and agreed: "Dr. Ning, what you said makes sense."
Following this, she felt that her head felt much lighter.
Ning You could tell her physical and emotional changes just by looking at her face, and further explained to her the rules of diastolic blood pressure.
"Diastolic blood pressure is fighting against something you think you shouldn't do. This mood causes qi and blood to have a directional physiological effect, causing your blood pressure to be low and high."
The lady thought for a while and admitted: "I have indeed had such a mentality for more than a year."
Ning Youguang asked: "If you want to believe what I say, can you tell me?"
The middle-aged lady hugged Shui tightly, "After I retired, I did housework at home and took care of my granddaughter. But I don't think I should be a housewife. Doing so has no value in life. In the past, I have always looked down on housewives."
There was pain in her dark eyes.
Ning Youguang said: "Being a housewife also indirectly contributes to the country, because you take care of your granddaughter at home and contribute to the family. You let your son and daughter-in-law have no worries and can work with peace of mind. This is a great value.
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After Ning Youguang's enlightenment, the middle-aged lady's ideas changed.
Half an hour later.
Ning Youguang smiled and said, "Let's measure your blood pressure again."
The middle-aged lady nodded.
After measurement, the number displayed on the sphygmomanometer is “130/90mmhg”.
The middle-aged lady looked at the numbers on the blood pressure monitor and was shocked. She didn't recover for a long time.
After a long while, she exclaimed: "Dr. Ning, you are really amazing. Your treatment method is also amazing. It not only lowered my high blood pressure, but also opened my heart." Her
His face was full of joy, and he was also in a state of excitement, "Not only does my head feel lighter now, but my heart also feels comfortable."
Ning Youguang smiled and put away the blood pressure monitor in front of him, "Actually, I just correctly used the corresponding relationship between the impact of mentality on the body."
The middle-aged lady asked curiously: "Then what kind of mentality does my disease correspond to?"
Ning Youguang put the blood pressure monitor in the cabinet and sat down next to the middle-aged lady again:
"You have two negative mentalities. One is that you are dissatisfied with the leader's approach. Your psychological tendency is inner resistance. This inner resistance will definitely cause the systolic blood pressure to increase when the blood vessels constrict, and after that,
For more than a year, you have been in a tense state of resistance, and if it continues, it will form a stable disease. After our communication today, you have changed your mind and lost your resistance. After you accepted that incident, your heart
The pressure was relieved instantly, so your head immediately relaxed and your systolic blood pressure also dropped; the second mentality is that you are unwilling to your current situation and actions, so you are not completely satisfied when doing housework at home and taking care of your granddaughter.
Let go. If you can completely let go and start doing these things at home, your heart will be in a completely relaxed and comfortable state, and there will be no symptoms of increased diastolic blood pressure. Just like if someone asks you now
When you go out to sweep the streets, if you fully accept the task of sweeping the streets in your heart, you will not feel pressure. If you don't accept it, you will have a lot of negative emotions and be very nervous, and your heart will be in a state of contraction.
It will cause blood pressure to rise."
Seeing that the middle-aged lady was listening very carefully, Ning Youguang added:
"Now that your perspective has changed and you have accepted these things that make you confused, your heart will immediately relax, so your diastolic blood pressure will also decrease."
"Why do I have such a mentality?" The lady was a little confused.
"This has something to do with your psychological operation pattern. You think highly of yourself. Whenever others don't evaluate you enough, you will show an unconvinced attitude. You face the outside world with this mentality.
. Just like many people, especially many young people, grew up under the pampering of their parents when they were young, and their families gave them whatever they wanted. Over time, they developed a mentality that they have to be satisfied with everything.
If he is satisfied, he will be unhappy and dissatisfied with others. When he grows up and enters a social environment, the people around him will not be able to satisfy his wishes at all times. At home, he is the center, and his family will listen to him in everything.
If it's not the case outside, it's impossible for people outside to hang around him. He gets along with people according to the mode of functioning of his own sexual ability. When others don't listen to him, he gets angry in his heart, but he doesn't dare to vent his anger on others.
Over time, he will develop asthma, which is caused by the inability to release the breath in his heart."
"Another example is physical indigestion caused by internal indigestion. Everyone has this experience more or less. That is, when you cannot digest certain things in your heart or what others do to you, your appetite for meals will be affected.
If the digestive function of the intestines and stomach is weakened, the digestive capacity of the intestines and stomach will be weakened. This is a similar change in physiology. To understand it in this way, if a person's psychology is often confused about people and things, over time, the intestines and stomach will be in this state of low digestive function for a long time.
, when repeated to a certain number, from qualitative change to quantitative change, organic lesions will appear in the gastrointestinal tract."
"In fact, every time we have negative emotions, it will cause certain harm to our body. It's just that when it's small, it's usually not easy for us to notice it. Only after a long time and the disease becomes serious, we can find it. This is also the so-called 'sickness'
Of course, sometimes people's emotions suddenly become extremely strong, and they can suddenly reach a 'quantitative change' and fall ill."
The middle-aged lady nodded fearfully: "So there is a saying that heart disease requires heart medicine."
Ning Youguang nodded: "That's the truth. For many diseases in our body, only treating them from the heart can cure the root cause. External drugs can only temporarily cure the symptoms. As long as a person does not change his mentality and view of the outside world,
Similar diseases will keep reoccurring, and will worsen when encountering strong stimulation."
This is also the reason why she finally switched from traditional Chinese medicine to psychology in her previous life.
Because she saw the underlying logic of the disease.
And it was through learning that she understood what the heart was like, and then she accurately administered the "medicine" to herself.
After the consultation, the middle-aged lady left Ning Youguang's office happily.
"Teacher Ning, you are busy, you don't need to send me off, I will go back by myself."
Her footsteps were much lighter when she left than when she came, and her voice became cheerful, unlike when she came, full of resentment.
The whole person is radiant with vitality, as if he is new to life.
Ning Youguang stood by the door and looked at her retreating back, smiling softly.
The corners of his painting-like eyes and brows are filled with complete joy.
When I came here early, I looked at the moon and leaned against the wall quietly.
A pair of deep eyes, looking at the joy on her face and the satisfied figure of the middle-aged lady when she left, gradually fell into memories.
He will always remember that in the Chinese language class in the third grade of elementary school, the teacher asked everyone in the class to write an essay on the theme "My Dream."
At that time, some people wrote that they wanted to be rich when they grow up, some wrote that they wanted to be policemen when they grew up, some wrote that they wanted to be scientists when they grew up, some wrote that they wanted to be stars when they grew up...
Only she had four words neatly written on her notebook: "Treat diseases and save lives."
Time flies, and time flies by.
Nearly twenty years have passed in a flash.
The man who was clamoring to become a rich man is now an ordinary person in Jiji Yingying. The man who vowed to be a policeman to protect everyone has become a shrewd and capable businessman. The man who seriously vowed to be a scientist is working as a clerk in the civil service system of his hometown.
The person who looked forward to becoming a star had long since married, had children and become someone else’s mother.
Only she in front of me has never changed her original intention and is working diligently as a teacher and a doctor to treat illnesses and save people.
Save lives and save hearts.
In this world, everything is becoming faster, including information, people's hearts, and technology.
She was the only one who never changed her original intention, just like when he first saw her, her bright eyes were clear and clear, with purity and kindness as clear as water.
How lucky he was to be able to meet her.
How lucky he was to be able to meet her so early in his life.1314
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As I write this, I am moved to tears~~~My son and daughter are so wonderful