"The longer I stay in contact with people, the more I like dogs. Dogs are always dogs, and sometimes people are not people!"
Ning Youguang was lost in thought when she suddenly heard Xia Youqing's voice mocking her uncle.
Turning her head, she saw Xia Youqing had arrived in the living room at some point and was watching TV with her hands folded across her chest.
A small Shiba Inu squatted beside her. When she turned her head, she suddenly let out a "woof" cry.
"..." Ning Youguang.
Xia Youqing was stunned for a moment, shook his head and laughed, then sat down next to his daughter.
"Your aunt is so smart, why did you fall in love with him?"
"I was thinking about this problem just now." Ning Youguang said slowly: "American psychologist Robert F. Bernstein and others believe: 'No one is an island, living alone in the sea, everyone is a small piece of
The soil connects to form the entire land. He proposed three relationship models: moderate dependence, over-dependence, and obstructive alienation. There is a group of people in a psychological state of obstructive alienation. They long for a satisfying intimate relationship... Long-term single independence
Many women, who appear to be strong enough on the surface, have lost something essential to building an intimate relationship: a sense of security that comes from the heart.”
This construction of psychological needs happened to match her aunt's emotional value orientation.
She, the eldest uncle, pretended to be a good little bitch before marriage. He treated his eldest sister in every possible way and gave him full emotional value. However, after marriage, he became an alcoholic, lazy, spendthrift, and often spoke harshly to his eldest sister.
The most speechless thing is that the year when my eldest daughter gave birth to her cousin, he went to summon him.
I went there a few times and was soon caught by my aunt.
My aunt immediately proposed separation.
At that time, because my cousin was still young, my aunt did not want to divorce immediately.
At that time, she told her family: "I don't need a husband, but I love my son very much. I hope to give him a complete family in the next few years."
However, the eldest uncle later became more and more shameless, pretending to be the son-in-law of the Ning family and deceiving others, and his private life was also in chaos.
Such a scumbag, he even wanted to divide half of his aunt's entire property.
Many people asked him knowingly: "Why do you ask for half of your wife's property?"
This man is particularly thick-skinned. No matter who he faces, he always speaks plausibly: "After being married for so many years, as a member of the Ning family, I have contributed to both the family and the increase in the Ning family's property. I have fought for all these things."
I deserve it all.”
After Xia Youqing listened carefully to her daughter's analysis, she suppressed her nausea and watched TV: "It's a nightmare for Ning Xian to meet such an ugly-looking man."
"He won't be able to dance for long." Ning Youguang said, "Last time I went home and saw my aunt, she said that the relationship should be settled."
They have been separated for so many years and the divorce lawsuit has been going on for so long.
Ning Xian can be the CEO of Ning while fighting a divorce lawsuit, so she is certainly not a vegetarian.
It's just that this love fairy tale that once broke the world's prejudices finally degenerated into repeated fights over money, which I have to say is very sad.
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This afternoon, Weibo.
[An ordinary person: Girls must identify a bad relationship as early as possible. No matter how high the sunk cost is, or how many perverted false love names bind you, you must stop the loss in time and get out in order to truly protect yourself.]
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