"Facing existence from the perspective of emptiness and facing emptiness from the perspective of being, these are two different choices in life. If we insist on "being" and regard life as reality, one day we will lose it.
, will be very painful and passive; if we face life from the perspective of nothingness and let go of the images and attachments in our hearts, we will be truly free. When you start to fear the future, you are already standing on the level of something.
Let’s take a look at this matter…”
Ning Youguang laughed, "Yes, I'm already facing this matter."
Professor Yu had an expression on his face that said "I've seen through your little tricks", "I know you are not indifferent. In this case, why not update yourself?"
"I..." Ning Youguang bit his lip.
"I asked you to fall in love before, and you said you didn't need it, but now you have met, do you understand?" Teacher Yu laughed, "Love is something that happens naturally. We can't force ourselves to love everything, but we can't.
The only way to deceive yourself is to continue to act like you have no desires or desires after you fall in love."
"Teacher, I really need a little time to adjust myself." Ning Youguang drank the tea in the cup.
"Of course." Professor Yu nodded.
"Thank you, teacher."
She knew that the teacher had seen through her powerlessness and fear on the road of love, so he deliberately reminded and inspired her today, "I will not force myself to love, but if my heart is really moved, I will be brave."
How much life is, follow yourself.
When she came out of Professor Yu's office, Ning Youguang looked at the fallen leaves on the playground and began to think about the feasibility of becoming boyfriend and girlfriend with her children.
At the very least, it’s very convenient to eat and drink.
…
2025, August 26, Weibo.
[An ordinary person: slowly understand the world and slowly renew himself.]
After posting on Weibo, Ning Youguang looked through the questions asked by netizens and chose one of them to reply:
[An ordinary person: Imperfection is allowed, I wish you well!//@李大头是猫哥: Teacher Ning, what is the perfect love in your heart?]
Every time a message posted on Weibo by the psychological celebrity v "An Ordinary Man", who is a millionaire internet celebrity, can arouse countless comments and likes from netizens, it's not magical.
No matter how lively the virtual world is, it is unlikely to affect people's real lives.
But today is a little different.
Because Teacher Ning came across the issue of "love".
…
This is the weekend.
Ning Youguang slept until he woke up naturally and went to his father and aunt's house.
I happened to take Ning Youyu out to play tomorrow.
Ming Jinxin took her with her to pack and organize things at home.
The female boss's cloakroom is spacious and bright, filled with clothes, shoes, jewelry, bags, etc.
Ming Jinxin stood in front of the closet, opened the closet door, and was throwing out the clothes one by one that she had decided to get rid of.
"I've been working out recently and the results have been remarkable. These clothes are all loose. Let's get rid of them all."
"What should I do with it?" Ning Youguang stood behind her and helped her sort and fold the clothes she didn't want according to their functionality.
Mr. Ming has a problem that most women have. He likes to go shopping, but he doesn’t like to organize things.
"Either give it away, donate it, or clean it and use it as pajamas when traveling. Wear one piece and throw the other away." She turned around, "I want to free up the wardrobe to buy new ones without leaving any way for myself to fall back."
Ning Youguang laughed, "What do you mean by not leaving yourself a way out? The real way to avoid leaving yourself a way out is not to buy."
Ming Jinxin hugged herself tightly and shuddered, "That's too cruel, I can't do it."
After thinking about it, she added, "Tell me, yesterday I bought a bunch of snacks, yogurt and the like. The delivery came today. The boxes were not even opened, but were given to the property manager. I actually felt very happy.
.”
Ning Youguang was speechless, "You are happy when you buy things, you are happy when you give things to others, and you are happier when you don't eat them yourself?"
Ming Jinxin couldn't help but smile, "Yes."
She turned around and took out a pile of clothes from the closet, "Look, I bought these this summer. Many of the clothes have not yet had their labels removed. They have all sent pictures of autumn clothes. You tell me, these are
All year round, apart from my family, who cares about me, I am also the ba for all the counters."
Ning Youguang chuckled, "And 10086."
Ming Jinxin also smiled, "That's right."
She took out another shirt from the closet and asked, "What do you think of this shirt?"
Ning Youguang looked at it carefully and said, "It looks good."
Ming Jin was happy, "Then I'll wear it tomorrow."
She hung her shirt on the other side and stood in front of the bag cabinet, looking at the cabinet full of designer bags in trance.
Ning Youguang asked, "What's wrong?"
She said, "I'm thinking about what bag to wear with this shirt tomorrow."
Ning Youguang glanced at her luggage cabinet and said, "I think those ones are suitable."
She pointed at a few simple and elegant bags.
Ming Jinxin frowned, "I don't like it very much."
Then, she knelt down, opened the drawer under the bag cabinet, and took out a Burberry box from inside.
After opening it, there was a crossbody bag inside.
She put it on her back and said, "This is a bag I bought in Japan three or five years ago. What do you think about it matching tomorrow's shirt?"
Ning Youguangxin said, "It's not easy to be a fashionable woman."
He kept saying, "Just right."
Ming Jin was satisfied, "So it's right to buy, buy, buy, right?"
"As long as you like it." Ning Youguang held back the fear in his heart.
Seeing her look like that, Ming Jinxin didn't understand, "Why do you think you don't like these?"
"Because there is a limit to liking. Mine has been used up and I have no share left." Ning Youguang shrugged.
Ming Jinxin handed her some clothes, "I still don't understand, but I respect you."
She closed the closet door and continued happily, "New skirts and new shirts will arrive in a few days. As for me, I like to make money and spend money, and I don't limit myself to what I should buy and what I shouldn't.
, buy what you like, even if you don’t like it after you buy it, it’s still worth it, because you like it for a moment.”
Ning Youguang picked up a pile of clothes and said, "Come here and help pull down the bags."
Ming Jinxin shook the bag open for her, and she put her clothes neatly in, "Your hobby costs a lot of money."
Ming Jinxin retorted, "Your favor costs a lot of money."
Ning Youguang felt a little blocked.
[Why do women bother women?]
…
Finished sorting out clothes, shoes, and bags.
Ming Jinxin pulled Ning Youguang to a jewelry cabinet.
She pulled out a drawer in the cabinet, took out a set of rose gold and diamond jewelry, and handed it to her: