After listening to Xiao Qi's words, Ning Youguang felt very pitiful for this child.
These parents keep saying that they love their children very much and that their children are their lives, but they don't know that both of them have done a lot of things that are hurting their children.
"Your vomiting has something to do with your parents' quarrel. It has little to do with your wanting to jump off the building. The quarrel between your parents has nothing to do with you." Ning Youguang told Xiao Qi.
"Adult relationship problems are not something that children can understand. Maybe when you grow up, you will gradually understand that, generally speaking, children will love their parents unconditionally. As their child, you will
If you often hear that you are the reason for their quarrels, they will take the responsibility even more, which will create a sense of guilt. This is one of the factors that makes you vomit. Secondly, because of your parents’ intimacy problems, you will feel guilty about yourself.
There was a lot of rejection, which was also one of the factors that caused your vomiting. Of course, there are other deeper reasons for your vomiting, which requires your parents to participate in the treatment with you."
"Oh." Xiao Qi lowered his head, "Did the teacher say that parents also need treatment?"
Ning Youguang nodded, "You can do it right away. In ordinary families, if a child has a psychological problem, it is not the child who needs to see a psychiatrist the most, but the parents, but they don't know."
"But mom and dad seem to be fine."
"Psychological problems are different from physical problems. They are deceptive. Physical problems will be revealed as soon as you go to the hospital for a checkup, but many patients with mental illness may appear to be normal people on the surface."
Ning Youguang explained, "The reason why your parents need to undergo treatment together cannot be said to be because they have psychological problems. It may also be because there is a problem with the way they get along, or there is a communication problem."
Xiaoqi said, "Oh."
"Now we can solve one of your problems very quickly. Do you know what it is?" Ning Youguang asked with a chuckle.
"What is it?" Xiao Qi opened his eyes slightly.
"That's how you can stop annoying your parents from quarreling."
"Teacher, do you know?" Xiaoqi asked.
"Of course I know." Ning Youguang said, "Think about it, who is it that mom and dad quarrel with every time?"
Xiao Qi thought about it seriously and said, "It's like two fried chickens, a big rooster and an old hen!"
Ning Youguang agreed very much, "Yes, quarreling between people is very similar to cockfighting."
Seeing that she agreed with his statement, Xiao Qi suddenly laughed because he thought of the scene of his parents quarreling and having a cockfight.
At this moment, the innocence of a child appeared on his face.
Smiling, Xiao Qi said, "Teacher, you are right. I never thought before that my parents' quarrels looked like fighting chickens. It's so funny, haha, so fun!"
Ning Youguang also smiled and said, "Yes, when Xiaoqi sees his parents quarreling in the future, he will imagine them as two chickens fighting. Will he not be so scared?"
After laughing, Xiao Qi relaxed. "Yes, if it's two chickens quarreling, I'm not afraid."
Growing up, he has been living in fear of his parents quarreling. A quarrel between his parents is an extremely painful thing for any child, let alone Xiao Qi, who is doted on by his family.
Ning Guang then said to him, "You have grown up and no longer need to be afraid of the quarrels between the two of them. Moreover, no matter how they quarrel, they actually love you, right?"
Xiao Qi thought for a while and nodded.
Taking this opportunity, Ning Youguang hypnotized Xiao Qi.
During the hypnosis process, she told him: "Whenever you see your father and mother quarreling, treat it as two chickens quarreling there."
After the hypnosis ended, she woke up Xiaoqi.
Xiaoqi felt very magical. At this time, his parents also came in.
He turned around to look at his parents and suddenly laughed.
His parents were baffled by their son's condition.
On this day, at the end of the case consultation.
Ning Youguang said to Xiao Qi, "Do you still remember our secret weapon? Remember, don't tell your parents, okay?
Xiao Qi nodded seriously.
…
The next day, morning.
When Ning Youguang set out for class, he received a call from Xiaoqi's father.
"Teacher Ning, thank you so much. Our Xiaoqi has stopped vomiting. He used to vomit at least three or four times a day at home." On the phone, Xiaoqi's father was obviously very happy.
Ning Youguang said with a smile, "Xiao Qi still has many fundamental problems that have not been solved. You should take him back to class first, and then he will come to bj during the holidays."
"Okay, okay, Teacher Ning, schedule a time for us when you are free. We will definitely prepare to bring Xiao Qi to the capital to continue the case." After two treatments, Xiao Qi's parents have learned a lot about Ning Youguang.
Deep trust.
"Okay." Ning Youguang smiled, "You have a safe journey."
"Okay, okay, you go ahead!"
…
"Starlight Investment Fund" Company.
Yun Zewu stood with his hands on the conference table, looking at the team members in the audience with a smile on his face, and he was obviously in a good mood.
"After everyone's hard work for so long, we finally won Manli! This is a new development in the company's business sector after we returned to China, and it is worth celebrating."
After speaking, he took the lead in applauding.
Except for Shi Wangyue, everyone in the audience applauded enthusiastically.
"Okay, let's adjourn the meeting." He announced generously, "This afternoon, everyone can get off work early and go home to rest. Tomorrow we will discuss the follow-up plan for the cooperation between the two parties."
"Thank you, Mr. Yun." All the project team members in the audience were also very happy.
The subordinates walked out of the conference room first.
Yu Zewu put his arm around Shi Wangyue's shoulders from behind.
The two of them put their arms around each other and walked towards Shi Wangyue's office. After entering his office, Yun Zewu lay down on the sofa in his office, "That woman finally got it done, damn! This one
Yue, I’m so damn tired.”
He looked at Shi Wangyue with deep meaning, "Even if there are no entertainment activities every day, I still have to get up early and go to work in the dark every day. Don't call me a boss. This is not how a social animal works."
Then, he approached Shi Wangyue, who had just sat down next to him, and said, "I'm also going to Europe for a vacation and have a good rest."
Shi Wangyue drank tea quietly and ignored him.
He went on to say, "0, I don't care. I have made an appointment with someone to go skiing in Switzerland with them, and all the itineraries have been arranged. I will just pick up my bag and leave after everything in the company is settled."