A pot of white pepper duck soup, a few refreshing side dishes, and a cage of spring cakes.
A simple dinner kept two people full.
Shi Wangyue had spent countless rainy days in traffic after get off work, but there had never been a day like today. It was as if she could see the ripples left by the continued excitement in the cerebral cortex, like rain falling in a lake, dripping, ticking, and a little joyful. , a little bit of happiness.
——This is a very magical experience.
…
After coming out of the burrito shop, a gust of wind blew, and Ning Youguang shivered because of the cold.
Shi Wangyue immediately opened his coat and wrapped her in his arms.
He held a big black umbrella in his hand.
Just enough to carve out a private space for the two of them.
Ning Youguang looked up at him and smiled, his eyebrows curved, "Aren't people in love stupid?"
"Where are you stupid?" Shi Wangyue smiled.
"You're not stupid. In this crazy weather, why do I think it's not impossible for us to go for a walk together now..."
Shi Wangyue laughed out loud, "Do you want to go for a walk?"
He actually hoped that they could walk longer and the road would be longer.
"It's better to say goodbye..." Ning Youguang refused.
…
Today’s case consultation topic is Xia Fanxing’s.
He wanted to tell Teacher Ning his family story.
"I often don't see my father. When I was a child, I was often with my nanny and my mother. However, my mother always had endless things to do, so I was always alone," Xia Fanxing said.
"...My grandfather, like my uncle and father, always likes to treat me in a preaching way. When I was a child, he would take me to the company to play. People in the company called me 'little boss'. My grandfather was like those who worked
The staff said, 'This is your future chairman,' and I instinctively disliked them calling me that."
"Why?" Ning Youguang asked.
"Because I didn't feel like working there at that time."
"Why?"
"I'm very afraid of working with my grandfather and father. Our company is quite big. I remember that many provincial and municipal leaders used to come to inspect our company. Now, I haven't seen such scenery for a long time.
scene." Xia Fanxing wiped his eyes.
"When my father was here, I studied hard, practiced well in the company, worked hard, and tried hard to shoulder the responsibility of the heir. However, I feel that I have always lived in their shadow, and I have to make every effort.
I want to prove my strength, but my father still doesn’t approve of me and is not satisfied with me, so every time I go to the company or work, I feel as uncomfortable as going to the execution ground.”
"Where's mom?"
"My mother is very gentle. Sometimes she will comfort me when she sees me depressed or in a bad mood. However, when my father finds out, he will say that she is spoiling me. Later, she will not dare to comfort me anymore. Whenever
After she was scolded by her father, her cautious behavior made me feel very guilty. I felt that if I had done better, my mother would not have to be in such a difficult situation. I still often think of her being scolded and scolded by her father because of me.
It looks like I often have stomachaches."
Xia Fanxing touched his belly and said, "I have nodules here one after another. I went to the hospital to take a picture, but no tumor polyps or other such things were taken. When I touched it myself, it was obvious and very hard.
This was the first time he told Ning Youguang about his health problems.
Ning Youguang's face was calm, and he was a little surprised.
"Can you let me see it?"
"Okay." Xia Fanxing thought for a while and said.
He took off his down jacket and lifted up his sweater. "You may not be able to see it," he reminded.
"Let me touch it and see." Ning Youguang said.
"Okay." Xia Fanxing lowered his head a little embarrassed.
Ning Youguang reached out and touched his belly, "Relax and take a deep breath."
Xia Fanxing said he could touch it, but his body was stiff.
Under Ning Youguang's reminder, he tried to take a few breaths, but Ning Youguang found that he couldn't even take a deep breath.
"Are you usually nervous?" She stopped.
"Are you nervous? Are you okay..." Xia Fanxing frowned slightly, "I'm basically not nervous at home these years."
"So you were nervous before?" Ning Youguang said.
"Yes." Xia Fanxing nodded, "Sometimes the body will fight uncontrollably."
Ning Youguang nodded, "I will send you two audios later. You can go back and meditate. Do one audio for 21 days in a row. Follow my recording in the audio to think, and then give me feedback."
"Okay, thank you, Teacher Ning."
"There are indeed many nodules in my stomach." Ning Youguang said, "They are qi knots."
"right?"
Ning Youguang said, "You have accumulated these emotional problems, and food cannot solve them."
"Do you often feel like you can't eat?"
"Yes." Xia Fanxing said, "I feel very bloated in my stomach. When it becomes bloated, I don't want to eat, and that's why I'm so thin."
He tried to smile, but it turned out to be a bit ugly.
"Don't you like your current body?" Ning Youguang asked.
"I don't like it." Xia Fanxing said, "I wish I was fatter, but since I came to your place, I'm much better than before."
"You are indeed a little fatter." Ning Youguang said, "Do you know what kind of emotions these nodules on your belly are caused by?"
"What emotion?" Xia Fanxing asked curiously.
"Angry." Ning Youguang said.
"Angry?" Xia Fanxing was puzzled, "I haven't been angry for a long time. I'm not an angry person."
"You are indeed a person who seems easy to talk to." Ning Youguang said, "But there is a conflict between your inner and outer surfaces. There is a very strong part of your character. Your anger does not come from the outside.
It comes from inner self-attack, and you have a lot of dissatisfaction with yourself."
Xia Fanxing thought for a while and said, "Actually, I don't want to be like this, but I seem to enjoy it a little bit."
"Well, I understand." Ning Youguang then asked, "What's the situation in your mother's family?"
"My grandpa was the president of a university. I admired him very much when I was a child. He was very good at riding horses and often took me to ride horses. Once, he even took me to the hlbe grassland to ride horses. I was so excited at the time.
I fell in love with horse riding and thought it was my favorite thing to do in my life.”
"Favorite thing to do?" Ning Youguang smiled.
Xia Fanxing smiled and nodded, his whole body filled with joy.
"Not bad." Ning Youguang said, "What was your experience in school like?"
"Going to school?" Xia Fanxing said, "What is your schooling experience from childhood to adulthood?"
"right."
“I don’t remember many things in kindergarten, but I remember them very clearly after elementary school.”