The remaining girls said with enjoyment, "It's so relaxing to have a meal after the exam."
It’s just a little embarrassing!
People like Teacher Ning who are so busy that they forget to eat lunch eat even less than them!
Sure enough, there is a reason why people are beautiful and have good figures!
The girl secretly vowed in her heart: "I will lose weight after I finish this meal!"
"Working makes people happy!" Ning Youguang agreed.
The girl who bought the drinks came back after a while.
She held three cups of milk tea in her hand, gently placed one of them in front of Ning Youguang, and said sweetly, "Teacher Ning, drink milk tea."
Ning Youguang picked it up and took a sip, "Thank you."
The two girls drank milk tea and watched her eat.
She found that she had eaten everything cleanly, leaving only a few pieces of meat untouched, "Teacher, don't you like eating meat?"
Another person also reacted and asked, "Yes, why doesn't Teacher Ning eat meat?"
Ning Youguang shook his head, "This pork belly is a bit greasy."
"Are you tired of it?" A girl said, "I just ate it and it's not tired."
"Teacher, if you don't want to eat, give it to me." The girl next to her looked like she was a good kid who didn't like to waste food. Ning Youguang said, "Do you mind if I have the leftovers?"
The girl laughed and said, "Of course I don't mind!"
So happy, okay?
She and the goddess shared the meat and ate it together.
This kind of thing can be remembered for a lifetime!
Ning Youguang handed her a few untouched pieces of pork belly, and the girl poured it into the remaining rice, mashed it up in a few mouthfuls, and ate it all.
When the three of them walked out of the cafeteria, more students came over to eat.
Ning Youguang asked them, "Have a good rest after the exam."
"We are teachers." A girl said.
Another girl said, "We'll take a foot bath when we get back to the dormitory next time. After the bath, we'll hide under the covers and watch a movie. I've stocked up on several movies and haven't watched them yet."
"That's fine." Ning Youguang smiled, "I wish you a happy movie."
The two girls smiled and said, "Happy New Year, Teacher Ning."
Ning Youguang smiled and said, "I also wish you a Happy New Year in advance!"
…
I saw Xiaoqi again after a few months.
Ning Youguang noticed that the child had grown significantly taller and fatter, and his eyes were much more lively than before.
Xiaoqi's parents were also very happy to see her.
Xiaoqi's mother's complexion was also better than before, "Teacher Ning, thank you very much. After returning from Beijing last time, our family members can obviously see that the child's personality is much more lively than before, and he is not as good as before.
He vomited several times a day. So this time we came to Beijing, we planned to completely cure the child's problem."
Ning Youguang asked her, "Do you still often quarrel with your husband?"
Xiaoqi's mother looked at her son, who was sitting quietly outside, and whispered, "It's still noisy, but we will be careful not to quarrel in front of the children now."
After a slight pause, she continued, "Last time you told us the reason for the child's vomiting. Now I pay attention to what I say in front of the child. I have been trying not to complain about his father in front of him. Secondly, I
My husband and I also spent more time with him.”
Ning Youguang smiled and said, "Okay, I understand. You and Xiaoqi's father go out and sit for a while. I need to have a private conversation with Xiaoqi."
Xiaoqi's mother hurriedly exited the small treatment room.
…
Only Ning Youguang and Xiao Qi were left in the room.
She smiled and said to him, "I heard from your mother that whenever she talks to you about school, you will vomit. When you come home from school, you will vomit when she asks you to read and write your homework. Don't you want to dislike school?"
Xiao Qi scratched his head in embarrassment: "I don't know why I feel like vomiting whenever my mother talks to me about going to school and reading homework. I don't want to do this either, Teacher Ning, you know what? Put it in my stomach
It’s so uncomfortable to vomit out all the things. I like reading and I also like going to school. It’s more comfortable for me to go to school than to stay at home. I’m alone at home. There are classmates who talk and play with me at school.
"
"That's right." Ning Youguang nodded, "If it's not fun at home, I would also be willing to go to school. But, you vomited again because your mother asked you to go to school, study, and do homework.
, do you think this is normal?”
Xiao Qi shook his head and sighed, "It's not normal. Others are not like this."
Ning Youguang said, "You also think it's abnormal, right?"
"Um."
"Do you know why?"
"I don't know." Xiao Qi frowned.
"It's because your subconscious is torturing you." Ning Youguang said, "You should have heard of the truth that nothing in this world happens for no reason. Behind everything, there is something we can't see.
s reason."
Xiao Qi nodded, "I've heard of it."
"Yes." Ning Youguang said, "Although frequent vomiting is a very painful physiological reaction, looking at it from another perspective, does vomiting also help you win some opportunities? It avoids some things you don't want to face.
The right thing?"
Xiao Qi thought for a while and said, "Every time I vomit, my parents stop quarreling, let me rest at home, and stay with me."
"Did your parents still quarrel after you went back last time?"
"I didn't see them arguing at home."
"Did you know that your subconscious has used 'vomit' as a useful tool?"
Xiao Qi asked, "Teacher, what is the subconscious mind?"
"It refers to psychological activities that we cannot see ourselves." Ning Youguang tried his best to speak in a language that Xiao Qi could understand.
"What the teacher means is that I don't know my subconscious, right?" Xiao Qi asked back.
"That's right." Ning Youguang said, "You don't know it yourself, but it will affect your behavior. For example, your subconscious has used 'vomiting' as a useful tool. Then, whenever you encounter something in your life,
Some problems that you can't face or solve by yourself will pop up on their own, and your body will feel it, but you just don't know it."
Ning Youguang had long known that Xiao Qi was not just tired of studying, which would leave a lot of trauma in his heart.
When she treated him last time, she knew that there were still many fundamental problems that had not been solved. She also knew that Xiao Qi's "vomiting" phenomenon would not get better all of a sudden. The reason why it was not completely solved was——
In the process of temporarily treating Xiao Qi, she only used the child.
This is far from enough.
To completely cure Xiaoqi, his parents need to be involved in the treatment together.
Because, if the child's psychological problems originate from the family of origin, the parents must be involved in the treatment together to obtain a fundamental solution.
Otherwise, as long as the problems of the original family continue to exist, they will continue to be transmitted to the children like a virus and make them sick.1314