He said, "That's why I have to spit out everything I eat."
Ning Youguang asked Xiaoqi softly: "So do you still think life is boring now? Are you planning to turn your world into heaven or hell?"
Xiao Qi thought for a while: "Now I feel that living in this world is quite interesting. Of course I hope that my world can become a paradise."
He said, "Now that I think about it, death won't solve the problem. What if I die and go to hell?"
"That's right! Now that you have figured it out, let's have a good talk with your stomach." Ning Youguang said to Xiao Qi.
Xiao Qi nodded, closed his eyes, and sat there quietly for about ten minutes.
Then, he told her, "My stomach also feels that living is actually quite interesting. When I grow up, there will be many things to do, many books to read, and many places to go. It promised me that it will no longer torment itself in the future."
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After the hypnosis ended, Ning Youguang woke Xiao Qi up.
He still has a more important issue that has not been resolved, which is the relationship with his parents.
If this problem is not resolved, Xiaoqi may use other diseases to fight against the family.
Treat again.
Ning Youguang asked Xiao Qi, "Do you hate your parents and grandparents?"
He looked at her confused, not knowing how to answer.
Ning Youguang suggested, "How about we travel through time and space to have a look?"
He nodded excitedly.
So she put him into hypnosis again.
Then let him go back to those happy times with his family when he was a child, and see the scene where he was cared for by his family as a child.
Then time passed quickly, and when he was 50 years old, his parents and grandparents had already left him.
He stood in front of their graves with tears streaming down his face.
At this time, she asked him: "How do you feel now?"
While crying, he replied: "I think if my mother didn't force me to read and study when I was a child, I might have been delayed in my life. My father was also very happy to play with me at home and bought me a lot of toys.
, a lot of books, and took me to all kinds of fun places, to see beautiful scenery, and to eat delicious food. No matter what, I know that I am very important in his heart, and he loves me very much. I just discovered now,
It turns out that I also love my father, not that I just hate him as I thought."
"And my grandparents, every time there is something delicious, they let me eat first. When I am sick, they feel very distressed, anxious, and uncomfortable. They often give me a lot of pocket money. My pocket money always
The most in the class."
So she said to him: "Then please have a few words with the 50-year-old you and the 11-year-old you, because that 11-year-old child is in pain now due to the overly controlling education of his grandparents."
Xiaoqi closed his eyes, with a very concerned expression, and seemed to be saying to everyone in front of him: "Grandpa, grandma, and mom and dad may have all kinds of things wrong with you, but they do really love you, worry about you, and care about you.
You. When you go to high school or college, they will no longer care about you like that. You should live well and enjoy the time with them. Remember, your soul is always free, except for yourself.
No one can trap you."
After Ning Youguang woke up Xiaoqi, he walked to the living room, came to his parents, hugged them tightly, and was unwilling to let go for a long time.
Although Xiaoqi's parents didn't know what was going on, they were very touched.
Xiaoqi's mother burst into tears, and Xiaoqi's father's eyes were red.
Because the children haven't been so close to them for a long time.
After this treatment, Xiaoqi's vomiting symptoms completely disappeared.
Before leaving.
Ning Youguang continued to persuade Xiaoqi's parents, hoping that they could go back and communicate with their grandparents, try to slowly trust Xiaoqi, and give the child some independent space.
At first, Xiao Qi’s father firmly believed that his parents were very good to Xiao Qi, that there was nothing wrong with him, and that he himself was very healthy.
Ning Youguang told him sternly, "During the hypnosis process for Xiao Qi, I saw that he had serious suicidal tendencies. Do you think this is okay?"
Xiaoqi's father was shocked on the spot.
After a long while, he said silently, "My parents have treated me like this since I was a child. How come I don't have any problems?"
Ning Youguang said, "Psychological problems may not necessarily cause symptoms. Just like many people suffer from serious tumors, but outsiders can't tell it at all. They will only find out when they go to the hospital for examination. Children and parents are family members.
It is a component of a larger system. When parents have problems, the system becomes sick, and the children only show the symptoms. However, if we only provide consultation for children, it is equivalent to an adult making a mistake and hitting the child with a stick.
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"If a child's problems are the result of various relationships in a family, then through the child, we can see the various problems of the family behind the child."
Xiaoqi's mother was already crying.
She cried quietly for a while, then raised her head and said to Ning Youguang, "Teacher Ning, please help me with my treatment."
As a result, Xiaoqi's family's return to Shencheng was delayed for a few days.
…
The night before I was going back to Jincheng for the New Year.
Ning Youguang spread his suitcase on the floor, and while packing his luggage, he asked carefully, "I won't be here these days, do you think you should go back to live, or stay here?"
"Go back and live. I'll give the things in the refrigerator to Teacher Li. If you stay here, I'll leave them for you to eat."
Shi Wangyue sat cross-legged on the bed and watched her work without saying a word.
Ning Youguang continued to clean up and continued, "I'm not here these days, so you have to remember to have a good breakfast, you know?"
Shi Wangyue remained silent.
Ning Youguang knew that he was a little reluctant, so he continued to talk to himself, "You must sleep for 7 hours every day! You must go to bed before 11 o'clock in the evening. If you have any questions then, feel free to send me a WeChat message."
The moon finally moved.
He walked up to her, closed the closet door, hugged her waist from behind, and put his head against her back, tightly, his voice was low and urgent, "Sister, it's already half past ten, you will be waiting for me tomorrow morning."
It’s time to leave.”
Ning Youguang froze.
Shi Wangyue continued, "How about we hurry up? I really can't stand the thought of you being away for so many days."
Ning Youguang's breathing stopped.
Shi Wangyue bit her ear gently, which made her feel numb all over.
Five o'clock the next morning.
Ning Youguang lay on the bed, his whole body sore and limp, not wanting to move at all.
Shi Wangyue was very attentive in helping her pack her luggage.1314