When the two elders of the Liang family were alive, the daughter of the Liang family had her parents doting on her and living her life as a coquettish young lady every day.
When her parents suddenly passed away and she instantly entered into marriage, she had to face a series of changes in her identity and role, as well as a series of relationship problems that came with it.
At that time, she was obviously in poor condition, but she desperately wanted to get pregnant and have a child of her own.
Only then did she find Dr. Ning Xiao, who was already well-known in the small circle at that time, after looking for several doctors to nurse her back to health for a long time without getting pregnant.
"How is your mother doing now?" Ning Youguang asked with a smile.
Liang Yule's expression immediately changed and he became worried.
"Not good." She said, "I think she is very bad, very bad."
Ning Youguang's heart skipped a beat, and he asked gently, "You came to me, do you need to ask me about anything?"
Liang Yule nodded heavily, "Yes, teacher, is that okay?"
Ning Youguang asked, "Does your mother have any emotional or psychological problems that make you feel bad? Do you need to come to me?"
When Shi Wangyue heard this, she stood up and said, "You guys chat, I have some work to do upstairs first."
Seeing this, Liang Yule quickly asked Ning Youguang, "Teacher, can I talk to you? Someone will come here."
Ning Youguang thought for a while and asked, "Can I go to my room upstairs?"
Liang Yule nodded, "Okay, okay."
Shi Wangyue sat down on the sofa again.
Liang Yule said to him, "Sorry, brother Wangyue, I need to borrow your girlfriend."
Shi Wangyue laughed and said, "You're welcome."
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Ning Youguang smiled and took Liang Yule into his room upstairs.
Unexpectedly, as soon as the two entered the room, she said to her, "Teacher, I think my mother has been raped by my father."
Ning Youguang gently closed the door, "What should I say?"
Liang Yule said, "Because my mother doesn't go out for a long time now, she has become very, very unconfident. She often doubts and blames herself at home. She is as sensitive as if there is a ghost following her behind her every day."
Ning Youguang pulled her to sit on the chair in the room, "Is there any more?"
Liang Yule said, "Yes, she is becoming less and less independent now. She has to ask my dad about everything. She can't make up her mind about simple things. The scariest thing is that every time before my dad comes home from work, she will be at home.
She reflected on whether she had done anything bad at home that day. Then after my dad came in, she began to apologize to my dad. She often felt that she could not do this well or that well. I also felt that I could not do that well.
Mom seems to be sick, she is always nagging, I am really annoyed by her personality."
Ning Youguang asked, "Do you know anything now?"
Liang Yule said, "Yes, once I read about the psychological knowledge about PUA on the Internet and watched the movie "Gaslight Effect", I started to observe my mother, and finally found out that my mother was sick.
But the scariest thing is not my mother, but my father, because my father often poops on my mother!"
The girl's eyes showed panic and anger.
Ning Youguang said, "The phenomena you mentioned are indeed very similar to your mother being imprisoned."
Liang Yule said anxiously, "Right? Teacher, am I right in my analysis?"
Ning Youguang said, "Your analysis is probably correct, but I haven't seen your mother or talked to her personally. I can't tell you accurately whether she was really pampered by your father."
"Then what should we do?" Liang Yule was very distressed. "My mother is really too sensitive. She is so sensitive that she is afraid to see people outside. She doesn't go out. I have no way to bring her out to see you."
Ning Youguang comforted her and said, "Don't panic yet."
After a while, she asked again, "What would you do if your mother was really raped by your father?"
Liang Yule said, "Of course I want to protect my mother!"
Ning Youguang then asked, "In this case, you may become your father's enemy. Are you willing to do so?"
Liang Yule thought for a while and said, "In the movie "Gaslight Effect", the hero's purpose of manipulating the heroine is very obvious. He deliberately drove his wife crazy in order to seize her property. I know this is a movie, but whenever I think of my dad
I can't help but feel scared about the situation at home with my mom and their respective family situations."
Perhaps because she thought of something, the fear on the girl's face deepened.
She said, "Teacher, you know that all our family's property was left to my mother by my grandparents. My father now works in the company that my grandparents left to my mother. My grandparents' family is relatively poor.
You know? When I think about it like this, I can't help but look at my dad evilly. If he doesn't have any bad intentions, why would he want to woo my mom and drive her crazy?"
"My mother is crazy, what good does he do?!"
"Don't scare yourself first. You have to know that if your mother is really in the situation you said, you are the only one in your family who can save your mother." Ning Youguang soothed softly and was frightened by his own thoughts.
The girl said, "So, at this time, you must be strong and you must not be intimidated by yourself."
Liang Yule gritted his teeth and said, "Teacher, you are right, I can't be intimidated by myself."
Not long after, she couldn't help but panicked and said to Ning Youguang, "But I'm still so scared."
She said, "Teacher, you don't know, since I learned about the psychological phenomenon of pua, I can't help but be afraid every time I go home. I don't dare to look at my dad, but I don't dare to tell my mother this either.
I'm afraid that if she tells my dad everything, if my dad is really a bad person, then my mother and I will die miserably?!"
"So, at this time, you need to stabilize yourself more and not let yourself be intimidated." Ning Youguang said, "Can I tell you a secret weapon to make you less afraid?"
"Yeah, yeah." Liang Yule nodded.
Ning Youguang said, "This secret weapon to help you not be afraid is called - 'Believe in your thoughts and you will go crazy'."
Liang Yule couldn't understand it at all, "Teacher, what does this mean? I don't understand."
Ning Youguang said, "We must not believe any of our own thoughts, because our brains are liars. They will generate many messy thoughts to deceive us, constantly scare us, and make us afraid and frightened.
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Liang Yule asked again, "What do you mean by deceiving us by giving birth to a lot of messy ideas?!"
Ning Youguang asked, "Let me give you an example. For example, you think that your mother was raped by your father. So far, it is just your guess. These guesses are all the thoughts that pop up in your mind.