It is only because of our beliefs and minds that it has various meanings and meanings.
For example, if our energy towards money is greedy and demanding, we may have a lot of money in a short period of time.
But because our attachment to money is so powerful, soon we will be overwhelmed by uncontrollable desires and attachments, and we will not be able to keep our money.
If our attitude towards money is contemptuous and arrogant.
While we need money, we also despise money. We feel that money is unclean and we feel uncomfortable holding it.
Then, it will stand far away from us.
If we maintain our own prejudices and stubbornness, we will not be able to enjoy the happiness we deserve throughout our lives.
If our attitude towards money is one of scarcity, money will fulfill our scarcity, making it very difficult for us to earn every penny we earn.
If our attitude towards money is neutral and open, we know that money is just a medium for us to exchange for the life we want and the material things we want, think that it is fluid, and are willing to let it in and let it out.
Then it will definitely serve us devoutly, and it will be easy for us to make money without so much pressure.
Therefore, when we understand the original and original appearance of everything, know how things should be, and get along with everything and ourselves in the most appropriate way, we will feel very comfortable and happy.
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All the pain, illness, suffering, and injuries in life are not just for no reason to cause trouble for us.
They are just messengers of life. All things send us the love of the universe through them, so that we can see problems, deal with them, and ultimately gain happiness and perfection.
Life itself is about realizing the ‘Tao’ every minute and every second.
If we have a heart that desires to truly become better, happier and healthier, and we are willing to take responsibility for ourselves, face it, and change it, everything will get better and better..."
The person speaking on the stage is as beautiful as a fairy, and her voice is like broken jade shaken by the wind, ringing in the ears.
Every word she said was thought-provoking.
All the students in the audience, including school leaders and outstanding alumni, could not help but be guided by her and follow her words to think about the meaning of our lives.
"A calm mind will naturally cool down" is a common saying.
However, when listening to Teacher Ning's speech, everyone had a new understanding of this sentence.
…
The ten-minute speech ended quickly.
After Ning Youguang thanked him, he walked off the stage with a smile.
I received thunderous applause along the way.
Many people in the audience had expressions of joy and thoughtfulness on their faces.
Her warm eyes swept over the faces of everyone in the audience one by one, and she prayed sincerely in her heart: "Dear friends, may you be happy and worry-free in this life, and may you have a long life; may you be loyal to yourself, live seriously, and laugh freely.
"
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When the two returned to Xia's home from No. 3 Middle School.
Xia Ding just finished his work and walked downstairs.
"Did you donate to the school today?" he asked.
"Many of the school's equipment are a bit old." Shi Wangyue replied.
Xia Dai raised his eyebrows, "So how much is it?"
"Donate 10 million." Ning Youguang pulled Shi Wangyue and sat down on the chair.
"It's enough to replace all the equipment." Xia Dai joked with a smile, "The school organizes these activities, and it also deliberately wants to get the contact information of you, the God of Wealth, and invites you there, just to let you plant more fields of blessing."
"Then I have to thank our principal for giving me this opportunity to donate." Shi Wangyue smiled and then explained, "Not all of the money will be used to replace the school's equipment. The principal also plans to use some suggestions to replace the school's equipment.
The school has added a tutoring course training program related to family education, and will use part of the funds to invite family education experts or psychologists to come to the school during after-school hours to provide relevant training courses to the school’s parents free of charge.”
"You are really enlightened." Xia Dai gave Boss Shi a big thumbs up, but his eyes fell on Ning Youguang.
In fact, what he wanted to say more was: "It's really good to have a sister who can be a husband."
How could Shi Wangyue not be able to understand what he meant?
He raised his lips and smiled, "Today the principal was chatting with us privately, saying that there have been more and more students suffering from mental illness in the school in recent years, and we are very worried about them. I think it is very useful to do something for the family education industry.
necessary."
Ning Youguang immediately praised her boyfriend, "Mr. Shi is great."
Xia Dai complained speechlessly, "Why do you praise him like you are praising a child?"
Ning Youguang retorted, "What's wrong with me praising my child?"
Shi Wangyue lowered her head, her deep eyes filled with a tiny smile like starlight.
…
The three of them didn't sit there for long.
Liang Yiyi came to the door holding flowers.
"Aunt Liang, sit down, let's go upstairs to talk about something." Xia Dai took Shi Wangyue away.
"Thank you Dai Dai." As the exchanges with Ning Youguang deepened, Liang Yiyi, Xie Haitang, and Ruan Qiulan also came into contact more.
After she opened her social circle, her contacts with the Xia family increased immediately.
"I knew you were free so I came here, didn't you bother me?" Liang Yiyi gave the flowers to Ning Youguang.
"The flowers are so beautiful." Ning Youguang took it happily, "I don't want to disturb you."
"As long as you like it." Liang Yiyi smiled, "I picked it in our garden."
She was wearing a bright floral dress, her face had grown fleshy, and her complexion was much better than before.
The whole person is bright and completely different from the past.
Ning Youguang knew as soon as he saw her that she was in high spirits, "I didn't know before that Aunt Liang is a master of flower arrangement."
"My mother forced me to learn flower arranging when I was a child. I didn't like it at that time." Liang Yiyi said with a smile, "I didn't expect that I like it now. Now I go to the garden to sit with them for a while every morning. It's you.
You told me, if you see plants happy, you can get energy from them."
"Yes." Ning Youguangle said.
The workers at home came over to serve Liang Yiyi tea and snacks.
Ning Youguang smiled and ordered, "Aunt Zhang, please put this bouquet of flowers in a vase and put it in my room."
"Okay." Aunt Zhang happily hugged the flowers and left.
Liang Yiyi was even happier when she saw that Ning Youguang liked her.
The two of them drank tea.
Liang Yiyi smiled and sighed, "I don't know why, but when I stay by your side, I feel a lot more peaceful inside, and I'm not so impatient anymore."
Ning Youguang smiled and said, "That's because you feel at ease."
"Yeah." Liang Yiyi said, "I used to think too much and drove myself crazy."
"We are drinking tea now." Ning Youguang reminded with a chuckle.
"I'm ruminating again." Liang Yiyi reflected on herself, "I still need to continue to make progress."
"It's okay." Ning Youguang said, "Everyone has a process. As long as you always raise your awareness and continue to train yourself, the new model will become more and more stable."
"I also found this to be the case." Liang Yiyi was very happy when talking about her transformation, "I have now learned not to participate in arguments that I can never win and bring fatal blows to myself, and I no longer pay attention to anyone's chatter.
, a critical, derogatory voice. After a period of time, I obviously feel that I have become stronger. I really like this feeling."
"Congratulations." Ning Youguang is happiest when seeing patients getting better and better.
"Now I finally experience what you told me before, that it was because I actively cooperated with Lele's father that I was manipulated by him."
"Great." Ning Youguang said, "Continue to maintain this state and stabilize yourself, and you will become more and more clear about the motivations behind other people's actions and words. When you see more and more clearly, you
You can look deeper into any problem, and then you will be able to look at everything happening around you from a very high dimension, and all the sneaky tricks will not escape your eyes."
"Yes, yes." Liang Yiyi was very excited thinking about that day, "When I saw through Lele's father's hypocritical tricks, I found that I would never idealize him like before, nor would I long for his
Approved."
Ning Youguang listened quietly.
Until Liang Yiyi explained the main purpose of coming to her this time, "Teacher Ning, I want to get divorced, do you think it's okay?"
Ning Youguang looked at Liang Yiyi with warm eyes and asked, "You have made a decision, haven't you?"
"Yes, I have made my decision." Liang Yiyi took a long breath and said calmly, "Some time ago, I found that he was having an affair with the nanny."
"I see you are in good spirits now." Ning Youguang replied.
"Yes." Liang Yiyi smiled peacefully, "I'm in good spirits now."
"If you don't come back now, I will send you a message in the next few days to tell you about my decision." She said, "I didn't expect that when I saw him getting together with the nanny, my heart would break.
There was no disturbance, it was so calm, so calm that I was shocked."
Liang Yiyi's face showed deep disbelief.
——For her own state.
This aroused Ning Youguang's interest, "Oh?"
Liang Yiyi felt a little excited when she thought about the scene that day.
"You know? That day I caught them on the bed in the hotel. I thought I would definitely feel uncomfortable, but I found out that it was not the case. I was very calm and calm. They said, 'Are you done?', you
I didn’t even know, the way they looked at me at that time..." She laughed, "I asked the security guard to go in and put all their clothes in the trash can. Lele’s father was so shocked that he covered his quilt and wanted to apologize to me, but I told him to shut up.
He shut up, and then he told me that he wanted to stay in a hotel first, do you know how I answered him? "
"How did you answer that?"
"I said, 'What hotel should I stay in? Just rent a room.'"
"Awesome." Ning Youguang looked at Liang Yiyi with admiration, "What happens next?"
"Then our nanny wanted to leave, and I told her, 'Why don't you go? Go home and cook the food!'" Liang Yiyi vividly repeated the tone of her speech that day.
Ning Youguang was shocked!
"Oh my god, how did you do that?!"
"I don't know either." Liang Yiyi was also surprised at her performance that day, "But I did it."
"Whatever." She said with a smile, "I'm the best if I do it!"
"Yes, yes." Ning Youguang wished he could give her a hundred likes, "Awesome!"
The students are so outstanding that the teachers can’t even react.
The two laughed for a while.
Liang Yiyi added, "I've been thinking about why I can be so calm in the face of this matter these days. I think it's because I discovered that Lele's father never gave me love, appreciation and companionship. Not only that.
, he also gave me a lot of fear and negative energy, I can’t wait to stay away from him, he means nothing to me now.”
Liang Yiyi counted on her fingers, "I have the money myself, and I can support Lele by myself. There is no need for me to continue to maintain this marriage relationship that will only make me distorted."
"Thinking about it this way, I think his cheating is also a good thing for me. I can make a more determined choice to end this marriage."
"Have you always had such a good attitude?" Ning Youguang asked with a smile.
"No." Liang Yiyi smiled, "When I came out of the hotel that day, I found that I still couldn't help but feel a lot of discomfort. To tell you the truth, I vomited outside the hotel. At that time, I was still thinking
Do you want me to call you and ask you to help me clean up and heal? But then I thought of you saying that if you encounter something unhappy and you can’t digest it for the time being, you can do other things to divert your attention, so I turned around.
I went shopping in the mall, isn’t there a saying that goes like this?”
Liang Yiyi said happily——
"If men can't make you happy, then spending money will certainly make you happy."
In order to get over her broken love as soon as possible, Liang Yiyi went to the largest luxury shopping mall in Jincheng, planning to buy and buy to make herself happy.
"Miss, you have a great figure. This outfit looks so beautiful on you."
"My skin is so good, and this color matches you so well."
"This bag looks really good when you hold it in your hand."
"This skirt is really suitable for a beautiful woman like you."
"These shoes match you very well. They are new models that have just arrived."
When she went to the mall, she was surrounded by those sweet-talking sales ladies who praised her——
I……
beauty……
rich……
Chanel, Dior, Hermès, i, and countless compliments!
Liang Yiyi discovered that learning to divert her attention can really make herself happy.
She soon became happy.
"Although love is gone, life must go on." Liang Yiyi picked up the teacup elegantly and smiled at Ning Youguang.
She used to be lovable, but now that she has opened her heart, her whole person seems to have returned to her former cuteness and lovability. When people see her smile, they can't help but feel joy in their hearts.
She said, "Divorce is the right decision I think I can make, but it may also bring real losses."
Whether the future will be good or bad, no one can say for sure.
But she must take responsibility for herself.
She gently put down the tea cup.
Explain to Ning Youguang the other purpose of coming this time——
"I know Mr. Shi has a legal team known as the 'strongest on the planet'. Can I ask them to help me with my divorce lawsuit?"