I carefully read through the content posted by this girl on her personal self-media account.
After watching silently for a while -
She wanted to say: "The collapse of this girl's personality is inevitable."
Judging from the content she posted, her previous popularity was due to the traffic she attracted with a female image that seemed to have high self-worth, and she was recognized as a winner as soon as she appeared.
This leads to the image of her personal life displayed on the Internet, which can only always be a winner, never a loser.
The only way to win and not lose is that her true situation is consistent with the image she displays on the online platform, otherwise her character will collapse sooner or later.
She was bound by this persona, and she did not realize that her own personal situation did not have the right to dominate wherever she was shown to netizens.
Because the personal information she only displayed to netizens, all the high values were false and just castles in the air.
As long as there is one flaw in her body, everything will be lost.
What's more, there is no loophole in her. She is just a piece of rag, which can be broken to pieces if someone pulls it slightly, and cannot withstand scrutiny at all.
Girls who gain a sense of self-worth through external conditions such as beauty, superior family conditions, luxurious life, or personality charm that men like to pursue, and make themselves popular on the Internet, actually reflect on the other side.
It shows that there may be certain problems with the current value placed on women.
These netizens who like to watch her life, on the one hand envy her and want to live like her, but on the other hand, watching her personal life will make most ordinary girls feel endless anxiety, which can be described as contradictory and twisted.
And often in real life, people who want to use these external objects to enhance their sense of self-worth cannot understand the truth of the universe, which is -
"The people and the environment outside are always changing. Today you may be able to win against Little Red who has worse conditions than you, but tomorrow you may lose to Little Green who has better conditions than you. The only constant in this world is
Variety."
People's anxiety and stress often come from a sense of inability to control life and endless comparisons.
The most painful thing for this girl is that in her true state, there is no way she can be as powerful as she shows.
Therefore, when her true situation was revealed, she simply could not accept such a blow.
Let yourself fall into the false persona you created for yourself and be unable to extricate yourself. While driving yourself to a dead end, you also fall into division because you don't accept your true situation, and resent your parents for dragging them into the abyss of darkness.
Through her situation, Ning Youguang thought that there are actually many people on the Internet who have the same lifestyle as her.
The living conditions of such people are actually very dangerous, but because of wrong values and cognitive guidance, they often go into more dangerous situations, and finally fall into pain.
Therefore, if this girl is really willing to come and see her, she is also willing to show her.
The premise is that she is willing to accept the change!
After reading this girl’s message, Ning Youguang couldn’t help but post on Weibo——
[An ordinary person: When we share our beautiful travels, romantic dates, or receive luxurious gifts in our circle of friends..., have we ever questioned ourselves for a moment: Why should I post these contents?