There is a bouquet of draped begonias placed in the bathroom.
The sun shines on the crabapples, the fragrance drifts away, and there are no worries at all. It is extremely wonderful.
Ning Youguang said in a video with Ming Jinxin: "During the renovation, I have been debating whether to knock out this bathroom and redo it, because I don't like the two marble stones on the wall that are deliberately patterned against each other. Now I feel that the more I look at it, the more pleasing it is to my eyes.
It’s not because of those two stones, but I feel that the harmony of the whole is more important than the local details. Sometimes being too caught up in the details will make us lose the grasp of the whole.”
"You're glad you didn't redo the bathroom, right?" Ming Jinxin, who was opposite, had a headscarf on her head and her shoulders exposed, "I told you that the color of this hard outfit matches your favorite aesop so well!"
"Yes." Ning Youguang asked with a smile, "What are you doing?"
"Get ready to take a bath." Ming Jinxin said.
"Take a bath at noon?" Ning Youguang was surprised.
"Yes." Ming Jinxin smiled brightly, "Your brother is taking online classes, your dad is communicating remotely about work, and the workers are preparing lunch. As for me, let's take a happy bath in the noon sun."
"You really enjoy it!" Ning Youguang praised.
"It's not about enjoyment, it's about benefiting the whole family." Ming Jinxin said, "Because my mother deeply understands this truth. Only when the mother is happy, the whole family will be happy. Making oneself happy, for the mother, is work.
Task!"
Ning Youguang couldn't help but smile.
Ming Jinxin looked at her happy smiling face in the video and couldn't help but joke, "If you move to the future, you can also live a life like me, doing spas and taking baths in the sun."
Ning Youguang shook his head gently, "Forget it, I don't have the life of a noble lady for the time being, so I'd better live in my own little nest and be more comfortable."
"You can't bear to live in a mansion without living in it since you were young, and have to squeeze into a dormitory with you?" Ming Jin was speechless.
"I can't bear it." Ning Youguang shook his head, "So, I will mention the move to him later."
"OK……"
Ming Jinxin felt that her stepdaughter might not have understood the importance of her heart when she was a child.
That child made all kinds of excuses not to move to a new home, and it wasn't because she never agreed to move with him!
After being together for so long, she finally understood.
Although this kid looked calm when he was young, he also had to bear a lot in the daily life of the young couple.
But in fact, of the couple, he is the one who relies on you.
She couldn't help but think of her stepdaughter's unshakable sense of determination, which was like a mountain, as well as her extraordinary emotional stability and psyche. She felt that it was not surprising that they would have this kind of relationship with each other.
After all, there is a sense of security that was missing elsewhere when I was young.
He can always relax by her side and always be his own protagonist.
A person who has the ability to make others feel safe, whether he is a man or a woman, will always be the one with the initiative in an intimate relationship.
Because their hearts are so strong, they are fearless, they can grow love independently, they can be happy with anyone, and they can make themselves happy alone.
People with this personality trait are certainly the best for themselves.
But for the relying party, it is not so safe.
I still remember the day of Mid-Autumn Festival.
When I was young, I once told her in a very gentle but serious tone in the kitchen: "What I want is very simple. I can find her when I need her. When I speak, I know that she is listening. I understand that she is with me."
There are no secrets in front of you, no matter what happens, we will always be there."
The reason why he said this to her.
She felt that maybe she had realized something when she was young, just like Gu Long once said -
"A person will be afraid of losing only when he wants something very much. This feeling of worrying about gain and loss may be one of the many weaknesses of human beings. Sadly, the more eager you are to get something, the greater the possibility of losing it."
His heart is far less powerful than Youyou, and far less gentle than what he showed in front of Youyou.
However, she could see that he had been working hard to grow up, make his heart stronger, make himself gentle and restrained, just to love her better.
He was too afraid of losing her.
Unlucky children in their native families are more or less unsure of themselves.
A person who was so outstanding and outstanding when he was young should not have low self-esteem.
But he also gave all the lack of confidence in his life to their girl.
So even if we are already together, we don't dare to relax at all. We always carefully monitor our actions and words, and don't dare to lose control in the slightest.
But boys are also emotional creatures who care about details. Many times, it’s not that they are unaware of it, but they are unwilling to reveal their true feelings because they are boys.
Occasionally, it is rare to reveal something to outsiders, either because I can't help it, or to achieve a certain purpose.
For a person as cautious and sophisticated as she was when she was young, she would definitely not be able to suppress it if she said it to her like this.
Then his purpose is easy to understand - to tell her husband through her mouth:
"Please believe in my love for your daughter."
"Please see that I care about your daughter so much and support us more in the future."
"In this intimate relationship with your daughter, I am the weak one, so please don't doubt that I will do anything to regret her."
…
When Shi Wangyue pushed open the bathroom door, she saw Ning Youguang standing in front of the floor-to-ceiling window, turning to face him with a faint smile.
What does that feel like?
Being with her is always like the early spring morning, like the summer evening wind, like...
"It's been seven or eight months since the vaginal discharge. When do you plan to move here?"
Like late at night when it snowed in winter, it was so cold that it made him feel chilly, and he was frozen in place instantly.
After a long while, he finally controlled his almost out-of-control emotions, walked up to her, and asked softly, "Why are you asking this question again?"
"Because it's really comfortable here." Ning Youguang gently stroked the sunlit blinds.
"Didn't we discuss this issue before?" Shi Wangyue lowered her eyes slightly and said, "I won't move for the time being."
When you agree to move here, I will move here.
This is our new house.
Ning Youguang knew that Shi Wangyue only wanted to be with her, but she had her own concerns.
So she pretended not to notice his sudden change of emotions and said slowly, "In St. Gallen, Switzerland, near the north shore of Lake Zurich, there is a village called Berlingen. In 1922, my beloved psychologist Jung chose to build a village there.
Living room, he initially built a simple two-story stone house, which he called the 'Tower'. He commented on the 'Tower', 'I carry the key with me at all times, and no one is allowed to enter this room without my permission.'
This room was his home studio, where he would write, and whenever he entered the 'Tower,' he would not allow anyone to disturb him." 1314