358 If you want to understand others, you must first understand yourself
Jincheng, Xiajia.
Xia Fei, who was pregnant with her belly, leaned on the sofa and said to Ning Youguang with an anxious look on her face, "Being pregnant really takes a toll on your hairline."
"Yes, I saw it." Ning Youguang sat and had snacks.
What I had was Jincheng Longjing tea cake.
The whole body of the tea puff pastry is green, with distinct layers of puff pastry. The aroma of Longjing tea is wrapped around the broken egg yolk. Take a bite and the crispy pastry is delicate. The fresh and rich aroma of Longjing tea is refreshing.
It has a crispy and soft texture, the aroma of Longjing tea, refreshing but not greasy. It is Ning Youguang's favorite snack since he was a child.
Every time she returns to Jincheng, her aunt will carefully prepare it for her.
"..." Xia Fei gritted her teeth angrily, "Can you help me take care of my hair problem first and then have some snacks?"
"No." Ning Youguang said, "Anyway, your hair will grow back after you give birth, so just spend some time now."
"Fuck you." Xia Fei stretched out his foot and kicked her, "I wonder if you will be as calm as you are now when you wash your hair like a crime scene after you get pregnant."
"No." Ning Youguang said calmly.
"That's it..." Xia Fei felt a little more balanced.
"I said my pregnancy wouldn't be as serious as your U-turn."
But he was so angry that Ning Youguang completed his words and fell down.
She picked up the pillow next to her and threw it at Ning Youguang, "Wait until you're done giving birth before you talk nonsense."
"Take it easy." Ning Youguang ducked sideways and chuckled, "It's not fair to be pregnant, so be careful with prenatal education."
Then, she added, "I'm not talking big words, I'm talking about accurate predictions."
After Xia Fei stiffened, she lowered her head, touched her belly gently, and said pretentiously through her belly and the baby in her belly: "I'm sorry, baby, mom didn't mean to use harsh words."
After coaxing her baby several times, she looked at Ning Youguang again, "Who told you to make me angry?"
"Yes, I am angry with you." Ning Youguang finished the Longjing tea cake in his hand, then picked up the tea cup and drank tea with an elegant and picturesque posture, and chuckled.
But Xia Fei choked to death.
After a while, she asked curiously, "Why are you so sure that your hair loss will not be so severe during pregnancy? Do you have any secrets?"
Ning Youguang smiled, "I told you that pregnancy will cause hair loss, but I'm not mentally prepared."
"How did I know it would be so serious?" Xia Fei was speechless. "Grandpa gave me several dietary prescriptions, but they didn't work for me."
Ning Youguang continued drinking tea, "Oh."
Xia Fei became anxious when she saw her casual look, "Tell me, do you have any secrets to avoid hair loss during pregnancy?!"
Ning Youguang smiled slyly, "Yes."
"What is it?" Xia Fei asked excitedly.
"Go to bed before ten o'clock every night." Ning Youguang said.
"..." Xia Fei was speechless, "What kind of secret is this?"
Ning Youguang raised his eyebrows, "Why don't you count it?"
She said, "Who is like you? You are not honest when you are pregnant. You go to bed after twelve o'clock every night. You should be careful when your son is born. You also go to bed after twelve o'clock every night. Then you will have fun."
"Son?" Xia Fei asked in surprise, "Have you noticed it too?"
"Yeah." Ning Youguang said, "Grandpa also said he was his son?"
Xia Fei nodded sadly, "Yes, grandpa was pregnant right after she was pregnant."
She wanted a fragrant and soft daughter, and was not looking forward to the birth of a boy.
Then, she asked, "If I go to bed late now, will it also cause my son to go to bed late?"
"It's most likely like this." Ning Youguang said, "It's not 100% certain."
"Then I'd better adjust my schedule." Xia Fei thought about going to bed after twelve o'clock every night after the baby was born. She thought she would go crazy by then.
"It's good to be enlightened." Ning Youguang was happy to see her make changes.
Xia Fei asked melancholy again, "Yes, is there really no solution for my hair loss?"
Ning Youguang nodded, "Yes."
"What is it?" Xia Fei slightly asked suspiciously.
"Let me share a little secret with you." Ning Youguang put down the tea cup in his hand, and seeing the suspicion on Xia Fei's face getting stronger, he assured, "It's the real secret."
"Say." Xia Fei then pricked up her ears seriously.
"Every time you wash your hair, don't wash the scalp directly with shampoo, then use water and white vinegar to massage the hair roots, and then wash your hair with shampoo, that's it." Ning Youguang said.
"Really?" Xia Fei couldn't believe it, "Is it that simple?!
"You'll know if it works if you try it." Ning Youguang said with a smile.
"Okay." Xia Fei touched her forehead, "I'll try it when I get back tonight."
After chatting about the issues she was most concerned about, Xia Fei finally had the intention to care about the other person, "Why didn't you bring me back for the New Year this time?"
Ning Youguang smiled, "We're not married, so of course we won't bring him back to celebrate the New Year."
"It's not taboo now. He spent the New Year at our house last year." Xia Fei pouted, "Can you bear to let him spend the New Year alone in the capital?"
"There is nothing wrong with celebrating the New Year alone." Ning Youguang said, "The New Year itself is not something particularly worth celebrating."
"What nonsense are you talking about?!" Xia Fei didn't understand.
"Because the arrival of the New Year also means that everyone is one year closer to death." Ning Youguang sighed.
"..." Xia Fei was simply stunned, but after thinking about it, she felt that what she said was quite right.
But once she agreed with Ning Youguang's words, she could no longer look forward to and be happy about this New Year.
It's just adding to the depression and worries.
In the end, she could only sigh, "Don't say such things during the New Year, you will be beaten."
So unlucky.
"I know." Ning Youguang nodded, "The vast majority of people in this world just like to live like this, deceiving themselves and others."
"You're right." Xia Fei simply worshiped Ning Youguang.
The two chatted for a few more words.
Xia Fei talked about her husband, "Sometimes I feel that I don't understand him very well. Especially after we have been together for a long time, I find that there are many things in him that I have not seen before."
"Of course." Ning Youguang said, "Human nature is complex and changeable. If you keep looking at it with fixed ideas, of course you will be wrong."
"Yeah." Xia Fei nodded, "You're right, I still need to think about it carefully and not be framed by fixed ideas."
She said, "It's not easy, because it's easy for people to fall into inherent cognition. Do you have any good advice for me about this?"
Ning Youguang said, "If you really want to understand him and think that understanding him is very beneficial to the two of you, then my advice to you is that you'd better understand yourself first, because each of us
The feeling of seeing others is part of what we understand and want to see." 1314
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