Since he will not harm his own interests, he is a master with real background and strength, and he is a smart person who knows that he should treat her as his own side and never stand on the opposite side of her.
"That's right." Jin Soyan sneered.
After a while, she softly mocked again, "The daughter-in-law of the Zhang family and the second son of the Li family, they turned around so fast. They didn't take a serious look at the person named Zhuang before, but now they see that she has the trump card of Ning Youguang."
, I immediately stuck to it with a worried look on my face, it’s true that wherever there is the fragrance of flowers, there are them.”
"Isn't that Zhuang Yijing, who is capable and able to please Miss Ning's family?"
Jin Jiayi herself was thinking that she would go and say hello to Miss Ning and the rich Zhuang family again later.
Jin Soyan saw that her aunt was not listening to her seriously, so she turned to look at her boyfriend next to her, only to find that he was also looking at Zhuang Yijing.
A handsome face, with a deep expression that she couldn't see through.
She smiled and said, "Awei, look at those women, don't they look funny?"
Xu Wei lowered his head and took a sip of wine, "Really?"
The expression on his face became colder, without any intention of agreeing with Jin Soyan.
Jin Soyan didn't notice the subtle change in the expression on his face, and said with a sweet smile, "Yes."
Xu Wei turned to look at her, and there were many things in her eyes that she couldn't understand.
Jin Soyan felt strange at this sight, and her smile instantly froze at the corner of her mouth.
…
After all the Bai Fumei dispersed.
Zhuang Yijing smiled and said to Ning Youguang, "Thanks to you, I'm afraid I'll have endless appointments in the future."
Ning Youguang pursed his lips and smiled, "If you like it, go, if you don't like it, push it away."
"That's all we can do." Zhuang Yijing said lazily, "It's not like them who don't have to go to work and spend all day in social circles. I have money, beauty and leisure. I'm as busy as
There is absolutely no way for the cattle beaters in the production team to mix with them."
Ning Youguang chuckled and said, "Everyone has their own way of living, there is no need to force them to live together."
Zhuang Yijing also laughed, "Indeed, although they don't seem to have to go to work, I really don't envy them at all. I can't live the kind of life they live for a day. It's a big headache just thinking about it. How can they live a lifetime?
What? It’s not boring either.”
Ning Youguang smiled and said, "It would be better for you to be a rich woman and concentrate on mining."
Zhuang Yijing laughed loudly, "I just like making money. Making money is what motivates me to work until twelve o'clock every day."
Ning Youguang nodded, and after a while, he said softly, "It's actually not easy for them."
Zhuang Yijing was slightly stunned, "What's so difficult for them? They can eat, drink, buy and buy every day. Even an individual can make it."
"Although everyone can do eating, drinking, and buying, the results obtained by each person are different from the goals they want to achieve." Ning Youguang shook his head slowly, "The truest happiness in life never comes from eating and drinking.
If you don’t get it from superficial desires like buying clothes, but from restraint, self-discipline, diligence, and the satisfaction of getting things done today, you will actually be happier than they are.”
"What you said makes sense, but I don't know and I can't care if they live happily or not." Zhuang Yijing curled his lips, disdain appeared on his face, "I just don't understand that they still look at it even though they live such a shallow life.
They are not as good as a down-to-earth and hard-working workaholic like me. What can they do to me? Apart from having a good background, what else can compare to me?"
She continued, "Today they invited me to participate in their activities because of my good relationship with you. When have I, Zhuang Yijing, been treated seriously by young ladies like them before?"
Ning Youguang gently touched Zhuang Yijing's head and said with a smile, "Baby, you are wronged. Be good and don't be angry."
"I'm not angry. I know what I am like. I don't care what they think of me." Zhuang Yijing couldn't help but raise the corners of his mouth, "I'm not as elegant as them, and I'm not as noble as them, but I rely on my own brains.
He can conquer the world with his hands and is much more confident in his life than they are. It doesn't matter who despises whom."
Ning Youguang smiled and looked at Zhuang Yijing with a proud face, "You are very good and can create more value for society than them, so I say you are more happy than them."
Zhuang Yijing boasted that it was okay, but he felt a little embarrassed when Ning Youguang praised him.
She laughed for a while and then said softly, "They are not useless. At least they are all versatile. They can sing, dance, drink tea, taste wine, ride horses and ski, and golf. They are also very good."
Ning Youguang said, "Yeah, so I said it's not easy for them. They have worked very hard since they were young. It's just that the direction of their efforts and the things involved are different from ordinary people, but the hard work they put in is the same.
"
Zhuang Yijing touched his chin, "You put it this way, it seems that it is really not easy for them. They know so much, and they must spend a lot of time and effort to learn."
Ning Youguang nodded, "That's it."
Seeing Ning Youguang's delicate and calm face, Zhuang Yijing suddenly asked curiously, "How did you live before?"
"We?" Ning Youguang was stunned.
"That's right." Zhuang Yijing said, "You are a eldest lady just like them. The way you grew up and the things you learned when you were young should be similar, right?"
Ning Youguang's eyes turned slightly, and after thinking for a while, he said, "I'm a little different from them. My parents divorced early, and I had a relatively free childhood. My grandparents, uncles, and aunts were very accepting, so I wanted to attend interest classes."
It's whatever it is, so I didn't work as hard as them to learn so many things, and my childhood was much easier than theirs."
"Is this like this?" Zhuang Yijing said in surprise, "I just asked, why is this young lady like you so different?"
Then, she smiled and said, "I'm just curious about how the growth process of the daughter of a famous lady is different from that of ordinary people like us. It seems that I asked the wrong person."
Ning Youguang curled his lips and smiled without saying anything.
But in his heart, he was thinking that Zhuang Yijing actually asked the wrong person.
As a role model among the famous ladies in Jincheng in her previous life, she knew very well the growth and learning process of these ladies and daughters from childhood.
Therefore, she can understand their difficulties.
Thinking of this, Ning Youguang could not help but think of the scenes he had experienced in his previous life and the time he spent before he was a minor.
At that time, although she had lived with her parents since she was a child, due to the extremely bad relationship between her parents, her grandparents were afraid that they would teach their children badly, so they forcibly interfered with her education.
Under the control of her grandparents, she inevitably lived the life a so-called "rich lady" should live.
She started learning ballet at the age of four, cello, drawing, and oil painting at the age of six. She learned tea ceremony and incense ceremony when she was about ten, and when she was older she learned figure skating and horse riding.
Maybe it was because her grandparents were so disappointed and dissatisfied with her parents that they were particularly strict with her tutoring.
There are many rules and etiquette, speech and behavior, various aspects, ranging from academic performance, various certificates, going out to socialize and attend events, as small as knocking on the door, entering the door, sitting and standing posture.
Grandma said, "A rich lady must have a decent appearance and figure."
Therefore, she is never allowed to drink drinks or eat snacks, so every time she walks on the street and sees other children eating snacks, she becomes extremely envious and greedy.
She remembered that when she was little, her grandma would often tell her that there was something wrong with the way you eat, sit, walk, and speak.
When her parents divorced, the relatives and elders around her always felt a sense of pity and confidence when they saw her.
And she will find that these are probably due to her inferiority complex. This inferiority complex is another personality she developed since she was a child in a family environment with a bad relationship between her parents.
Therefore, she has felt that living is a very tiring thing since she was a child, even if she has three nannies to take care of her.
Although Zhuang Yijing was her good friend, Ning Youguang, to be fair, looked down upon her like Miss Li, and it was not unreasonable for her to be arrogant and malicious because they thought she was a nouveau riche.
Because education is a habit that everyone has cultivated since childhood, from the details of a person's speech and even gestures... these all require the combination of various causes and conditions to develop. It is difficult for people to change in a short period of time, and it is also difficult to change in a short period of time.
Just learn it.
In her last life, she had grown up like this.
Indeed, as her grandparents expected, she became a junior in the circle who was praised by the elders for her beauty. She was often published in magazines, and her excellent articles were left on forums.
She received a lot of compliments. No matter what occasion she attended, she looked exquisite and lovely. Her grandparents and aunts also valued her, but she was not happy.
Even if many people talk about daily life today, many people will complain about Versailles, but as a person in the game, I just feel increasingly lonely, always feeling like a clown, like a puppet.
When I go to many social occasions, I often see people who do charity, who beg for help, and who want to cause trouble...
Everyone seemed busy and exciting, but she found it boring.
In her previous childhood, the most interesting thing in her memory was that a tutor took her to raise sunflowers.
From her past life to this life, she didn't like to socialize.
Fortunately in this life, she can choose her own way of living.
But in her previous life, she could not refuse her family's requests and expectations, so she had to agree to the many social activities they expected her to attend.
At that time, as long as she promised her family to attend social events in principle, she was then required to make no mistakes in the social arena.
She twisted her will, endured the torment in her heart, and completed the task well again and again.
Fortunately, she has a fairly smart mind, and she can receive countless praises and applause every time, which makes her family feel satisfied and happy, but she only feels hypocritical.
She deeply remembered that in her previous life, when she was twelve years old, she once interrupted in public and was severely punished by her grandma when she came home. She did not understand it in a ridiculous and pitiful manner.
But from that day on, she no longer liked to talk. The more lively the occasion, the less she liked to talk.
Those years abroad were the time when she began to experience happiness. Even if she was wandering alone, she was very leisurely and contented. She had no restraints and had more freedom.
Later, when she began to contact psychology and began to grow up on her own, she learned to reject others, heal herself, and understand that life is rare.
As a human being, you must not base your happiness and expectations on others, otherwise she will never get the happiness and joy you want.
Only then did he slowly adjust his abnormal life to the right path.
As a result, she began to experience real happiness and freedom.
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"Sister, you are too humble. If you are an ordinary person, then who am I? Am I a beggar?" Although Zhuang Jianxian was playing games, it did not prevent him from listening to the chat between his eldest sister and the fairy sister.
"That's right." Zhuang Siqi also put away his mobile phone, "As long as you know how to make money, you can defeat all the skills they know, okay?"
"Yes!" Zhuang Jianxian said proudly, "And what if they look down on us for being inelegant and meaningless? It doesn't stop them from kneeling down and licking you at all."
Zhuang Siqi agreed very much with his brother's words, "Yes, you are much better than them. There is no need to wonder how they lived when they were children. The most important thing in life is to look forward. The one who laughs last is the king!"
"You told us." Zhuang Jianxian came closer to Zhuang Yijing and said with a smile, "The reason you work so hard is not to be 10% better than others, but to be 1000% better. Because it's useless for you to be better than others. Really
The useful thing is that you are much better than others. Only when you stand on the top of the mountain can you be at the top of the mountain and see all the small mountains. When you stand on the 1st floor, someone scolds you, and you are very angry when you hear it. When you stand on the 10th floor, someone scolds you.
You, you can't hear clearly, you think others are greeting you. You are standing on the 100th floor, and someone scolds you, you can't see or hear it. If you have that time, do the right thing and run all the way! Until they
I can’t even see your back, you have to use 1% of your life to defeat 99% of the bullies.”
"Congratulations, you have perfectly used your strength to hit these ladies in the face." Zhuang Siqi added happily, clapping his hands.
Zhuang Yijing was amused by the words of the dealer twins, "Thank you for thinking so highly of me."
Ning Youguang looked at his best friend who looked grateful but couldn't hide the happiness in his eyes, and praised him, "You are really amazing. It's really amazing that a person can learn many skills, but what I admire most is that he can
You are the person who maximizes a skill."
"Don't give me the ecstasy soup!" Zhuang Yijing said with a serious face, "I will be proud."
She said, "Pride makes people fall behind, and humility makes people progress. I am still far from what I want to do, so you can't hypnotize me so quickly. By then, I will be so proud that I will no longer be able to work hard."
what to do?"
"okokok." The three people on the field immediately shut up obediently, "We won't praise you anymore. If you work hard, we will be waiting to hug you."
Zhuang Yijing didn't hold back and smiled again.
－－－－－－Digression－－－－－
This chapter briefly explains the experiences of childhood and adolescence in a previous life.