Among them are many students who have never taken Ning Youguang's class before.
It was the first time that they heard the goddess speak so many words to them, and they were so close to the goddess. They were very excited and found it very interesting.
While I was fascinated by it, I couldn't help but pick up my phone and call friends and classmates in various groups to come and listen.
Soon, many students gathered around Ning Youguang who heard the news.
"Teacher Ning, can you please give us love counseling?" In the crowd, a male classmate who was slightly fat and average height asked.
As Ning Youguang started chatting with his classmates, the students around him became more and more bold to ask questions.
"Okay." Ning Youguang looked at the student who wanted to ask her for love counseling with gentle eyes and said, "What is your love problem?"
"No, I have no problem, I'm just asking for you." The fat male classmate lowered his head shyly.
There were several male classmates surrounding him, and at first glance they seemed to be a good group of people having fun.
When they saw that the fat boy was too shy to continue asking questions to the goddess, they laughed and teased him.
On the other side, a girl immediately seized this opportunity to ask Ning Youguang a question——
"Teacher Ning, what I want to ask is, if we fall in love, how should we choose our partner?"
Ning Youguang withdrew his gaze from the group of fat boys and landed on the girl who asked the question, "I believe you have all heard such a sentence."
She said, "Falling with you is one kind of person, and marrying you is another kind of person. What this sentence means is that what kind of person you like, you can draw up your standards before falling in love.
There is definitely no one person in this world who meets your conditions. It is the investigation period before falling in love. I suggest you not to rush into being a lover. You can make friends with the other person first. To make friends means that you are not lovers.
You two are just friends, and how far this friendship will go in the end depends on how comfortable you two are with each other."
"What I mean is, if you are considering whether a person should become your significant other, you must know in your heart that I am not with you for the sake of falling in love, but that you know very well in your heart that you
You want to see if you are comfortable with the other person. If you are not comfortable, you can keep the distance between each other. Don't get too close. If you are comfortable, you can get closer. I think this kind of relationship will be more mature. Once the relationship is established, it will also make each other more comfortable.
The comfort level is much higher.”
There was warm applause from all around.
The female classmate asked again, "How can I tell whether the other person really loves me or is pretending to love me?"
Her question brought out the thoughts of many students present, and the place fell into silence.
Ning Youguang said, "The person who truly loves you will see you and your needs, while the person who falsely loves you can only see his own needs. When you find that you cannot be real in front of the other person,
When you are being yourself, this is not love. If you distort your heart for a long time, one day it will explode."
Another classmate asked, "Teacher, I feel that I have many flaws and I am not good with the opposite sex. What should I do if no one loves me?"
Ning Youguang turned to look at the questioner and found that he was a short boy with an ordinary face.
"Tolstoy once said, 'Everyone has flaws, just like an apple bitten by God. Some people have bigger flaws because God particularly likes their fragrance.'" She smiled at him and said.
, "The so-called love comes back to those who love you, and blessings come to those who come. If you feel that you have no love, give love. If your relationship with the opposite sex is not good, first concentrate on doing what you can do so that your social value can be improved.
, usually help others a lot, because you never know when fate will favor you and shine a bright light on what you thought was a gloomy future."
"Goddess, do you think sudden wealth can solve the pain in our lives?" Another classmate asked.
"When we were relatively poor in material terms, everyone was thinking, if one day I become rich, then all the problems will be solved. Other than that, I don't need anything. But in fact, when people
After you really have money, you will find that many problems still cannot be solved." Ning Youguang answered.
"Goddess, how do you understand the four words of inner strength?" The person who asked this question was a girl wearing glasses, but at the age of twenty, her eyes were different and sharp.
After Ning Youguang looked at her, he said with gentle eyes, "Many people think that 'having a strong heart' means becoming the most iron-hearted and indestructible person in the universe. But the fact is exactly the opposite. A person with a strong heart is real, both internally and externally.
Consistent. She will bravely show and express all aspects of herself, including strength and vulnerability, happiness and sadness; she will open her heart to others and will not close herself because of hurt; she will feel happiness easily,
I am also full of empathy for the suffering of others, and can treat myself and others with acceptance and gentleness.”
"Is that so?" The girl fell into deep thought.
Ning Youguang nodded firmly, "Yes."
"Teacher Ning, I'm often not sure of my abilities. What should I do to make myself more sure of myself?"
"The more you do, the more confident you will be in your abilities."
Professor Ning, the famous psychology teacher in the school, set up a stall under the magnolia tree to provide free consultations to all students in the school. This is an unprecedented move at the National University of Science and Technology.
It was a rare opportunity. Seeing that she patiently answered any question, the students raised questions about life, love, future career development, and self-growth that they encountered in daily life.
Some classmates even asked her how she should deal with conflicts between herself and her friends, and how she should deal with conflicts between herself and her parents...
The types of questions are quite diverse.
So, they surrounded her from dusk to dusk.
On this day, on the campus of the National University of Science and Technology.
The windy playground, the dotted street lamps, and the bustling crowd all became gentle because of the man who sat under the magnolia tree and patiently answered the students' questions.
When leaving.
Ning Youguang said, "You have asked me so many wonderful questions today. Now, let me imagine you asking a question, okay?"
"Okay." The voices of the students resounded over the campus of the National University of Science and Technology.
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Regarding falling in love, please refer to Professor Li Meijin’s love theory~