For a time, many people in the publishing and literary circles commented: "The reason why the book "Loving You Is Loving Myself" was successful lies in the author's ability to stay focused, sharpen his sword for ten years, and just focus on the theme of self-growth.
Plow deeply.”
Some people also say, "Professor Ning writes books, gives lectures, and does therapy, and as a result, she turns herself into an expert on self-growth issues."
After publishing a new book, he became a best-selling author.
There are countless TV stations, radio stations, and self-media platforms that have invited Ning Yougang to do programs. There are also many organizations that want to hold workshops with her, invite her to give speeches, write popular science books, and promote the basic theories and skills of psychotherapy.
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But she refused most of the invitations.
Because she firmly adheres to her professional position as a psychology professor and clinical psychologist, writing books and giving speeches are just part-time activities, not her main job.
Gu Xi, Li Qing, Jiang Wei and other friends asked her: "You obviously already have the potential to become famous. Appearing more in front of the media is also a way to increase your influence. With influence, no matter what you want to do later,
Whatever you do will always go smoothly, so why should you put down your steps and turn down so many invitations at this critical starting point?"
"I know what I want." Ning Youguang said, "I hope my exploration will never end."
She said, "I am very aware that I live in a dream-like world and live in a dream-like world. Participating in these activities is not in my life plan for the time being. If I spend too much time going
Doing these things may lead to some worldly achievements in a short period of time, but it will also consume a lot of my energy and life. This is not what I need. The life I need has always been simple, which is to keep improving and constantly improving myself.
Life energy is enough to bloom oneself and live to the highest level of one's own life and spirituality, and these are contrary to the glitz of the external world."
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"I really like this passage in Kazuo Inamori's advice to young people - most people have a too shallow understanding of the meaning of hardship. Enduring hardship is not poverty, but a person's ability to focus on a certain goal for a long time.
, in this process, give up entertainment life, give up ineffective social interaction, give up meaningless consumption and the loneliness that is not understood in the process. Its essence is a kind of self-control, persistence and the ability to think deeply..."
Shi Wangyue sat quietly and upright at her desk, concentrating on her work.
The sound of Yun Zewu's reading was deliberate and artificial. It was rare that he didn't feel noisy.
After reading for a while, Yun Zewu sat up slightly, turned the book over and over again and said, "Teacher Ning's writing is quite good."
Shi Wangyue turned her head, her sharp eyes falling on him.
——Written all over his face is "You don't have to say it."
Yun Zewu touched his nose in embarrassment and turned the book to the beginning, where the famous domestic psychology expert Academician Yu wrote a preface to his beloved disciple's new book.
"The preface written by Academician Yu for Teacher Ning is also quite interesting. The preface is so well-written that it makes people think that this book sounds a bit like a classic. He is worthy of being a truly knowledgeable and profound person, and no one can praise him without leaving a trace.
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Shi Wangyue curled her lips, "It just so happens that classics are the best-selling and most popular books in the world." 1314