Then, he seemed to open his lips and say something to the man squatting in front of him.
The man stood up quickly, bent down to salute him, and was about to leave.
Before he left, he glanced at her.
After the person who was squatting in front of him and talking to him left, the other person looked at her again.
Maybe it was because he was downstairs, or maybe the person he just met was familiar to him.
At this moment, he appeared at the bottom of the "Shengguang Apartment" wearing only a hat and no sunglasses.
It's her who's wearing sunglasses.
The two of them were completely different from the only few contacts they had had before.
very good--
She could observe him however she wanted through the sunglasses.
Unlike before, it was difficult to get him to take off his sunglasses and take a closer look at his micro-expressions and eyes.
However, Ning Youguang soon realized that he had thought too much.
When she got closer, the other person quickly lowered his head and stopped looking at her.
He looked at the suitcase in her hand and said in a low voice: "Why are you here?"
"I'm here on a business trip."
As the patient's psychiatrist, Ning Youguang had some understanding of him after all.
Today we met by chance in a place thousands of miles away.
For him to be able to greet her out loud and take the initiative is already a huge honor for her.
With this in mind, she added, "Stay here tonight."
Other than that, she felt there was no need to tell the other party too much.
She didn't want to tell him too much, and the other party obviously wouldn't ask again.
The two of them stood and sat in silence at the doorway of the "Shengguang Apartment" where people were coming and going.
This doesn't seem to be an option.
Ning Youguang asked politely, "Are you here?"
The only few times the two met before were always in her studio in Jincheng.
As for his personal information, apart from confirming his occupation and identity, she was very vague about the rest.
I asked my friends and all I got was: "I have no fixed place to live and my whereabouts are uncertain."
Ask him himself, and he does answer sincerely every time.
But every time the answer is: "I temporarily live in xx place."
A "temporary" qualified her to have a clearer understanding of his personal privacy.
But at that time, she felt it didn't matter anymore.
This person with an insincere attitude is just a patient who was introduced to me by a friend.
As long as he is not a wanted criminal, can produce a legal identity certificate recognized by the state, and can pay her healing consultation fees on time.
She can treat him.
What's more, the person who introduced him to his studio was his very good friend.
He is indeed that big shot who can find a lot of news just by searching online.
Are you familiar with him or not?
But that didn't mean she wasn't surprised to see him downstairs at her home just after getting off the car.
In fact, Ning Youguang felt a little regretful when he asked this question.
Just five words, although they were said casually, in the eyes of deep minds, it may not be interpreted as suspicion of inquiring about the other party's whereabouts.
Ning Youguang thought that given the other person's cold and difficult personality, he would not be able to answer.
Unexpectedly, the other party just remained silent for a moment and then answered, "Business trip."
After being stunned for a moment, Ning Youguang responded softly, "Oh."
OK, I was able to answer with unexpected kindness.
Ning Youguang didn't care about the others and didn't plan to ask any more questions.
Anyway, it's not case time now. She and he are not a doctor and a patient, they are just two people who have met briefly and met several times.
She doesn't have to be responsible for him, so she can naturally relax with him.
Talk as much as you can.
If we can't talk, we won't talk anymore.
There was another moment of silence.
Ning Youguang thought it would be better to say goodbye quickly and politely, "Mr. Shi, I'm sorry, I just got off the plane and I'm a little tired. I'll go up and rest first. We have time to chat."
The other party remained silent, but raised his head.
Ning Youguang chuckled at him again, then turned around with his luggage and entered the apartment building.
While walking towards the building, Ning Youguang couldn't help but think about the several situations he and the other party had treated——
The other party may not have much interaction with her in the future.
So what if he lives in the same building as her temporarily?
If she doesn't live here permanently, there's a good chance he doesn't live here either.
There is no intersection in life.
There may not be any intersection in treatment soon.
Why such speculation?
Because they had worked together so many times, the effect really exceeded her expectations.
…
After joining the industry, at the end of every year, Ning Youguang would make statistics on his patients.
After so many years, it is conservatively estimated that nearly half of the patients treated by her have been completely cured, half of the patients have greatly improved their condition, and there is nothing she can do about the remaining half.
But it was the cases that left her powerless that were the most difficult to assess.
Because it takes a long time for patients to realize and understand many things.
And only then can their treatment be effective.
She has encountered a few patients who dropped out of her care, but she rarely sends them elsewhere for treatment.
She also often receives WeChat messages or phone calls from patients who have been treated for a long time——
"Teacher Ning, when I received your treatment, I felt nothing, but now I find that my life seems to have changed. Your treatment has really helped me a lot."
Sometimes, after she finished working on a case for a client, she thought there was no effect.
But when she received a message from the client a long time later, she found that it didn't seem to be ineffective.
It's because of situations like this.
It was difficult for her to draw conclusions about the several treatments given to Shi Mochizuki.
But the reality is there -
She asked him what he was like as a child.
He said: "I can't remember clearly."
She wanted him to talk about her parents.
"There's nothing to talk about," he said.
She asked for information about his ex or someone he liked.
He said: "No."
She asked him to talk about some people, things, and things that had happened in his life that impressed him...
He said: "It's all over."
There is no more word.
After several case consultations, Ning Youguang has already discovered that facing this big boss, any questioning skills will be ineffective. Closed questions, open questions, and chain-linked ideas are meaningless.
However, his mental and physical conditions are extremely poor. He has numerous emotional problems, schizophrenia, inability to calm down, sleep, and normal interactions with others. Problems such as this need to be solved urgently.
OK, I can’t ask anything.
She stopped asking.
Ning Youguang had no choice but to constantly change tools to work with him on his case. She used everything that could be used on him, such as family planning, hypnosis, oh cards, singing bowls, painting, music, etc.
still--
No breakthrough progress.
…
To become a therapist who is truly helpful to a patient, being able to gain the trust of the patient is the most important prerequisite.
Only when trust between the therapist and the client is established can healing take place.
After so many attempts, Ning Youguang has discovered that this big boss seems to be so eager to come to her to solve the problem, but his heart is not open to her at all.
After helping him heal several times, the signal she received was——
He has never reached the point where he is healed and willing to change.
Faced with such a closed and uncooperative client, Ning Youguang felt extremely disappointed no matter how patient he was.
After many years in the industry, apart from liars who are habitual liars, she has never encountered ungrateful patients.
But Shi Wangyue was definitely the most difficult and unappreciative patient she had ever encountered.
As Jung once said: "In psychotherapy, there is a type of patient who is very unappreciative, and that is intellectuals, because they have built good 'psychological space partitions' that can separate behavior from psychology."
For this type of smart people, they always believe that as long as their reason is not controlled by emotions, there is no problem that it cannot solve.
However, they do not understand that if a person is not emotionally developed enough, they will still suffer from mental illness.
A big boss who is making all the difference in the capital field at a young age is definitely a smart person among smart people.
He is rational enough, and his "psychological space separation" ability is also strong enough.
Correspondingly, the difficulty level for the healer to treat him is also SSS level.
As the seniors said, when she treats patients like Shi Wangyue, she needs to use more than just professional knowledge.
In addition to all the theoretical assumptions, she also had to understand what exactly made him sick.
But because he didn't trust her, he didn't cooperate.
As a result, she had no way of knowing what happened to this big boss in his early years.
But there are reasons for the formation of any paranoid personality.
As a healer, Ning Youguang understands this type of person very well. If he cannot meet his soulmate in his dark life, he will not be able to learn how to love.
Then, he is very likely to grow into a misanthrope who has no feelings for the world.
A genius, a heartless, loveless and world-weary genius...
Once you lose your mind, it is equivalent to detonating a hydrogen bomb in this world.
Anyway——
Danger!
Very dangerous.
It was only after Ning Youguang actually came into contact with him that he understood why countless people on the Internet used the famous quote from Marx's "Das Kapital" to scold him——
"When Wang Yue came to the world, every pore was dripping with dirty blood."
He is really willing to disregard the life and death of all people for the sake of money and profit.
He is indeed not a kind person, and some of his actions are despised.
But every time she saw him, she couldn't help but feel pity for him.
This man's life is too bitter.
If possible, she still hopes it will be better.
For psychotherapy to be effective, it is necessary to establish a close connection between the therapist and the client, so close that the therapist cannot ignore any scope or depth of the client's pain.
The establishment of this close relationship lies in continuous comparison and mutual understanding, and in dialectically facing two opposing spiritual realities.
If for some reason these mutual impressions fail to influence each other, the entire psychotherapy process will not work and the patient's condition will not improve.
Only when both therapist and client care about each other can a treatment solution be found.