But it didn't affect Ning Youguang's basic honesty with him.
The heavy security door was slowly opened by the person in the wheelchair.
Ning Youguang stood outside Shi Wangyue's house and was surprised to see the house was completely dark.
What should I say?
She lives upstairs, so she knows it very well.
Although the house they live in is small, it has good light.
As long as the people living there don't deliberately close the thick curtains in the house from the inside, light can definitely be seen in the house.
What's more, it's only dusk now, the sun has just set outside, and there are still large tracts of sunset hanging in the sky, so it's very bright outside.
After she pushed him into the house in the dark, she took out her mobile phone from her bag, turned on the flashlight, and prepared to find the switch.
"Pah..." The other party quickly reached out and pressed the switch on the wall next to him.
The moment the indoor lights come on.
Ning Youguang immediately saw clearly the environment in the room in front of him.
One word can describe it - "empty".
In Shi Wangyue's home, there was nothing in the space in front of her, not even a sofa.
This made Ning Youguang couldn't help but have some thoughts in his heart——
The place where we live is so empty, which shows that the people who live there are extremely picky about everything around them, and they are so picky that they can't hide even the slightest trace of uncleanliness.
At the same time, it also shows that he has no greed for the material world.
He can actually streamline it to this point...
Ning Youguang felt that he suddenly had a new understanding of Shi Wangyue.
Because, as soon as she entered this house, she felt a unique temperament that she could not usually see in Shi Wangyue.
She once read this passage in the "Residential Reader": "Go there and feel the unique temperament and invisible power that fills a certain place. In the world of architecture, it is called the 'earth spirit'."
The environment a person lives in is actually a fit with his or her own energy field.
According to the report, it will follow the positive report.
Generally speaking, if you want to get a deeper understanding of a person's heart, if she can't understand it from him.
Then, it is also possible to understand through the environment where he lives.
The house in front of him made Ning Youguang clearly realize that this big boss who was crazy about amassing money and eating people without spitting out their bones in the eyes of the world was actually not as extremely greedy and greedy for money as he showed to the outside world.
It is impossible for a greedy and money-grubbing person to live in such a small, empty house with almost nothing.
"Mr. Shi, I..." After briefly looking at the space in front of him, Ning Youguang planned to go back to his home.
Unexpectedly, before she finished speaking, she saw a person in a wheelchair asking: "Do you want to drink water?"
"..."
It’s really going to rain red!
A boss who is so autistic, aloof, and always rejects people thousands of miles away——
Not only did he let her into his home today, but now he even invited her to drink water?!
Ning Youguang was extremely shocked.
But what followed was a little excitement.
Since she met this big boss, she has been making various attempts to find an entry point that can open his mind, to get to know him deeper, and to establish a more effective treatment for him.
plan.
But he has always suffered from having no way to get in.
but!
Now, the opportunity has come!
"Drink!" Ning Youguang immediately replied decisively, "Thank you!"
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Professional therapists all know that for psychotherapy to be effective, it is necessary to establish a close connection between the therapist and the client, so close that the therapist cannot ignore any scope or depth of the client's pain.
The establishment of this close relationship lies in continuous comparison and mutual understanding, and in dialectically facing two opposing spiritual realities.
If for some reason these mutual impressions fail to influence each other, the entire psychotherapy process will not work and the patient's condition will not improve.
Only when both therapist and patient care about each other can a treatment solution be found.
Once you decide to change roles, enter the working state.
It would be better to consciously open your awareness immediately when there is light.
She must not let go of the slightest opportunity to see the other person.
As a therapist, Ning Youguang will pay close attention to himself and the way he responds to his clients at all times when he is with his clients.
Because not only does she react consciously, but she also has to constantly ask herself, "How does my subconscious interpret this situation while carefully observing the other person?"
Any comprehensive and thorough analysis process will mobilize the entire personality of the therapist and the client.
After switching roles.
Ning Youguang will consciously tell herself that everything she takes in before her eyes is related to herself.
Since it has something to do with yourself, you have to be patient and cautious in digging into it.
Shi Wangyue fell silent again.
But Ning Youguang no longer cares about the other party's attitude.
She put down the suitcase in her hand and said curiously: "Mr. Shi, your house is so empty."
This is obviously polite nonsense.
Shi Wangyue didn't answer her, but the wheelchair under him started to move.
He moved.
"Mr. Shi, where are you going to get water?" Ning Youguang asked again, "I'll go with you. You tell me where the water is and I'll get it myself."
Then, she followed the other person to a white invisible cabinet.
She saw the large refrigerator embedded in the middle of the cabinet, "Is the water in the refrigerator? I'll do it."
The other party did not refuse her initiative, and slowly took a step back, giving her the seat in front of the refrigerator.
Ning Youguang opened the refrigerator door and was secretly happy——
She felt that she was really lucky today. Although she was constantly extending her tentacles of exploration to the other party, he did not stop her.
The refrigerator in front of me is filled with imported mineral water.
"Mr. Shi, do you want to drink?" she asked after taking out a bottle of water for herself.
"Thank you." A deep voice came from behind.
Ning Youguang took another bottle of water from the refrigerator and then closed the refrigerator door.
"Your home is so clean." She turned around and handed the water to Shi Wangyue, and continued to talk, "It's good to live here. There is a dedicated aunt in the property management who can help us clean." 1314