"In this way, the client will lose a part of his soul, just as his therapist has lost a part because he has not learned to understand his own soul. And for the trainer, a series of concepts are far from being able to
It constitutes a training analysis. Therefore, the trainer must personally go through this healing process before he or she knows how to help the client more effectively." After a slight pause, Ning Youguang continued, "You know what I mean?
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The boss is just mentally ill and has no problem with his IQ.
Of course he understood, so he spoke slowly, "Have you ever been troubled by mental problems before?"
"Yes." Ning Youguang lowered his head slowly as his neck felt a little sore, "There is a saying in our industry - 'Only healers who have been injured can heal.'"
But she didn't know that her behavior was interpreted by the person in the wheelchair as saying that she was suffering.
"Do you want some candy?"
"Sugar?" Ning Youguang raised his head in surprise.
The man in the wheelchair asked softly, "Would you like some lemon drops?"
Ning Youguang didn't know why the other party suddenly wanted to treat her to candy, but at this moment she must maintain a completely accepting attitude towards him.
"sure."
After Ning Youguang answered, he waited for Shi Wangyue to go to the sugar jar in a cupboard at home to get some candy. Unexpectedly, the other person's wheelchair didn't move.
He took out a lemon candy directly from his black jacket pocket.
"Thanks."
——A big guy who carries candy with him.
Ning Youguang expressed surprise at his new discovery.
She opened the candy bag and stuffed the round, yellow lemon candy into her mouth.
When concentrating on eating sweets.
She heard the other person ask again, "Why did you choose to become a healer?"
This question is easy to answer and she is often asked.
But how to tell the other party, she needs to refine her language.
Ning Youguang took advantage of this moment to chew up the lemon candy in his mouth and swallow it——
"When I was in high school, I once had a high fever in school and became seriously ill. Because I was abroad at the time, I was the only one living in the dormitory, so when I was sick, there was no one else around me. In the end, it was my teacher.
He found that I hadn't gone to class for two days, so he came to my dormitory to find me and sent me to the hospital. I remember that after I went to the hospital, I vaguely heard the doctor and my teacher saying, "This student can't survive tomorrow."
I'm probably really going to die and never see my family again.'
The next day, when I woke up and found that I was still alive, I started to think about a question, 'Am I already dead? I died yesterday. Am I waking up from the previous dream and entering a new dream?
, I am dead, I died abroad, and I don’t have any relatives around me.'
From that day on, when I was alone, I always loved to think about things related to life and death——
'Where do I come from in life and where will I go in death?'
'Is living a dream, and if you die, can you wake up from the dream?'
'What is the meaning of my life?'
…
Being able to think about the issues of life and death is the beginning of a person’s awakening.”
——And awakening is often accompanied by great pain.
"The sugar is so sweet." Ning Youguang opened the bottle, took a sip of water, and continued, "I have been different from the people around me since I was a child. The children around me are happy every day, but I often feel lonely, desperate, and...
They are out of place.
But after this illness, my confusion turned into a question that humans have been thinking about for thousands of years, but there is still no standard answer to it.
So, how do I get rid of these confusions?
I started spending time in the school library every day, reading all kinds of books - astronomy, quantum theory, medicine, philosophy, religion, hoping to find some answers from the books.
Finally, I was addicted to books by psychotherapy masters such as Freud, Jung, Erikson, Satir, Hellinger, and Mi Niuqing.
I am madly in love with all kinds of psychology-related knowledge.
I feel like I've entered a mysterious new world.
What’s amazing is that while I was interested in this psychological knowledge, more and more psychology professionals began to appear around me.
I started studying with them.
A few years later, I discovered that the loneliness and despair I had experienced, as well as the messy books I had read in the university library, as well as the courses I had taken, had become a huge asset to me, and had unknowingly changed my life.
I was transformed and reborn.
And because of these experiences, I can understand many patients with mental illness.
After graduating from college, I worked as a doctor for two or three years. While I was working as a doctor, many patients told me their pain and confusion.
I will tell them about some of the confusions and experiences I have experienced, about my understanding of life and death that I have thought about over the years, and about my exploration, discovery and understanding of life.
During this process, I found that giving people psychological comfort made my patients feel happier than simply curing them.
In my second year as a doctor, I found the most meaningful thing in life, which is to bring health and hope to those who are suffering, not only to the body, but also to the soul.
I began to transform and plan my own psychological studio.
Gradually, more and more visitors came to my studio, and more and more visitors were changed, regained the power of life, and walked out of my studio healthy.
My life has become more fulfilling and happier.
I no longer dwell on my own confusion and pain, and I find that I can also be in communion with others.
Being an excellent healer is probably my mission in this life."
A gentle and satisfied smile appeared on Ning Youguang's face, "Later, I discovered that everything I have experienced in my life is unnecessary. Those pains and sufferings are all tempering me and helping me become an excellent person."
The healer.
As I come into contact with more and more clients, my abilities are also growing.
So I decided to help more people, and at the same time I became more and more determined that being a healer would be my future career, and I would never regret my decision.
Now, the most satisfying thing for me every day is to sit in my studio, face different people with different symptoms, accompany them, help them get rid of the pain of their souls, help them find themselves, and at the same time practice what I have done throughout my life.
duty of.
Life is full of surprises, and no one knows what will happen tomorrow.
But I hope that I can never give up helping others become better versions of themselves, because life is always full of surprises, and I never know when a miracle will happen." 1314