Ming Jinxin happily shared the good news of her niece's pregnancy with Ning Youguang, and then asked Ning Youguang, "Wang Yue has been away on business for so long, and you are alone at home. Do you want to come and stay at home for two days?"
"I'm not lonely at home." Ning Youguang smiled, "I quite enjoy the days when he's not at home."
Ming Jin laughed heartily, "Don't let Xiao Xiao hear this, he will be sad."
Ning Youguang smiled slyly, "I quite enjoy having him at home."
"Just be naughty." Ming Jinxin smiled and said with emotion, "Actually, you are right. We all need to be able to not only live in harmony with others, but also be able to be alone."
"A person cannot be alone, and he may not be harmonious with others." Ning Youguang said, "Because his heart is not stable."
Ming Jinxin deeply agrees, "I like to deal with people who are emotionally stable. Dealing with emotionally unstable people is like being with a bomb. You don't know when you will suddenly step on his sensitive nerves and explode."
Already."
"He himself is not happy, and the people around him are not happy either." Ning Youguang said, "Because it is human nature to pursue stability, and the foundation of happiness lies in stability and happiness."
"So this is why many people must buy a house instead of renting a house after getting married? In fact, renting is cheaper," Ming Jinxin said.
"Yes." Ning Youguang said, "My heart likes peace of mind."
"I think so." Ming Jinxin nodded, "But people's hearts are often unstable."
——"I often feel good or bad because of some things I encounter. My feelings often change with changes in the outside world, but the nature of the outside world is impermanent."
"Most of us follow our feelings, which is a serious blind spot for us. Because feelings have no self-nature, they will turn around with the external environment. As you said, when you encounter good things
They are in a good mood, but when they encounter bad things, they are in a bad mood. As long as they live, their hearts will live in their feelings and in their own brains. This is terrible, because when they
When living in feelings, their hearts will be like the waves of the sea. When the outside wind blows, it will continue to rise and fall. When the outside wind blows, it will continue to rise and fall. It cannot last long or settle down.
, lasting happiness is naturally impossible to obtain.”
"Most people are like this." Ming Jinxin said.
"Do most people have to be right?" Ning Youguang asked.
"Not necessarily." Ming Jin thought for a while and asked, "How can a person who is used to living in feelings calm down from such a turbulent mind?"
"Usually pay attention to your thoughts." Ning Youguang said, "When facing your thoughts, you must learn to slowly keep a distance and not let yourself follow your feelings. After a period of training, you will be able to calm down.
"
Ming Jinxin nodded and picked up another piece of muffin, "Why do our hearts always like to project outwards?"
"Because it is difficult for people to face their own shortcomings and shortcomings." Ning Youguang said, "This is also related to everyone's growth history."
…
City S is thousands of miles away from the capital.
The continuous rainy days cast a layer of light gray over the entire city, making people easily feel depressed due to the humidity.
Not to mention Shi Wangyue who already hates rain.
Therefore, even though he is surrounded by a circle of top domestic bosses at the moment, his heart is still away from the crowd. Unless necessary for politeness and communication, most of the time, his eyes fall on the rain-soaked French window opposite.
.
This was Shi Wangyue's third day staying in this hotel. The only thing in front of him that made him feel slightly better was the environment of this hotel, with its elegant design and green trees.
"My sister said that when you are in a bad mood, you should look at more flowers, plants and trees and absorb the spiritual energy of heaven and earth, which will wash away the smoky atmosphere in the world."
Just like this moment——
After more than an hour of changing glasses, many of the big guys around were already drunk, holding glasses of red wine, hugging others, calling each other brothers, and chatting animatedly.
“If we don’t scrape the poor man’s money, who should we take?”
"People will change."
"Today's young people are too impetuous, looking at things superficially, and not thinking thoroughly. Learning not only depends on what you learn, but also what you absorb, because everyone's cognition, like life, has depth and breadth.
"
Some people are obviously arrogant.
There was obviously a young man sitting next to him who was better than him in terms of social prestige and wealth, but he still said his usual words without thinking.
A brain that has been intoxicated by alcohol will naturally not function as well as usual.
Unless someone is pretending to be drunk and can say a few human words——
"If a person lives in this world and does not pursue the Tao and has no creativity, then he is just like a computer. He is trained into a computer and has memorized a lot of knowledge and skills."
"Those long-lasting classic products must be sustained with hard work and dedication."
"In every era, ordinary people live their own lives. When the world is good, they live in dissipation. When the world is bad, they can live with just porridge and side dishes. I am just an ordinary person."
"There is no dignity in making money. If you think that a certain type of person earns decently, it is just because his ancestors and fathers have gone through that dishonorable process for them."
There was also someone who smelled of alcohol, had a giddy look on his face, and spoke nonsense words:
“What kind of men and women catch your attention?”
"I am still quite superficial. A woman needs to be beautiful and sensible. A woman's sense of humor is as important as being beautiful. If she doesn't know her tastes, it won't work. As for men, they are capable and have ideas. In fact, men and women are the same.
Yes, if you want me to appreciate it, you must have some ideas."
"So whether you are a man or a woman, we still value talent."
"Yes, yes, talent must be the most important thing."
"What if a girl has talent but no looks?"
"Then I will leave it to those who can appreciate her talents better."
In the capital field, interpersonal relationships are valued very much.
Sitting next to Shi Wangyue, a famous boss in the Internet industry wearing glasses was chatting a few words with his friends. When he turned around, he saw Shi Wangyue looking deeply out of the window, with a cold look on his face and a lingering feeling around him.
There is a kind of alienation that repels people thousands of miles away.
He smiled and said, "Mr. Shi, Mr. Liu and I talked about the complexity of human nature and how we always like to speculate on the world with our own minds. Do you have any suggestions?"
Shi Wangyue slowly turned her head, and the gaze hidden behind the rose gold-framed glasses fell from his body, as if a grain of dust was blown away.1314