After finishing the spa, Ming Jinxin said to Ning Youguang, "Let's go downstairs to have a meal."
Wait until we get downstairs.
Ning Youguang discovered that Aunt Ming had made careful arrangements for the two of them to have fun today.
In addition to a full-service spa that is so comfortable that you will feel dizzy, there is also an exquisite dinner.
It is a Cantonese dish carefully prepared by a private chef.
This dinner was not only made with sincerity, but also the service, production, presentation, and details made her feel the chef's care.
Eating a meal is nothing less than a wonderful taste bud enjoyment and visual enjoyment.
"Xiao Yu'er is still talented in painting and cello." In the stylish and high-quality restaurant, Ming Jinxin put down the fork in her hand and took a slow sip of red wine.
"He is indeed very talented." The painting created by their younger brother the year before last won the gold medal in the children's category of this year's Picasso Youth International Painting Competition a few days ago.
The whole family was very happy when they received the news.
But soon, Ming Jinxin changed her tune, "I'm not good at learning calligraphy. It's been two years, and it's still a headache. The teacher is very helpless, and it's very painful for him to learn it."
"Are you going to stop calligraphy lessons for him?" Ning Youguang heard Xuanwai's voice.
"It has been stopped." There was not much melancholy on Ming Jinxin's face, "Last week, your father, Xiao Yuer, and I held a solemn family meeting to discuss whether we should continue Xiao Yuer's calligraphy class.
It’s a question of going down.”
On the contrary, he still had a rather calm expression, "Calligraphy is one of the subjects that your father chose for your brother's interests. At that time, because I couldn't determine your brother's talent and interests, I thought it would be okay to give it a try, but swimming
, golf, cello, painting, etc., your brother has successfully progressed to the present, and some have even achieved results. Only calligraphy, what I can judge is that your brother is really unhappy in the learning process. If you don’t supervise him every day, he will not be happy at all.
He will not take the initiative to practice. Even if we urge him, he will write reluctantly and inefficiently, let alone be able to immerse himself in the joy of writing."
Ning Youguang smiled knowingly.
She usually pays attention to her brother's homework.
In her opinion, Xiao Yu'er should have given up learning this a long time ago. She had reminded her father and aunt before, but after the reminder, Xiao Yu'er still persisted in learning for two years.
She didn't mention it again.
Apparently, Ming Jinxin also remembered that Ning Youguang said that his son was not suitable for learning calligraphy.
"There is a very important reason why he persists until now. Your father said that in terms of calligraphy, except for you, other characters in our family are not good at writing, so he wanted him to learn and see if he can do it.
He will be as talented as you. If he is not talented, let him learn how to write better Chinese characters." Don't be as ugly as his handwriting.
At this point, Mr. Ming decided to help her husband save some face in front of the children and stopped talking.
"In the past few years, your father has tried his best to increase Xiao Yu'er's enthusiasm for learning calligraphy. As long as he is at home, he will practice calligraphy with Xiao Yu'er, using various methods, including soft grinding, hard rubbing, big sticks and jujubes.
I used everything I could think of, but——"
Ming Jinxin couldn't help crying or laughing when thinking about the process of calligraphy in her family, "I really can't help but believe in the power of genes. Your dad told me that he didn't like to learn calligraphy when he was a child. Every time
I was procrastinating in class and didn’t want to go to class. I was often carried to calligraphy class by your grandma with a ruler. But even if I went to cram school, I would just sit in class in a daze. No matter how much the teacher urged me, I would not do anything. Later, your teacher was tortured.
There is no other way, just tell your grandma that if the child doesn't like calligraphy, you should take it back. As long as he can write a few words, I can teach him. If he doesn't write, I can't even teach him, and your grandma has been tortured and can't do anything.
, I had to withdraw him from the calligraphy class. Now when it comes to your brother, I found that he has no calligraphy talent like your father. Children of the same period can even participate in exhibitions with their handwriting, and his hands cannot coordinate smoothly.
.”
Ning Youguang burst into laughter, "So my dad had such a dark history when he was a kid?"
She only knew that the word "Dad" was really ugly, but she didn't know that he had such an experience when he was a child.
But more than anything, she thought of her grandma.
Such a person who wants to save face.
She was actually forced by the teacher to withdraw her son from class without saving any face. I am afraid she felt extremely embarrassed at the time.
so--
This is why my grandma in her previous life was very happy when she discovered that she was very talented in writing calligraphy lessons. She also actively took her to apprenticeships, watch calligraphy exhibitions, and actively helped her with inspections, preparations for various calligraphy competitions, etc...
Moreover, whenever she gets a result in a calligraphy competition, she will immediately tell the whole family and publicize it?!
"Yeah." Ming Jinxin also found it funny, "So, the three of us discussed it and decided to let your brother give up the calligraphy course."
"How will Xiao Yu'er react if he is not allowed to learn calligraphy?" Ning Youguang asked with a smile.
"When the decision came out, your brother apologized to us with his head hanging down. He said, 'I'm sorry, Mom and Dad, I didn't study calligraphy well." Thinking of this scene at that time, Ming Jinxin was filled with emotion, "Your dad was Just say, "Xiao Yu'er, you don't need to apologize to us. It's your parents who are sorry for you, but they really didn't give you this ability."
"Wow." Ning Youguang gave Ming Jinxin a big thumbs up with joy on his face, "Mom and dad are great."
Ning Youguang praised Wanming Jinxin and Ning Yi suddenly couldn't help but think of themselves.
She feels that parents may all have the opportunity to become good parents, but that opportunity requires three indispensable conditions: time, location, and people.
Just like her, she probably lacks some luck.
Ming Jinxin didn't know what Ning Youguang was thinking in her heart. Seeing her happy, she felt happy too. "So we ended the calligraphy learning course with a hug."
"Everyone is relaxed." Ning Youguang chuckled.
"Yes." Ming Jinxin said, "We don't force your brother, and we don't force ourselves. Everyone will be relaxed."
Ning Youguang added, "Recognizing the need to give up is also courage. For Xiao Yu'er, two years of suffering is not without gain."
"If you give up, you should also persevere behind the scenes." Ming Jinxin affirmed, "Your brother has a gifted course. No matter what happens next, I will support him to do his best. No matter how difficult it is, I will find a way to make him persist. Come down."
"It's definitely possible." Ning Youguang remained optimistic about his brother's future studies. "He has had determination and concentration since he was a child. You have been cultivating his concentration over the years. If you help him strengthen his good habits, you will have fewer problems in the future." You don’t need to worry too much about his studies.” 1314
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