"Sure enough, I still brought it up." Liu Jing thought to himself.
Since Emperor Wu "deposed hundreds of schools of thought and only respected Confucianism", the great Confucian Dong Zhongshu proposed that "the three principles of kingship can be sought from heaven", which established the basic theory of Gangchang Mingjiao. "The husband is the principle of the wife" was unprecedentedly promoted to the "three principles"
Gang" such a new level.
Later, Dai De, Dai Sheng's uncle and nephew's "Da Dai Li Ji" and "Xiao Dai Li Ji" further enriched and improved the traditional etiquette system. At the same time, Liu Xiang compiled "Biography of Lienu" and established several boudoir models.
The behavior of chastity is a reflection of a series of moral norms of "Dai Xue".
During this dynasty, the "Female Commandments" written by Ban Gu, Ban Chao's sister, and female master Ban Zhao clearly put forward the moral standard of "together to the end", believing that "a good couple will never leave each other for life", and advocated that women should "
Be leisurely, chaste and quiet, and be disciplined and tidy.”
However, the Han Dynasty adhered to the legacy of ancient times and was open-minded and did not value chastity. The principle of "from one to the end" advertised by Confucianism has never been recognized and accepted by the world.
In the Han Dynasty, remarriage was extremely common among the emperor's relatives and common people.
If Lai Gong had a tough attitude, Liu Jing could have refused on the grounds that Xun Shuang, a famous scholar in Yingchuan, forced his daughter Xun Cai to remarry, causing Xun Cai to commit suicide.
But Lai Gong's attitude was quite warm, and he did not involve any will of his own. He always thought of Lai Ci, showing his brother's deep affection for his sister, which made Liu Jing feel a little embarrassed.
Seeing Liu Jing's hesitant expression and not answering for a long time, Lai Gong suddenly understood and said, "Zhongda, did Li Ji mention this to you when you came here?"
"Yes, sister-in-law has told me." Liu Jingding nodded, and then said solemnly: "Sister-in-law has nurtured and taught me. Every time we meet, I must dress neatly and never dare to slack off in my heart. Sister-in-law's affairs
, I really don’t dare to ask. The only thing I can do is to support my sister-in-law. No matter what decision she makes, I fully support it, that’s all.”
Lai Gong knew that he could not convince Liu Jing, so he sighed and said: "Oh! I have sent letters to test her before. Li Ji has a firm attitude and has no intention of remarrying. Is she prepared to live alone all her life?"
Lai Ci is the youngest sister in the family. She has been regarded as a treasure by the whole family since she was a child. For the first sixteen years, she has always been carefree. Liu Yuan has a good family background, is talented and well-educated, and has good looks. He thought he would be a good match for his sister, but unexpectedly he turned out to be a good match.
He is a short-lived and unlucky person.
It's a pity that there is no regret medicine in the world. It's too late to say anything now. Liu Yuan not only died himself, but also affected his sister's life and made her unhappy.
"..." Liu Jing looked a little embarrassed, sitting upright and speechless.
After a long while, Lai Gong shook his head and said, "Forget it, maybe she will think about it when the tiger's head gets a little bigger."
Liu Jing breathed a sigh of relief when he heard this. If he continued talking, he would run away.
Staying in Lai's house until noon, Liu Jingwan rejected Lai Gong's offer to stay for dinner and rushed to his next destination, Pan Jun's house. However, when he arrived, he was told that Pan Jun was out visiting friends, and Liu Jingwan was asked to go to Lai Gong's house to visit friends.
I had nothing to do, so I had no choice but to go back home.
Returning to Duting's residence, Liu Jinggang got out of the car and saw Zhuge Liang wearing a white silk scarf and azure wide-sleeved Confucian clothes standing outside to greet him. He had not seen him for more than a year.
He is seven feet, five or six inches tall, with long and wide facial features, handsome appearance and excellent demeanor.
Liu Jing noticed that there was another person standing next to him. This person was about eighteen or nineteen years old, over seven feet tall, with a dark face and a dull face, and looked ordinary.
However, Liu Jing did not judge people by their appearance. Zhuge Liang seemed easy-going, but in fact he was very high-spirited. People who could make friends with him were definitely not ordinary people. When Liu Zhu returned from Xiangyang, he brought back a letter from Zhuge Liang. In the letter
I once mentioned that I made Pang Tong, Cui Jun and many other like-minded friends in Xiangyang, but I don’t know who the person in front of me is?
"Kong Ming..." Liu Jing was extremely happy when he saw Zhuge Liang. He came to Zhuge Liang in three steps and two steps at a time, held his hand firmly and asked: "Kong Ming, how did you know that I came to Xiangyang?"
Zhuge Liang smiled and said: "Shi Yuan and I came to Xiangyang to visit friends. Before we entered the city, we heard people talking about it, saying, 'Liu Zhongda has arrived in Xiangyang.' I didn't know you had arrived in Xiangyang, so I immediately took Shi Yuan with me."
Come and meet."
"I went to visit Master Song, Lai Jun. I saw that it was getting late. I planned to leave the city early tomorrow morning to visit your home. Unexpectedly, you came to your door yourself and even picked up a friend. Is this Pang Shiyuan?" Liu
Jing looked at Pang Tong with a strange look in his eyes. This was the "Feng Chu" who was as famous as "Wolong".
Although Pang Tong died early and failed to fully demonstrate his talents, Chen Shou compared him with Xun Yu of Wei in "Three Kingdoms", which shows how high his talents were. In fact, his death was purely an accident. As a military advisor,
, actually led his troops to attack the city, but was shot by a stray arrow and died. To say that he was impatient was not too impetuous. After all, the two armies were fighting, and Zhou Yu was also shot by a stray arrow. It can only be said that Pang Tong was very unlucky.
If Pang Tong does not die, he will definitely be Zhuge Liang's assistant. Zhuge Liang's learning, uprightness, and adaptability may not be what he is best at, but this is what Pang Tong is good at. The two of them may complement each other and create achievements together.
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"That's right. I've heard about the name of Shishi for a long time. I'm glad to see you today. I'm glad to meet you." Pang Tong was not as simple and blunt as he appeared on the outside. He was calm and generous in his behavior and had a good demeanor.
Liu Jing looked directly at Pang Tong and said enthusiastically: "Kong Ming repeatedly talked about me in his letter, saying that my reputation is not obvious now, and those who are not knowledgeable about me are actually outstanding in talent and learning, surpassing Xiangyang, and he is one of the top talents in Xiangyang."
scholar."
Pang Tong glanced at Zhuge Liang beside him, shook his head with a smile and said: "Kong Ming exaggerated. The next mortal, no matter how virtuous or capable he is, dares to surpass Xiangyang."
Liu Jing praised him without changing his expression: "His words and deeds are elegant and elegant, which is unforgettable. Although I haven't had an in-depth conversation with him, I feel that he is definitely an extraordinary person."
Pang Tong looked surprised when he heard this, and thought to himself: "Isn't this Liu Zhongda too enthusiastic?"
If the person who said this was not Liu Zhongda, who was famous in Jingzhou, but an ordinary person, Pang Tong would definitely think that the other person was flattering him or mocking him.
Zhuge Liang also had a strange look on his face. This scene couldn't help but remind him of the scene when the two first met. At that time, Liu Jing was so enthusiastic that he couldn't stand it.
He originally thought that Liu Jing was passionate by nature and treated everyone like this, but this was not the case. It seemed that only those who were "approved" by him would show such a passionate side. It seemed that he recognized Pang Tong very much.
Liu Jing held Zhuge Liang's hand with one hand and Pang Tong's with the other, and said, "Stop standing outside. If you have anything to say, let's go in and talk."