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381. Meaningless

When Gu Yun arrived at the company, He Xuan and Hua Shiyuan had already visited the entire paradise building.

Of course, I will never go to the coffee shop Zhengyi next door.

"This is a staff gym, and there is also a yoga room inside."

"The front is the afternoon tea and snack area. You can get free coffee and tea at three or four o'clock in the afternoon, and you can eat whatever snacks you like."

"Downstairs, we contacted the property management company and transformed the two underground floors into basketball courts and badminton courts to facilitate employees' personal hobbies and interests."

He Xuan introduced the senior sister meticulously along the way.

"It's so good, much better than the welfare of civil servants... Compared with you, we can't stand it."

While Hua Shiyuan lamented the 360-degree benefits of the Paradise Group, he walked around and gained a lot of knowledge.

"Minister Gu will pick you up on the first floor, so I won't follow you. Bye bye, senior sister~!"

After receiving the news, He Xuan pointed to the side door of the building not far away, stuck out her tongue at Hua Shiyuan, and waved goodbye consciously.

"Okay, then you go and do your work first, I'm leaving."

Hua Shiyuan turned around with a smile and beeped twice. The security guard at the door looked at him this time and took the initiative to stand up and help swipe the card to open the door.

Outside the paradise building, Gu Yun was leaning against the car, looking at the white-collar beauty in front of him with a half-smile, as if he had come to pick up his girlfriend who was working here.

"You didn't get up until now?"

Sitting in the Tesla's co-pilot, the warm air that had been prepared early in the morning made Hua Shiyuan feel extremely familiar.

came back.

When she set foot on the land of Jiangcheng, she didn't feel like she was coming back. When she walked into the East Lake High-tech Zone Government Courtyard, Hua Shiyuan didn't feel anything either. She ran to the Paradise Building for a walk, but she still wasn't touched.

Only when sitting in the passenger seat that Hui Xiuyun was familiar with did Hua Shiyuan find the feeling he had not seen for a long time.

This was her first time riding a Tesla.

Although it was not the small sports car from before, the angle, length, and height of the seat were exactly her favorite position. When she sat down, she felt as if she was a soldier waiting for the Emperor's review.

"Please, being a boss doesn't mean going out to work, why should I get up so early?"

Gu Yun smiled and started the car, and the two drove out of the software park.

"Why did you come here so early in the morning and not go to work?"

This year, even Tesla, the well-deserved leader in the industry, does not yet have a relatively mature autonomous driving function.

Gu Yun obediently held the steering wheel steady with one hand, and held Hua Shiyuan's catkins with the other hand.

"I'm on vacation! Also, I was transferred back to work early. Are you happy?"

In front of Gu Yun, Hua Shiyuan looked more like a little girl, with a bright smile hanging under her heart-warming profile.

"It's a good relationship. Finally, I don't have to drive for several hours to the county seat alone and have to be secretive."

Although the senior's return to Jiangcheng meant that Gu Yun would soon have a lot of time management troubles, he was still happy from the bottom of his heart.

It is not easy to maintain a long-distance relationship for nearly a year.

To be able to stay in a long-term long-distance relationship, you must first overcome various difficulties in long-distance relationships.

For example, the most critical and common one is: language and text communication become boring and inefficient, leading to a reduction in shared experiences and out-of-sync emotional rhythms.

Both parties have done a lot for this. For example, in addition to communicating on WeChat, the two will also make regular phone calls and send videos.

The close connection between work and life means that Gu Yun and Hua Shiyuan never lack for topics.

Secondly, the lack of intimacy is also a very fatal link.

Most people need physical touch to maintain their sense of intimacy - this is an important way to communicate feelings and gain a sense of security.

For example, when hugging, the area exposed to the environment is reduced, and people will naturally gain a sense of security. Hugging, kissing or touching allows us to release oxytocin, dopamine and serotonin, while reducing stress hormones, giving people a good feeling.

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During a long-distance relationship, physical contact is greatly reduced, which can easily lead to a loss of intimacy and security.

Fortunately, it is not too far from Yingshan County to Jiangcheng. Whenever two people miss each other, there will always be someone who takes the initiative to embark on the journey and hug the other party tightly.

Finally, there is the crisis of trust and external temptation.

When distance prevents both parties from obtaining physical and spiritual comfort from each other, and people feel lonely and helpless, they will be more susceptible to temptations from the outside world.

Research has found that long-distance couples are more wary and jealous of people of the opposite sex who appear on their partner's Internet—this kind of wariness and jealousy is not unreasonable.

Falling in love is a process of attachment. Once two people who were originally together become a long-distance relationship, the attachment will be broken - lovers will have separation anxiety like a child separated from its mother.

After separation anxiety occurs, many people are more inclined to find a substitute around them to relieve the separation anxiety - if there is a person of the opposite sex who is almost as good as the original partner, it will be more likely to cause transference and separation.

But at this point, Gu Yun doesn't have to worry at all.

After all, before the official long-distance relationship began, his careful behavior was caught on the spot by his meticulous senior sister.

Not to mention the crisis of trust and temptation from the outside world, Hua Shiyuan, who has experienced the hardships at the grassroots level, has already gained a new understanding. I am afraid that men are all similar creatures.

Most of them go out to steal sex, not to mention how many beautiful girls are willing to pounce on such young rich men. The temptation from the outside world is like a natural clock that can never stop.

This is reality, she can only face it.

In the process of dealing with this contradiction and making logic self-consistent, Hua Shiyuan learned to look at problems with a flexible and growth mindset.

Having a growth mindset is an essential ability for any long-term relationship.

Relationships are fluid. After practicing for a whole year in Yingshan County, and then visiting the ever-changing Paradise Group, she gradually began to understand Gu Yun's behavior.

If she were the opposite sex, could she really keep her original intention in such an emperor-like environment?

Facing Bai Yueguang, who is within reach, and the charming top beauties from the school next door, if there are conditions, can anyone really hold back and not take action?

Some questions are unanswered.

"Sometimes, I feel like I can't find any meaning in my work."

The car was parked in the Tianyue community in Donghu. Hua Shiyuan covered her loose hair that was flying around her ears. A ray of sunlight shined through the car window and hit her fair chin, making her look very charming in an instant.

The girl's body seemed to be plated with a layer of gold, and coupled with the senior sister's habitual movements, Gu Yun was fascinated by the sight she hadn't seen for a long time.

"Why do you ask this suddenly? Why does it make no sense?"

Taking Hua Shiyuan's little hand, she took out her luggage from the trunk and brought it into the villa. Gu Yun opened the door and asked.


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