According to the dog-licking style and habitual thinking, if your girlfriend is angry, she must be coaxed.
Girls are meant to be pampered, so how can you let them go without coaxing them?
But in fact, the world of sexual relations is definitely not as simple as single-thread processing. Wei Guangzheng's relationship blogger will tell you that when you encounter problems, don't run away, but stand up and solve them.
But few people can explain another crucial thing thoroughly on the Internet, and that is emotion.
People are easily affected by emotions because of the dual-track emotional processing model of the brain. The ancient animal brain responsible for emotions has a short path and a fast reaction speed, while the neocortex, which is responsible for thinking, has a long path and a slow reaction speed. People are prone to emotions first.
If other factors are involved, the late intervention of the neocortex will be ineffective and the person will be completely controlled by emotions.
For example, if you are losing your temper right now, and your friend asks in a good-tempered way: "What's wrong with you? Calm down first?"
You sneered and said, "What does it have to do with you?"
At this time, it is obvious that you already know that your emotions have begun to be out of control and explode too much.
Gu Yun knew this very well, and he treated Hua Shiyuan in the same way. He ran away first and did not respond to Hua Shiyuan's sharpness at this moment when Hua Shiyuan's emotions were rising to the extreme.
Human beings have never gotten rid of the shackles of being animals and have always been slaves to hormones. However, what makes humans more advanced than animals is that humans can control their emotions.
Controlling emotions does not mean that the other person cannot have emotions, because emotions are part of the way we live in this world as humans.
Only by recognizing how our emotions are triggered can we deal with them.
At this time, when Gu Yun ran to Hua Shiyuan, he would only fall into the senior sister's first step of expecting him to apologize.
Besides apologizing and coaxing people, what else can he do? How else can he show that his trip is not just a honeymoon, but that he has done something for Hua Shiyuan?
Unknowingly, Gu Yun was moving around in the circle of three confidantes, and he had already developed top kung fu and push and pull skills.
He cleverly arranged for He Xuan to communicate with Hua Shiyuan, only talking about business matters and not personal feelings.
Hua Shiyuan would also understand through other people's words that Gu Yun went to Shanghai for work, and that being with Wen Jue was probably just a sideshow.
This makes sense. After a few days of separation and the longing brewing into a string of water drops, he can come back and harvest.
At that time, the senior sister had probably solved the employment problem of unemployed youth in Jiangcheng that had been a headache for a long time. How could she bring up the confrontation with Wen Jue on the phone again?
This is the means, this is the technique.
Sometimes escaping is also a good way to solve problems. Although escaping is shameful, it is really useful.
Including the cold war and cold violence, which are scorned by countless reasonable people, as long as they are beneficial to long-term feelings and stable relationships, there is no need to abandon this method. There is no shame in using it.
"Where did he go?"
Hua Shiyuan was stunned when he heard this sentence, thinking that he heard it wrong.
What's going on? You just returned to Jiangcheng and are on a business trip again?
Hua Shiyuan had accumulated a lot of anger and words that he had planned for a long time. At this moment, it was like being hit on a ball of cotton with nowhere to express or vent.
"Minister Gu said that he would go to Beijing to sign an agreement first, and then transfer to Southeast Asia. The movie in Qingcheng has been filming for several months, and now it is about to be completed. Investors must attend."
He Xuan still maintained a professional-level friendly smile on her face. She was trying her best to control herself and not laugh out loud.
Because at this moment, the senior sister's expression is really a bit subtle, with a bit of confusion and a bit of anger ready to come out.
Perhaps thinking that it was inappropriate to lose his temper at He Xuan, Hua Shiyuan rubbed his stiff face, raised his hand and tucked the edge of his short hair behind his ear, and said.
"Okay, I'll trouble you during this time, school girl, remember to give me a copy of the list when the time comes."
"Okay senior, these are just small things. It's a bit late, so I won't bother you."
Seeing that things were almost settled, He Xuan drank the last sip of tea in the cup, stood up and said goodbye to Hua Shiyuan.
"Goodbye, senior~"
"Go back and drive slowly and be careful on the road."
Hua Shiyuan, who looked gentle and considerate, smiled brightly and specially sent He Xuan to the gate.
After closing the door, the girl gritted her teeth and was so angry that she took out her mobile phone and found Gu Yun's dialog box where she was typing.
what's the situation?
When I went back to Jiangcheng, no one saw me, and there was not even a single explanation or apology in person. I didn’t even get on the hot seat, but I booked a plane ticket and left?
Gu Yun, what does this mean?
Since hanging up the phone last night, Hua Shiyuan has not replied to the messages sent by Gu Yun.
Everyone knew very well that the arrogant senior sister was waiting for him to come to her and ask for peace.
But this time Hua Shiyuan clearly miscalculated.
It was obvious that he was wrong, what could Gu Yun say with confidence? Shouldn't he come to the house to explain and apologize?
But he won't come...
Could it be that if you are tired of being with this little green tea Wen Jue for so many days, you don’t love me anymore?
It's impossible. If you don't love me anymore, how can you arrange for He Xuan to come to your door and take the Youth League Committee's affairs to your heart?
Hua Shiyuan's little thought was seen through by Gu Yun.
This world is so real. A dog-licking act of seeking peace will not be cherished at all. The occasional cold treatment will make girls worry about gains and losses, and imagine another world in their minds.
Hua Shiyuan, who typed out a short composition on the spot, was about to press the send button, but then she thought about it and pressed Enter again, deleting all the entered content.
Okay, let's see who can bear it.
...
"Mr. Gu will be arriving soon. There is no need to prepare for a video conference today. I will pick him up at the airport."
At Doule's Beijing headquarters, it was supposed to be the time for the bi-weekly meeting. Su Hua kicked off his slippers and ran to the cupboard to put on a pair of shoes with closed toes that could go out normally.
The daily life of a workaholic is that he wants to live in the office around the clock, so he can wear whatever is comfortable for him.
Finally, a whole day of running around, from Shanghai to Jiangcheng, and then to the capital, where Gu Yun's impromptu idea made him very tired.
"Why have you gained so much weight? Comrade Su Hua, aren't the meals in the organization too good?"
Gu Yun was happy when he saw the person picking him up from the airport.
After not seeing him for a while, Su Hua, who was originally thin, puffed up like a balloon and gained at least 20 pounds.
"It's a lot of pressure. My big boss, you don't know how exaggerated Doule's current development is. I'll have a good talk with you at the next regular meeting."
Su Hua's face became much rounder, and he smiled and scratched his hair.
