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74. Should I ask clearly?

After paying the full amount, the short-haired salesman took Gu Yun to the eighth floor of the single-family office building he chose.

After surveying his territory with satisfaction, Gu Yun casually opened a window and took a deep breath.

Looking at the high-rise buildings in the nearby CBD and the fresh and pleasant office environment, facing the empty office area, the future scene appeared in his mind. The white-collar beauty working here was holding a cup of coffee in her left hand and a MacBook in her right hand.

He casually opened the window, took a deep breath, and looked at the ripples of the lake and the willow-lined scenery in the distance, which contrasted nicely with the black stockings of his uniform.

Starting a business is not just to achieve financial freedom, but to live a new life and leave some mark on the world.

Gu Yun opened WeChat and sent Huang Mingyuan the company's positioning. At the same time, he told him to recruit people aggressively and build the company's basic structure, including design, operations, technology, and whatever was lacking.

The meaning of the boss's existence is to steer the company and point out the direction of development, leaving trivial matters to the subordinates for execution.

...

Back at school, the monitor informed Gu Yun to have a meeting at the Student Activity Center.

Gu Yun was the last one to arrive. It could be seen that Liu Yisheng, Bai Wenshu and Tang Yuqi had been sitting down for a while, and the milk tea in front of them had been reduced by one-third.

Liu Yisheng saw everyone gathered and took out a piece of paper from the bag he carried: "There are four players on each side of the competition, which are called one debate, two debates, three debates and four debates. This competition system has set up speeches.

There are four links: attack and defense, free debate and concluding remarks.”

"Have you ever been exposed to debate before? If not, we will simulate it in groups first, and then discuss the allocation of positions."

No one had any objections, so the men and women were separated into groups of two.

Question: "My partner's co-pilot has a hair that clearly does not belong to me. Should I ask?"

Bai Wenshu and Tang Yuqi chose one side to ask questions, while Liu Yisheng and Gu Yun were on the other side.

Gu Yun briefly browsed the debate topic and took the lead in attacking: "Hello fellow debater, this question is obvious. Think about your relationship with your partner."

"We roughly divide it into two situations. The first one is that you trust him very much. You don't have this problem at all. It is impossible to find a hair next to his co-pilot. It is even less possible for you to make a detailed comparison and find that it is obviously different.

It belongs to me, and you won’t question me. Trust is your guarantee.”

"What if you don't trust it? If you don't trust it, why do you ask? Distrust is already the answer to all questions. If he gives you any answer, you still don't trust it. He said it belongs to my company friend and is my cousin.

Yes, who is your cousin, who is your friend, and when did he take your car? Do you trust the answer he gave you?"

"If you don't trust that your relationship is in turmoil, and you already know the answer, why bother going through self-torture for the answer that you already know? Trust, there is no such problem, don't trust,

Escape this torture."

After listening to Gu Yun's argument, Bai Wenshu replied slowly: "My friend, you don't understand love at first glance. For women, if the passenger in the car has hair, you must ask clearly about this kind of thing, which reflects my understanding of love."

The pursuit of being unadulterated is also my freedom to ask questions.”

"If something really happens, there are only zero or countless roots. Between lovers, asking is love, and only love can ask. If I told my boyfriend that I would have a dinner with my classmates tonight, my boyfriend would ask three questions from his soul.

:Who are they? Are there any boys? Are they handsome?"

"He asked, which shows that he cares about me, and that he still has me in his heart, so I have to ask. Only after I ask, this hair will be truly cleaned up. If I don't ask, this hair will grow in my heart forever."

Her level was quite high. Gu Yun glanced at Bai Wenshu unexpectedly. She was indeed a social butterfly who toyed with the monitor's applause. Debating was undoubtedly a piece of cake for her.

Liu Yisheng was expressionless after hearing this. After growing up, he has been able to control his emotions very well.

There are only sneers left in my heart. When I asked you where you were going, why didn't you say that I cared? Why didn't you say that asking is love?

"Isn't the passenger seat just for sitting? Isn't the hair just for falling out? That's it, what else do you need to ask? Why do you have to ask so clearly about everything? John Gottman in "Marriage Prediction"

It points out that the three most important elements are trust, expectation and commitment, and trust is unconditional..."

Liu Yisheng cited all the classics and refuted Bai Wenshu's arguments one by one.

Although Bai Wenshu looks mature, she is still a girl at heart. She can't help but show off her power in front of her. During the free debate, she took the initiative to start a 1v1 battle with Liu Yisheng.

"The most important thing about love is sincerity and magnanimity. If she has questions, she asks you, which means she is sincere. We have no questions. If she answers, she is magnanimous."

"I have an experience that the most terrifying thing in love is indifference and having nothing to say. One day someone who loves you saw hair on the car and she didn't ask. Does that mean there is no hair in her eyes?

It’s because she no longer has you in her eyes.”

People often grow up in an instant. When Liu Yisheng looked at the person she loved deeply in the past, openly talking about her views on love that had nothing to do with her own behavior, something in her heart was broken.

It was worse than knowing that she and Gao Zhipeng went out to rent a house and broke up.

He looked at Bai Wenshu indifferently, his voice was slow and slow, and he said slowly: "I have read a piece of news, saying that a woman who filed for divorce because of a long hair on the passenger side of her husband was scolded for being unreasonable, scolded by her husband, scolded by the judge, and scolded by the judge.

All the onlookers are scolding, but why don’t you click on this news and take a look?”

"What she actually cares about is why you violated the norms of our marriage, why you were cold and violent, and why you don't care about your family. This is the real issue she is worried about, but you chose to ask an insignificant hair.

"

"I think communication in relationships requires people to be sincere, but the prerequisite for sincerity is to choose the right issues to care about during communication. If you want him to be sincere to you, just say it directly. If you want feelings

There was no suspicion in it, you just pointed it out and said I don't want to be suspicious anymore."

"Even if you have to choose a reason to quarrel, you can also choose a reason that is slightly more important than hair, right? So we need to communicate in relationships, and we need wisdom, and what is the manifestation of wisdom? I chose the most

Appropriate topics allow us to build a bridge of communication."

"Instead of a hair."

Bai Wenshu was stunned, as if she wanted to see clearly the suitor in front of her who used to be obedient, but she couldn't form words to express her feelings.

The winner was decided, and when he heard the spontaneous applause of Gu Yun and Tang Yuqi on the side, Liu Yisheng realized that standing tall and defeating the inner demon of Bai Wenshu was not only a debate trial for him, but also meant that he officially

Bid farewell to my former self.


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