Cheng Yang and Marquis Yongchuan were surprised to find that their son had not gone to Wuchang Bo Mansion these days.
The two called Fan Mingyu's servant over and asked about it, and then they found out that their son had quarreled with the sixth girl of the Shi family.
Yongchuan Hou looked at Princess Chengyang with a smile: "What I said is right, there is no need for us to intervene, Mingyu and the girls from the Shi family will have conflicts."
Princess Chengyang threw cold water and said: "The two of them had a quarrel before and they reconciled not long after."
Marquis Yongchuan continued with a smile: "When young men and women first meet, they will think that the other person is the most beautiful. If there is a conflict, they will try their best to tolerate it; but as time goes by, the feeling of excitement disappears, and tolerance is limited."
It will go down."
"Similar things may seem insignificant when you first meet them, but later on, they will become a big problem. If the problem is big, there will be many trade-offs, and you will start to make trade-offs."
Princess Chengyang showed approval, thought for a moment and asked: "Master Marquis, do you mean that we should continue to ignore it?"
Yongchuan Hou: "If we intervene, for Mingyu and the girl from the Shi family who are still in the stage of admiration, we will be the enemy that destroys their relationship. The two of them will join forces to deal with the outside world."
"But if we don't intervene and the two people have conflicts on their own, then they will blame each other and think it is the other party's problem."
"I think the sixth girl in our family was the stronger one at that time. If she had a conflict with Mingyu, she would probably not bow her head first. Our son is also arrogant, so the two of them would be in a stalemate."
"No matter how good a relationship is, it can't withstand trial and error. If it happens too often, Mingyu will definitely not be able to bear it anymore, and he will naturally stay away from the Shi family girl."
Princess Chengyang snorted: "The family background is not obvious, and the temper is not bad. I really don't know where the girl from the Shi family got the confidence?"
Marquis Yongchuan smiled: "Where else could it come from? Our son is used to it."
The couple chatted for a while and then Marquis Yongchuan went to the front yard. When he saw Fan Mingyu coming back from outside, he waved him over and said unhappily: "The listless outsiders saw this and thought something happened to our family!"<
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Fan Mingyu looked a little embarrassed: "My son knows he was wrong."
Marquis Yongchuan snorted: "You are the eldest son of the Marquis Yongchuan Mansion, and you have brought yourself to such a state of depression for the sake of a woman. It is really an embarrassment to my Fan family." With that, he threw up his sleeves and entered the house.
Fan Mingyu languidly followed.
Marquis Yongchuan sat down, took a sip of the tea handed by the maid, and then looked at Fan Mingyu angrily: "As a father, I really don't know what to say to you. You can't even handle a girl."
"You're just a girl from a noble family, but you still come from a family background, and your status is inferior to the girls from our family in everything. You are really capable!"
Fan Mingyu replied: "Sixth sister is different from other ladies."
Marquis Yongchuan snorted: "Aren't they all women? What's the difference?"
Seeing his son hanging his head in silence, Marquis Yongchuan felt a little helpless. He also thought that his son grew up in Liaodong and didn't have much experience in getting along with girls' families. After thinking about it, he decided to teach him some of his own experience.
"Women are actually easy to deal with."
Fan Mingyu looked up at Marquis Yongchuan, skeptical of what he said.
Marquis Yongchuan saw his son's disbelief in him and was a little dissatisfied, but he decided to start with himself: "Do you think your father listens more to your mother, or does your mother listen more to your father?" <
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Fan Mingyu really thought about it carefully.
On the surface, my father obeys my mother in everything, but if something happens at home, it is actually my mother who listens to my father.
Seeing the look of admiration in his son's eyes, Marquis Yongchuan felt a little proud: "Women are very simple, no different from raising kittens and puppies." Seeing his son frown, "If you have no experience in raising kittens and puppies, you have raised horses.
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"Think about how you took a horse that you were not allowed to ride at the beginning and developed it into your own exclusive mount. This mount is not only docile, but also only recognizes you."
Fan Mingyu disagreed: "How can humans and horses be the same?"
Seeing that his son had no understanding, Marquis Yongchuan could only break it down and say: "You regard the girl of the Shi family as a horse in the racecourse. In the beginning, this horse will definitely not want you to get close to her."
"How to make a horse want to come close to you? You don't need a father to teach you, right?"
Fan Mingyu: "Feed the horses."
Marquis Yongchuan: "Yes, feed. The more often you feed, the horses will naturally get close to you."
"But this is not enough, because other people may also feed the horse, or the horse can find food on its own."
"If the horse has other choices, it will naturally not obey you in everything."
"You can't stop other people from feeding. What you can do is make the horse unable to find food elsewhere and can only rely on you."
Fan Mingyu frowned: "I'm afraid this is difficult to do, right?"
Marquis Yongchuan smiled: "It's not difficult to say. Mingyu, you have to know that both humans and animals are indolent. If there is ready-made food in front of them, they will no longer be willing to work hard to get it." "Think about it, if you provide exquisite forage that others cannot provide, will the horse choose anyone else? Will the horse still work hard to forage by himself?"
"Of course, just feeding is not enough. It may make the horse have a bad temper. You can put the horse into the group of horses to run around, and then choose another horse to ride on to make the horse feel a sense of crisis." p>
"You can only rely on you to keep yourself from going hungry, and you still have the possibility of choosing other horses. You said that under such circumstances, would the horse you like still dare to disobey your orders?"
Fan Mingyu seemed to understand, and felt that what his father said made sense, but he also felt that something was wrong.
Marquis Yongchuan continued with a smile: "Women like to hear nice words, and like to be coaxed and protected by men. What they like is equivalent to feeding fodder to horses."
"Now that you have fallen in love with a fierce horse, you have to put in more effort to tame her."
"For ordinary horses, you may be able to win them by giving them some fodder, but for fierce horses, you still have to play a game."
After listening to Marquis Yongchuan's experience, Fan Mingyu did not feel enlightened, but he could see his father's attitude, and his father supported him and his sixth sister in continuing their relationship.
With this support, Fan Mingyu felt much brighter. After much hesitation, he followed Shi Dinghao to Wuchang Bo's Mansion the next day.
Seeing Fan Mingyu take the initiative to apologize, Shi Fuxin also felt that it was too hasty to feel that the three views were inconsistent because of a quarrel, and she also admitted to Fan Mingyu that she was wrong.
The two reconciled, and Jin Yue'e and Shi Zhenghe who were present both laughed.
Both the couple like Fan Mingyu very much.
Every time the youngest daughter and Fan Mingyu quarrel, both of them are very worried.
In line with the principle of solving problems when they arise, Shi Fuxin did not stop talking about the previous differences. But as soon as she mentioned it, Jin Yuee, who was worried that the two would have conflicts again, deliberately changed the topic.
Shi Fuxin was a little helpless and could only think about finding an opportunity to discuss this issue next time.
After all, influenced by the experience of Marquis Yongchuan, Fan Mingyu began to send various things to Shi Fuxin every now and then, including food, clothing, and everything else.
Not only were Shi's family members moved by such attentiveness, but Shi Fuxin also thought that Fan Mingyu was using his strength to apologize, and she couldn't help but be touched.
As the Chinese Valentine's Day was approaching, Shi Fuxin asked An Ran to go to the sewing room and asked for some embroidery thread to embroider a purse for Fan Mingyu.