Secretary Zhang felt that even if he told him, Mr. Gu might not be Shu Pan’s opponent, because women are best at playing hard to get. Women can tolerate not contacting men for a long time, but men may not be able to endure it, especially when Mr. Gu is like this.
The focus on gains and losses is relatively heavy.
In fact, he thinks Mrs. Gu is a relatively docile person. She usually doesn't care about issues of principle that she doesn't touch. But this time Mr. Gu did something wrong, but he didn't show an attitude of admitting his mistake. No wonder Gu
My wife will be more angry.
Secretary Zhang thought deeply for a while before speaking slowly, "Mr. Gu, in fact, women rely on coaxing. Don't worry about this. Men should be more open-minded. Just admit your mistake and coax her."
"Then will she be more aggressive in the future? I want to regain my husband's strength, but she doesn't take me seriously recently." Gu Shaoting argued unconvincingly, "You haven't seen her attitude towards me.
, I was very impatient and hung up after saying a few words.”
Secretary Zhang gritted his teeth and took a strong dose of medicine, "Maybe it's because of your attitude that I feel discouraged. I guess I have some thoughts in my mind now. Mr. Gu, you don't know that once a woman has a barrier in her heart towards that man,
, it’s really hard to have any room for maneuver.”
"What did you say?" Gu Shaoting said angrily, "I will not separate from Shu Pan."
"But you will have problems sooner or later if you continue like this." Secretary Zhang said, "You see you don't want to separate from her, so since you know why she is angry, you have to take the right medicine and really don't keep a cold war.
, often making sarcastic remarks, over time, it will hurt the relationship between two people. If the remaining relationship is worn away, you can go to the Civil Affairs Bureau to break up."
Secretary Zhang deeply feels that he is an expert on love, and he has almost become Mr. Gu’s advisor.
"Really?" Gu Shaoting began to feel a little uneasy, "But there wasn't much of a problem in the first place, but she kept holding on to me. The person I love is her, but she pays attention to some irrelevant people and things."
"Mr. Gu, you can't say that." Secretary Zhang said patiently, "She probably cares about your attitude. You think it's irrelevant people and things, but in her eyes, it's principles and bottom lines.
For things like this, it’s best to think from someone else’s perspective. There’s really no way to understand issues like the bottom line.”
"But I took the initiative to call her and apologize, but she still had the same attitude. I was really helpless." Gu Shaoting said aggrievedly.
"So you have to keep up your efforts. Men should be thick-skinned when coaxing their wives, and lower their posture. You are being arrogant. Secretary Zhang feels that Mr. Gu's emotional intelligence is still a little low.
Gu Shaoting blushed a little, being told something that was on his mind. "Who are you talking about?"
"Mr. Gu, I was wrong. I said it accidentally." Secretary Zhang quickly covered her mouth. Really, her boss is arrogant. It's okay if she knows it. How can she say it?
"Mr. Gu, what I mean is that if you really don't give in and are so frozen, Mrs. Gu will always be a woman and has a thin skin, and it will be impossible for her to reconcile in her lifetime."
Gu Shaoting was so shocked by what Secretary Zhang said.
He thought for a while and decided to have a good chat with Shu Pan when he went back tonight. Otherwise, what would he do if she really got angry and ignored him?
But, how to find a step for him to climb down? He needs to think about this carefully.
It really lives up to that saying, if you don’t do it, you won’t die.