However, because the prestige of Lao Qi's family in the village was getting higher and higher along the way, after praying for health and happiness, the idea of letting Old Qi rest again rose again.
He thought about it for a long time and finally figured out a way.
It is not necessarily necessary to change the family, that is the worst policy. The best policy is that he should solve the problem before his children fail to take the imperial examination, and the fault cannot be theirs.
As a result, the Lao Qi family split up as soon as they settled down.
Lao Qi's family knew that the big house was rich, but when the family was divided, not a penny was given to the second house and the third house.
Logically speaking, all this money was originally earned by the boss in the big house, and there is no reason to share it with the whole family.
But Mr. Qi knows too much about praying for health and happiness, and he won’t tell you this logic.
He will only think that the money was brought to the family before the family was divided. No matter which house the person earned, it should belong to the public. Now that the family is divided, it should be taken out and divided equally.
Not only money, but everything the big house gets should be taken out and divided equally.
It is based on [filial piety], and there is nowhere to go against the entire family. As a father, he can only admit it no matter how dissatisfied he is.
But similarly, the whole village knew that Dafang was rich, and the whole village also knew that the money was earned by Qi Bao'er.
He separated the families in such a way that the whole village could not find a single wrong word.
On the contrary, if he took out the money and divided it into two or three houses, the villagers would be dissatisfied. Qi Bao'er is the lucky doll god of the whole village.
Later, let Qi Kangfu discover that he can no longer take advantage of the big house [Old man Qi forbids Ye Sanni to send things to the second and third bedrooms]...
However, Old Man Qi never expected that Qi Kangfu would find a pregnant widow to stick to, let alone that he would actually break away from his parents and voluntarily leave the family for that widow, not even his two biological sons.
Old Man Qi wants to give up praying for good fortune, but after all, he is his biological son, and blood is thicker than water. But in the future, if anyone prays for good fortune, he can strive for success and correct himself, so how can Old Man Qi be willing to give up his own son?
To put it bluntly, praying for the old man is self-confidence. Confidence praying for happiness means that he has left the family and has not been around for a long time. When he has suffered enough, he will naturally come back obediently.
After suffering, he learned a lesson. He couldn't break up with Qi Kangfu anyway, so let Qi Kangfu learn from the beatings of reality.
The old man Qi thought very much that he was a bachelor.
But no one expected that after praying for happiness, no one would see him again.
I've gone too far, come back.
Mrs. Tian thought for a moment and asked, "Is it too early to adopt Si Lang and Liu Lang now?"
What if the third child repented and came back?
Look, no matter how hard-talking you are, how can you, as a parent, really tell your own children that you don’t want them?
Old man Qi has been thinking about this for a long time, "Even if the third child comes back, he will either have already married a wife outside, or we will still have to marry him another house. It is not as good as the eldest daughter-in-law and the second child's wife."
After a pause, the old man prayed and then said: "We are lucky. The eldest daughter-in-law will not talk about it. I can praise her as much as I want. The second daughter-in-law is straight-tempered and kind-hearted. Although she is sometimes out of tune, it is not harmful. Si Liang and Liu Liang followed them.
Any one of you is better than following a stepmother who doesn’t know what to do.”
Mrs. Tian frowned, "Everything was fine in the past. It wasn't that they didn't need to raise the children, they didn't have to pay for them, and they had no responsibilities. They just gave them some food and drink occasionally.
If I really want to adopt him directly, I'm afraid they will feel uncomfortable and it will be bad for the child. What should I do?"
Men don't understand women's hearts. Men may think it's just a matter of two mouths, but for women, it's true that they don't know how much money they have when they are in trouble.
The nephew may not have much to do with just occasional support, but he can directly help to raise him. He needs money for food, rice, oil and salt, and money for studying. If he is sick, he needs money, but he has to be responsible, etc. To put it bluntly, he may be a thankless person.
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Raise her well, that's what you should do, you are an aunt.
If you don't raise it well, your reputation will be bad.
"Can't you?" When Mrs. Tian said this, Old Man Qi had to think more.
He originally wanted to adopt the two children into the eldest daughter-in-law's name. To be honest, he believed more in the eldest daughter-in-law. He felt that if Si Liang and Liu Liang were raised by the eldest daughter-in-law, they would definitely not get into trouble.
Just as Mrs. Tian thought, Mr. Qi thought it was not too difficult to just raise two children, provide them with food and drink, and then send them to study.
After being reminded by his old wife, Mr. Qi thought more. He even thought about whether the children would fight for the family property after the eldest and his wife were a hundred years old.
Their big house will be better and better in the future...
Old man Qi never had the idea of asking Qi Bao'er to pull Dafang's family away, but no one could deny one thing. The better Qi Bao'er is, the Dafang and the second family will naturally prosper accordingly.
Similarly, if anything goes wrong with Qi Baoer, they will also play along as a family.
But this is not the point. I hope the old man will stop thinking about this.
It was because he saw the changes in Da Lang. Don’t think he didn’t know why Da Lang and San Lang had led a group of half-grown men in the village to stay away from home all day long. It was not because of the batch of cloth in Wuyuan Town.
At first, Old Man Qi was worried about the children coming alone, so he and Qi Kang'an took turns following him quietly for a few days, watching them push carts and hawking in nearby villages.
Some people saw that they only had a few children and wanted to rob them directly. Fortunately, those children did not learn in vain all the way to escape. Instead, they beat each other until their noses were bruised and their faces were swollen.
Old man Qi and Qi Kang'an were trying to prevent someone from retaliating. In the middle of the night, the father and son touched each other's house and beat him up.
But the children don't know this.
Old Qi took a fancy to Dali's charisma and unyielding composure in times of crisis. He was worthy of being the eldest grandson of their Lao Qi family.
Even if Dafang prays for Bao'er to fly away in the future, it won't be bad if he has an eldest grandson like Daliang around.
After thinking about it like this, Old Man Qi had to think more, and then, the more he thought about it, the more he felt that his idea was too taken for granted, and it was really unfair to Dafang.
"Forget it, never mention the adoption again."
Mrs. Tian was competing with herself and almost convinced herself. Unexpectedly, Old Man Qi figured it out first.
However, she was a person who married and obeyed her husband. Naturally, after the old man decided, she said nothing and lay down with a hum.
"Old man, go to sleep. If you have something to do, we'll talk about it tomorrow. Besides, if you don't want to continue, the house will be built soon. There are many rooms, and there are still four, six, and two more to go."
On this point, Mrs. Tian can still guarantee that the third child is not here, but she is just picking up the two children to live at home, and the eldest daughter-in-law will never have anything to say.
Sure enough, Mrs. Tian didn't say anything the next day. When making breakfast, Ye Sanni opened her mouth to discuss the matter with her.
"Mom, the third brother is not at home now. How can the two children, Si Lang and Liu Lang, take care of themselves? I was thinking, why don't I take him over and squeeze with my parents first, and then give them a separate room after the new house is built?
Room?"
Ye Sanni had a grudge against Qi Kangfu, but not against the two children. On the contrary, she felt very sorry for the two children, especially Si Lang.
