No one would like their mother to talk about other people's children all day long.
Naturally, one cannot dislike or hate one's mother, so what should one do? The only option is to hate and exclude the person that the mother always compares to them.
Also, Mrs. Wang is not a very good person herself. She always acts as a weakling to show off the bad qualities of her daughters-in-law.
Girls' families all have their own circle of getting along. Even if Mrs. Wang's daughters-in-law are not in their circle, it is closely related to their circle. Compared with Mrs. Wang, they need to know her daughter-in-law better, and
She trusts her daughters-in-law even more.
Of course, the legitimate daughters of the aristocratic family have been raised since childhood, and their brains are not that stupid. Just based on what I heard, they generally won't even believe more than two points.
But in fact, many women have seen Mrs. Wang's duplicity with their own eyes, and even experienced it personally.
No, this is just a bit disgusting to Mrs. Wang's instinctive feelings.
Such a combination of mother and daughter will always make the girls hate them wherever they go.
There is actually a certain level of participation in each banquet, and everyone has to be proud of it. No one will specifically write on the invitation that non-legendary children can attend or concubine children cannot attend, but those who want to attend the banquet can figure it out themselves.
The standard for this degree is the status of the host of the banquet.
For example, Mrs. Wang has no official title, but her husband is an official of the fourth rank, and his wife is an official of the fourth rank. Her status is similar to that of the fourth rank women in the back house who also have no official titles.
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According to unwritten rules, Mrs. Wang cannot bring concubines to palace banquets; to banquets held by members of the royal family, Mrs. Wang cannot bring concubines; to banquets with the royal wives of officials of the first, second, third and fourth grades, Mrs. Wang also cannot
You cannot bring a concubine with you; if any honorable lady invites you to a banquet, Mrs. Wang cannot bring a concubine with her...
Similar to Mrs. Wang, other ladies in Beijing also treat various banquets with similar standards.
However, Mrs. Wang often does not follow this unwritten rule when she favors a concubine, but she does not go too far. When she brings a concubine, at most, her husband's family is of the same rank as her husband-in-law.
No matter how high the status of the master was, she would not dare to do so.
But this time, when she was inviting a banquet from the second-grade princess's palace, while the first-grade wives only brought their legitimate daughters, she actually brought a concubine...
Seriously, no matter how cute or well-behaved your daughter looks, she belongs to someone else. How can she really compare with her own children?
What's more, it's better to use a concubine than their own direct descendants.
This is not a comparison between children, but a slap in the face of their elders.
Naturally he was unhappy.
It was also a coincidence that the young lady of the Right Prime Minister's family had just stepped off the carriage, and the Wang family's horses arrived.
Madam Fang is a person with a bad eye, a violent temper, and she only has one daughter, who she usually treats as a darling.
What's more coincidental is that Mrs. Fang Dashao and Wang Shangshu's wife are handkerchiefs.
The two sisters got married one after the other and gave birth to children one after the other. Mrs. Wang gave birth to a son, and Mrs. Fang gave birth to a daughter. As it happened, the two sisters even joked that they wanted the two children to be married as babies.
Later, it was because of Mrs. Wang that the baby could not be married.
Originally it was nothing, it was just a joke.
But who made Mr. Wang pass the scholar examination last year? He was only fifteen years old, and his father was a minister. His future prospects were as good as anyone could see.
It's just that the Fang family wants to be proud. When they were young, they mentioned that they would have a baby, but it didn't work out. Now that they have grown up, it is impossible to bring it up again, otherwise it would appear that the girl from the Fang family has lost her status.
Therefore, Mrs. Fang has always felt a pity in her heart.
As for Mrs. Wang, who was a pity to her, she naturally disliked her. In addition, knowing something about how Mrs. Wang wasted her friends, her dislike rose to disgust.
When I got off the carriage and saw that the person behind me was Mrs. Wang, I suddenly felt unlucky. Then I saw that the other party had brought a concubine to slap her daughter in the face, and I suddenly got angry. I stepped forward and slapped Mrs. Wang in the face.
of irony.
Mrs. Fang was straight-tempered but not stupid, and she was slippery. She made Mrs. Wang so ashamed that she almost committed suicide. Miss Wang Qi even cried directly at the door of the princess's mansion.
As a result of their disturbance, more and more ladies and ladies arrived, and soon the entrance to the house was blocked.
Today, everyone has tacitly agreed to bring only their legitimate children. Only you, Mrs. Wang, have brought a concubine. This slaps not only Mrs. Fang’s face, but also the other ladies who looked at her and felt unhappy in their hearts.
Someone went to help Mrs. Wang and her daughter.
Instead, the scene looked like everyone was bullying Mrs. Wang and her daughter.
Speaking of this, Qiu Yu pursed her lips with disdain as if she had remembered something, "That Miss Wang Qi is really powerful, she made her cry so pitifully that several young men came forward to speak for her.
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We haven't even entered the house yet. It doesn't take long to say "noisy" at the door. It only takes a few minutes. Everyone is visiting. How could you be so ignorant and offend the host before you even enter the house?
Mrs. Wang didn't know whether she was scolded and had no shame to stay any longer, or she realized that it was inappropriate for her to bring a concubine, so she quickly left with the aggrieved Miss Wang Qi as if she was forced to do so.
On the other hand, the men who spoke for Miss Wang Qi were in miserable condition and were severely punished by their mothers or grandmothers.
"We treated you to a nice banquet, but they let me down."
Qi Baoer smiled and nodded at Qiu Yu, "You deserve to be so concerned about such a small thing, it's too petty."
There was no one else around at this moment, so Qiu Yu boldly stuck out her tongue and said with a sweet smile: "Sir, you care about the world, and you only care about the important things of peace and stability, so you don't take such small things seriously.
The slaves live in the back house, and they only focus on these things in the back house, but they don't see the opportunity to arrange for the adults."
This is already a clear reminder.
Don't look at it, this matter doesn't seem to have anything to do with their princess's mansion. The person who stopped her was Mrs. Fang and not from their mansion.
But who allowed this to happen at the gate of the princess's mansion?
Mrs. Wang came to the banquet after accepting the post, but she was forced to go back without even entering the door, feeling aggrieved and bullied. What would others think if she was seen?
If Mrs. Wang and the others say something specious again, it will damage their reputation.
But Qiu Yu's worry made even Twelve feel speechless.
Said: "Our Lord is the Minister of the Ministry of War. Mr. Wang has neither been granted the title of waiting nor the general. His official position is still a sinecure. He is guarding the inheritance of his ancestors and eating the shadow left by his ancestors. He and Wang Shangshu only have face.
The father-son relationship is based on love, and he doesn't have the confidence to allow his wife and concubine to arrange things for us adults."
They didn't worry about anything. Mr. Wang would take care of the mother and daughter.
This is why the higher the official position of the husband's family, the more freely a woman can go out.
It’s not whether you have done something wrong, but whether others dare to say it.biqμgètνt
Qiu Yu nodded in confusion, half understanding.
But seeing that the master didn't object, what Twelve said must be right, so she doesn't need to worry.