The most common morning and dusk meditation, for men, is just a normal thing for a daughter-in-law to serve her parents, but they don’t know that there are a lot of things going on here. Whether your mother-in-law is kind or kind determines whether you are a real person or an ordinary person.
Better to die.
Mrs. Qian also gave some examples:
For example, when I wash my mother-in-law, she thinks the water is too hot and the water is too cold, so she makes you run back and forth more times.
After finally washing up and getting dressed, you don’t like this one and that one, but you still have to run back and forth.
Even though you're dressed and served to eat, I'm still tossing you back and forth.
These are all lightweight.
Some of them are even more extreme. They are very picky about everything. If something goes wrong, they will find an excuse to punish you, or even make you kneel down for training.
Mrs. Qian didn't say much. After all, she had never experienced it herself. Her mother-in-law treated her like a daughter, so she couldn't blame her too much in front of her husband, as if she was dissatisfied with her mother-in-law.
She was unwilling to give the handkerchief to Mrs. Hao.
Hao's mother is not an easy person to agree to. Although Hao Zhengqun has already established a separate mansion, every first and fifteenth day of the lunar month, Hao Zhengqun and his wife still have to go back to the Hao family's old house to pay their respects to the two elderly people. Otherwise, they will be harassed by outsiders.
Being sprayed with saliva will leave an unfilial impression even on the emperor.
——Although Ye San’s finances are all in the hands of Mrs. Ye San, as Mrs. Qian said, Mrs. Ye San’s life in Yangzhao Houfu was not easy.
It's like a village girl entering the capital. Everything is extremely luxurious to her. Even the servants in the palace are more distinguished in appearance than her.ъiqugetvt
An Ruhai had intended to make good friends with these people, and they might all be his own in the future. Now that he was under the ladder, he would naturally take over immediately.
Then he lost his temper quickly, and after a while he was stuck again.
Ye San and his wife just didn't want to. They didn't mention that the eldest daughter was already engaged, but the other party's age made it sound like they were not a good match.
Until a year ago, the Crown Prince's wife actually wanted to betroth Ye San's eldest daughter to a man who was more than twice as old as Ye San's eldest daughter. She said that the other party had some relationship with the newly appointed Minister of Household Affairs and could help him.
Seeking a position in the DPRK.
Hao Zhengqun is not a filial person, and his relationship with his parents is only about face-saving. Therefore, Hao Zhengqun is distressed but also worried about his wife's constant forbearance in the old house.
When it comes to paying for money, once you pay for it for the first time, it's not up to you whether you want to pay for it or not.
However, those people used Sanfang's money everywhere, but they still treated Mrs. Ye San as casually as a human being, without any gratitude. Even if they were willing to use your money, it was just to show your face.
Several men present were a little embarrassed by Mrs. Qian's outbursts. In fact, they didn't know that the mistress of the house was not easy to agree with. They had seen it with their own eyes when they were young.
Of course, the most important thing is that she can't change her temper.
"Brother An, what happened to the Ye family? Why did Mrs. Ye San have to go to a dead end?"
Both Mrs. Hao and Mrs. Ye San upheld their duties as wives and would not bother their husband with matters in the inner house.
.... Fortunately, Hao Zhengqun is a handsome man but he is very kind to his wife. Even if he is angry, he will not attack or scold people like others for his body image, but will ignore them with a straight face.
Under such circumstances, Mrs. Ye San still holds all of Ye San's belongings. Isn't it just like a sheep falling into a wolf's mouth?
The family has financial difficulties, the mistress is ill, the second wife has an accident and needs money, the prince is the future head of the house, and it is natural that he needs to take care of everything when traveling abroad, etc.
It's just that after they have successful careers outside, one reason is that they are too busy to think about these things anymore, and the other reason is that they also know that it is because of the neglect of their wives and the things that are taken for granted in the world.
But this ultimately affects the relationship between the couple.
This is the way the world is today. Men earn money by doing meritorious deeds outside, and mediators are marrying people who carry eight sedan chairs to carry their wives home. Isn't it just to have someone to help them take care of the house and be filial to their parents?
It can be seen from Mrs. Hao's temperament that she is the kind of person who will always bear it in her heart when she is wronged, so she only exchanges a few words with Mrs. Qian, the only handkerchief.
When a woman gets married and becomes someone else's wife, she is still the daughter of her parents' family.
Hao Zhengqun even doted on Mrs. Hao like an eyeball. On weekdays, as long as Mrs. Hao frowned, Hao Zhengqun would spin around anxiously.
What is a wife?
Manage the inner house for your husband so that he can ‘fight’ outside without any worries.
What do couples want when their husbands are like this?
It's just that Hao Zhengqun didn't understand Mrs. Hao's dilemma. To be more precise, it was the man who didn't understand the dilemma of being a wife and a daughter.
And how can such a tall and thick man think of this?
You have to try it with someone else. Mrs. Qian's words will definitely be criticized as "treason" and "unfilial descendants", plus "deviant and judgmental".
She cannot be willful and has no right to be willful. She cannot do whatever Hao Zhengqun wants. She has too many worries.
Mrs. Ye San is not really stupid, she is naturally aggrieved, but regardless of her status or seniority, she can only endure it for life.
Because of this, Hao Zhengqun lost his temper with Mrs. Hao many times.
Of course, he had to solve the problems caused by his wife. Qian Wentong quickly changed the subject with a haha:
But Mrs. Hao is different. In Mrs. Hao's natal family, there are two younger sisters with the same father who have not even been married, and there are even five or six cousins who are unmarried.
Mrs. Qian is the youngest daughter in the family. When she got married, her sisters already had husbands' families, and their husbands' families were all pretty good, so she could be willful.
Every two days, Hao's mother would torment Mrs. Hao in different ways.
Inferiority is unavoidable, not to mention that in the Yang Zhaohou Mansion, not only Mrs. Yang Zhaohou's natural status can suppress her, but also the Crown Prince's wife and the second wife who are direct descendants. No matter which one comes out, they are all superior not only in terms of generation.
He is superior to her in terms of dignity and respect.
Some of the men present may feel awkward, that's because they are the rare "comrades" in this world, and they are all sick wives in this world.
However, I also took into account the fact that there were people who loved my wife, so I stopped saying some things directly and immediately changed my stance when I said them.
Her words and deeds, as well as outsiders' evaluations of her, still affect the marriages of the girls in her natal family and the situation of their wives.
No matter how straight-tempered Mrs. Qian is, she also knows that there are some things that cannot be blamed on Hao Zhengqun.
Then, the couple began to face the pressure from Yangzhao Houfu together.
The men like Yang Zhaohou, Shizi and Ye Er went to Ye San; the women in the inner house dealt with Mrs. Ye San.
An Ruhai said that Mrs. Ye San is not stupid and is here. "Mrs. Ye San knew that if she complained to the government about her eldest daughter, the government would not accept her petition. She brought it back to the Houfu ten years later.
A few years ago, I personally went to Jingzhao Mansion to sue my husband’s family for losing her dowry.”
According to the law, it is true that the parents make the final decision on the marriage of their children. When the parents are still alive, grandparents and uncles do not have the right to overstep the parents' right to marry their children.
(End of chapter)
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