"Although my mother will not object to your early marriage and believes that the most sincere love will happen to you, if there is a rift in your relationship in the future, my mother hopes that you can distinguish between love and life."
Mo Zhu said softly.
Li You has not experienced his future married life, so he can only vaguely understand what his mother said: "I understand."
Mo Zhu looked at his daughter's confused look and stretched out his hand towards her: "Come and sit next to mom."
"Oh, okay." Li You came over and sat down next to his mother.
Mo Zhu held her daughter's hand and looked at her with gentle eyes: "Mom met happiness later than you. Mom was already twenty-six when she met your father. Before that, mom had a first love, but it ended in vain.
When she met your dad, mom didn't think about the future, she even had the idea of making do with it."
Li You had known for a long time that her mother's first love was not her father, but she didn't know who her mother's first love was.
But the original intention of mother and father to be together was just to make ends meet. Li You didn't know that before, but this was the first time that her mother took the initiative to talk to her about it.
Li You was very curious and asked, "Then later, was it dad who moved you little by little with his love?"
"Yes." Mo Zhu recalled the past: "At least before your father and I got married, I had no feelings for your father."
Li You had a meaningful look on his face and joked: "Oh, I know, you and dad got married first and fell in love later."
Mo Zhu was amused by this sentence: "That's right."
Li You only now knows about the fact that his parents got married first and then fell in love.
But at this moment, Li You is more curious about how his mother broke up with that first love that ended in vain.
She really wanted to ask.
I am also afraid that this first love that ended in vain will be a scar in my mother's heart, and it will be uncomfortable to open the scar.
The way she hesitated to speak was noticed by Mo Zhu, who raised his hand and rubbed the side of his daughter's face: "Do you want to ask how your mother and your first love broke up back then?"
Li You was surprised: "How did you know I wanted to ask this?"
Mo Zhu: "I guessed it based on your expression."
Li You came over and asked, "Then can you tell me?"
The past has passed, and Mo Zhu will no longer mention this matter in front of anyone, but if she is willing to mention it in front of her own daughter, it is okay.
Because she wants her daughter to know things related to relationships.
Mo Zhu said slowly: "That first love was actually childhood sweethearts. He and I went to the same middle school and the same university. We had a good relationship, but the two sides never broke through the layers of paper and said we were together until our sophomore year.
I just plucked up the courage to confess to him."
Li You chased and asked, "Did he agree?"
"I agreed." Mo Zhu said, "In my sophomore year, he and I officially became boyfriend and girlfriend."
Li You said: "Although I got my wish at the time, luckily it wasn't him later, otherwise I wouldn't be who I am now."
Mo Zhu said with a smile: "Fortunately, it wasn't him later. Others said that he and I were childhood sweethearts, a talented man and a good-looking woman, and we were in the same family, because I had liked him for a long time. When we were together, I thought I would have a future with him. Unfortunately, this
Duan Qingse's relationship only lasted for a year and a half."
When talking about these past events, Mo Zhu's face looked very calm, because he had long since let go.
Li You felt very distressed when she heard that, and she continued to ask: "Why did it only last a year and a half? Since we know each other in high school and college, is it because we are too familiar with each other, so he feels that he can never become a true lover?"
Mo Zhu nodded: "That's right."
Li You scolded: "Scumbag."
Mo Zhu laughed: "Yes, a little bit."
Unexpectedly, his mother would agree. Li You thought that when she was angry about this, her mother would explain that it was not like that.
She felt better again: "What happened next? For example, after you broke up, did he seamlessly connect with others?"
"That's not true."
Mo Zhu spoke calmly, without any hatred towards that man: "Although I like him and have thought about having a future with him, my personality is too strong and my plans and goals for the future are very long-term. I remember that day he said to
I said that I should spread my wings and fly higher and farther, and stand on my own stage to shine. He said, let me not take him with me, because we are not walking on the same path. If we can
Meeting each other may also be the renewal of fate."
"I remembered his words. He said, 'We may meet again in the future to renew our fate,' so I didn't feel depressed for too long after the breakup. We wish each other a bright future and will meet at the top one day."
"
"When I was promoted step by step and I was looking forward to renewing our relationship, I learned that he was with someone else."
Hearing this, Li You's heart trembled.
My mother worked so hard to hike and climb in one direction. She longed to become excellent and renew her relationship with that man.
But God gave her a big blow.
That man still fell in love with someone else...
Li You asked: "Then have you ever hated him?"
Mo Zhu said softly: "I was angry at the time, but I soon let go because I knew where I lost. That Tianxiang is the other half that is suitable for him. She is not strong, she is very obedient, and she regards him as her God."
, she was willing to stay by his side obediently, and it was then that I realized that what he needed was a lover who was weak and dependent and needed his protection, not a lover who could be evenly matched with him."
When Li You heard this, he didn't bite his tongue to criticize the man's criteria for choosing a mate.
He actually didn't do much wrong.
He is like many men in real life.
Because the reality is like this. Not every man likes a woman who is evenly matched with him. In reality, most men prefer a gentle and obedient woman who only needs to cling to him under his own protective umbrella.
Mo Zhu looked at his daughter who was silent after hearing her words, and joked: "Are you comparing that uncle's character with Xiao Pei's?"
Li You did make a comparison.
But this doesn't affect anything.
Mo Zhu said: "Your father and I have our eyes and have watched all the energy Xiao Pei has put into you in the past two years."
Li You pursed his lips: "Pei Jingzhou and I have known each other very early. When I was five years old, I would hold his arm and act like a baby. He is also my only first love so far, and he is also my future husband. But in
From my mother’s point of view, no matter how good our childhood sweethearts are, will something unexpected come from the sky and break it all in the end?”
"Of course it's possible." Mo Zhu didn't give his daughter a perfect fantasy, so this answer sounded very realistic.
Li You lowered his eyes and remained silent.
Mo Zhu asked: "Has your heart been shaken?"
Li You shook his head without any hesitation and replied: "I haven't wavered."
