Qin Huairu was frightened. Thinking that Bangge would become such a person in the future, she was very frightened.
If this awesome guy is really shot, what will she do next?
"Xiao Fan... tell me... what should I do?"
Lin Fan looked at Qin Huairu and sighed. This woman must have taken the child too seriously and ignored other people's thoughts.
Love is enough, but excessive love will develop the temperament of Banggeng later on.
Although Bangge didn't have much respect for Shazhu when he was a child, he didn't have that big of an opinion on matters involving Shazhu and his mother, not as big as his grandma's opinion.
The reason why it became like this is that Xu Damao deserves the most credit.
In order to prevent Qin Huairu from getting married to Sha Zhu, and to prevent Sha Zhu from being alone for the rest of his life, Xu Damao found Liu Guangfu and the third son of the Yan family, and tied up the stick with broken shoes.
How could a teenage child be so ugly and be chased and yelled at by his mother for breaking her shoes?
Later, after Banggen came back from the countryside, he studied film screening with Xu Damao. Xu Damao and Qin Jingru taught Banggen to the point where he became a white-eyed wolf.
Therefore, children must be educated from an early age, otherwise it will be difficult to educate them well when they grow up.
Lin Fan also wanted to change Qin Huairu and that awesome guy, even though he hated these two people very much when watching TV.
However, since I am here, I can help out without losing my own interests.
Helping Qin Huairu and Sha Zhu came to fruition. Their combined salary was sixty-five, and Sha Zhu was still working in the cafeteria. He was a good cook and could go out to receive banquets, which was enough to raise two more children.
This is really done, and there are less things going on in this compound.
I can live my life in peace, otherwise I won't be annoyed to death.
"You have to go to work and take care of your family, so you still have to find someone."
Qin Huairu couldn't help but nodded. She also wanted to find one. She thought of Sha Zhu in her mind, and she had feelings for Sha Zhu.
"But I have three children and a mother-in-law, where can I find the right person?"
Lin Fan said: "This is not necessarily true. I think you must have someone in your heart now, and you are also thinking of him. Right?"
Qin Huairu was silent. She was thinking about He Yuzhu. Only then did she know what position He Yuzhu held in her heart.
More than just a neighbor, she fell in love with He Yuzhu.
But in order to prevent others from gossiping, her mother-in-law kept blocking her at home, so she kept this matter in her heart.
"Are you talking about Zhu Zhu? Just say that He Yuzhu has such a good condition. I am a widow with a mother-in-law and three children. How can he like me?"
The widow still had scruples in her heart. Lin Fan said: "Okay, let me tell you, Sister Qin, who can't tell the look in your eyes when you look at Sha Zhu? You have him in your heart, and Sha Zhu has been your silent helper for so many years.
In your family, you also help Shazhu with his work inside and outside. If you two don’t have any thoughts about each other, I won’t believe it.”
"It's just that Silly Zhu still wants to find a young girl. Coupled with your mother-in-law and your thoughts, He Yuzhu feels that there is no hope, so he has always wanted to find a wife."
"Sister Qin, what I said is right."
Qin Huairu didn't know what to say, her thoughts were all seen by Lin Fan.
Her mother-in-law definitely doesn't want her to remarry, and she doesn't want others to look at her children strangely.
I am afraid that after I get married to He Yuzhu and have a child with He Yuzhu, He Yuzhu will no longer be good to his child. What should I do then?
Divorce?
"I, I, you have all seen this." Qin Huairu stammered.
"Okay, Sister Qin, I know what you're worried about. You're worried that your mother-in-law won't agree, right?"
Lin Fan said: "Now that things have come to this, a new country, a new society, a new atmosphere, everyone has seen what you have done over the years, who wouldn't give a thumbs up when Qin Huairu is mentioned to the Jia family?
"
"What about Silly Zhu? You don't know? What has he done to your family and you all these years? If you don't have confidence in Silly Zhu, doesn't that mean you have no confidence in yourself?"
"In the entire compound, except for Silly Zhu, who will reassure your three children and fight heart-to-heart with the three of them, who can do it? No one!"
"Even if you and Shazhu have children in the future, will Shazhu treat Banggan, Xiaodang, and Huaihua badly? That's impossible. Shazhu will definitely treat them the same way."
"As for you, you have nothing to say about your children and the Jia family. It's just that you need to divide your heart and give it to Shazhu. Only by comparing your hearts to your hearts can you gain more love from others. Only by letting go of your heart can you get more love from others. You said
Is it right?"
After Lin Fan finished speaking, he looked at Qin Huairu and stopped.
Qin Huairu's heart was confused, very confused.
She didn't expect that she just wanted to borrow money, and she didn't expect to hear so many things.
"I'm confused." Lin Fan looked at Qin Huairu and knew that she had other thoughts about Silly Zhu, so he had to work harder.
"Are you still worried about your mother-in-law?" Lin Fan asked.
"Ah...ah." Qin Huairu responded in confusion.
Lin Fan followed suit and said, "Sister Qin, this is a new society and a new country."
"The dregs of the three obediences and four virtues in the past have long been thrown into the dustbin of history by the people. Now everyone is their own master and is equal in personality."
"You have sacrificed so much for this family, why should she scold you?"
"Sister Qin, you have to know that she should be afraid of you now, not you afraid of her. She is an old woman with no job and no income. If she leaves you, she can only wait to starve to death."
"Why do you think you are afraid of her?"
Following Lin Fan's words, Qin Huairu's eyes brightened little by little.
Lin Fan seemed to have opened a door to a new world for her.
But she still had doubts.
"If we break up, what should I do if she kicks me out?"
"The house belongs to her son. If I am kicked out, I will have no choice but to return to my parents' home."
"I can't afford to lose this person."
"Besides, I don't want people to say I'm unfilial."
Qin Huairu has become a little looser.
Lin Fan continued to educate her: "Don't worry, she doesn't have the right to kick you out. That house belongs to the Jia family, which means it's awesome."
"She, Jia Zhang, is a foreigner like you."
"The house doesn't belong to her at all, why should she kick you out?"
"If this matter really gets into trouble, don't ask Uncle Yi for comment. Even if it goes to the Public Security Bureau, you are the one who has the right. You don't have to be afraid of her at all."
"Besides, in our compound and factory, who doesn't know that you, Sister Qin, are a filial person?"
"Everyone says that if it had been anyone else, your evil mother-in-law would have been kicked out of the street a long time ago."
"So, even if you two fall out, no one will say you are unfilial."
"Everyone will just say that the old woman asked for it."
Qin Huairu's eyes glowed with confidence.
"Really? She can't kick me out? No one will say I'm unfilial?"
Lin Fan felt very happy when he saw that Qin Huairu had accepted his concept.
"This time I finally made the move. It's not like I wasted so much saliva and almost emptied all my own inventory." Lin Fan let out a sigh.
But there is another key figure among them, Xu Damao.
This kid is not only afraid of Sha Zhu's force, but also of him, Lin Fan.
Although Xu Damao was older than Lin Fan, Xu Damao was not as tall as Lin Fan when he was a child. When he was a teenager, Lin Fan often caught Xu Damao and beat him.
Silly Zhu would still hold back when he hit Xu Damao, but Lin Fan would not hold back, so even if they lived in the same backyard, Xu Damao would stay away.
Afraid of being beaten.
If Xu Damao dares to take action at that time, then he should do it himself.
"The key person between the two of you is actually BangGeng. BangGeng is older and has his own ideas. However, you still need to educate."
"Stealing needles when you are young is the same as stealing gold when you are old. I believe you, Sister Qin, have heard this truth. If you don't teach your children now, what will you do in the future?"
"Now that you are at home, your mother-in-law must be there when you want to teach him a lesson, right? She must feel sorry for her grandson, but if she continues to dote on her like this, sooner or later, she will destroy her."
"After you and Silly Zhu got married, one was a bad person and the other was a good person. The two worked together to educate the child. As his biological mother, I left the child to you. As a stepfather, Silly Zhu gave him care and love and taught him early.
Bring the child back and educate him into a human being."
"Children are not only the future of a family, but also the future of this society. Don't you want to become a useful person to the country and your family in the future?"
"Aren't you the first ones to benefit after becoming talented?"
"So educating children is the top priority. Don't think that I am doing good to my children by providing them with good food and drink?"
"this is not."
"Children also need some setbacks to let them know that all these things are hard-won. Let them learn to love their parents, learn to take care of the family, learn to take responsibility, and achieve comprehensive development of moral, intellectual, physical, artistic and physical skills."
"That's all for today. Sister Qin, please go back and think about it carefully. If you don't understand something, come to me again and I will help you to clarify your doubts."
