Damn this kid, he has changed a lot before and after.
In the early days, Banggeeng did a lot of sneaking around, and many people did it when they were young, but Banggeeng went too far.
Moreover, the education given to him by his family was not adequate, which resulted in him not paying much attention to the seriousness of these things.
He went to get things from He Yuzhu's house, often looting them.
Why?
Because Qin Huairu and Jia Zhang didn't think it was wrong to do this, they thought they just took the things from He Yuzhu's house, and this was not stealing.
As for He Yuzhu, he thought that Banggeng was willing to take his things because he recognized him, and it was for his two sisters.
He's a good boy.
But they don't realize the seriousness of this. Taking it without asking is just stealing, and there are not so many reasons.
Other people in the courtyard cannot take care of their own affairs, let alone the affairs of other families.
So Bangge's temperament gradually became determined.
Ten years later, Bangge came back from the countryside. He had high ambitions but low ambitions, so he studied film screening with Xu Damao.
What can we learn from Xu Damao?
He learned to do bad things and go to the countryside to show movies to collect benefits. It was compulsory to collect benefits. If others didn't give them to him, he wouldn't show the movie.
After he had a falling out with Xu Damao because of profit, his white-eyed wolf nature exploded. He looked down on the job in the movie theater and found the job of sweeping the floors too embarrassing.
As for the relationship between his mother Qin Huairu and He Yuzhu, he immediately believed it because of Xu Damao's instigation, and his ability to think for himself seemed to be lost in an instant.
Then he licked his face and asked He Yuzhu for a job as a driver. On the one hand, he looked down on He Yuzhu, but on the other hand, he accepted He Yuzhu's benefits with peace of mind.
However, Bangge is very kind to his mother and two younger sisters. Although he is rebellious, he still listens to his mother's words.
This child can still be saved now, but the key lies in family education.
"Sister Qin, Bangge's problem has become very serious now, but you and your mother-in-law still don't pay attention to it. Do you think that Banggeng will get better as he grows up?"
Qin Huairu: "Ah, ah, yes."
As a child, Qin Huairu has always thought like this. He was a little naughty when he was a child. After all, Bangge is a boy and he will definitely be responsible when he grows up.
Lin Fan said: "Do you think that he is still a child, and although he was not sensible when he was a child, he will become sensible when he grows up?"
"That's definitely the case, but I have to ask you, how do you think Banggeng is already like this now? If it continues to develop, will it change when he grows up?"
"I don't think so. On the contrary, it will get worse than it is now. This is a trend. Children are not taught well when they are young. When they grow up, they have their own ideas. When adults try to instill some ideas into them, it is already too late."
"Don't you realize that the current Banggeng has some resistance to you?"
"Although children are small, they are thoughtful. Their ideas are no less than those of adults."
"So it's not too late to educate him now."
Qin Huairu panicked. She didn't know what to say now and wanted to refute Lin Fan's words, but she always felt that Lin Fan's words were right.
Tears quickly gathered in Qin Huairu's eyes. What she cared about most was Banggeng. Now that Lin Fan was so frightening, she felt that Banggeng's future was worrying.
Qin Huairu grabbed Lin Fan's arm and said in a tearful voice: "Xiaofan, tell me... what should I do...sister...sister?"
Lin Fan sighed and said, "As for BangGeng, this topic has to come back to you."
"Banggen's father passed away when he was very young. You are a widow with a child, and you have to work in a factory during the day. You only have a mother-in-law to take care of you at home, so education is naturally missing."
"As for you, you have no choice but to make a living. It is not easy for a widow with three children and an elderly mother-in-law. There is no man in the family to take care of you. Even if you are bullied, everyone who is the breadwinner of the family can only suffer these pains.
Swallow inside."
"Life is difficult, but no matter how difficult it is, you have to live it."
"Banggen has lost his father. He has lost a strict father. Then you, the mother, must shoulder the responsibility of this strict father. How many loving mothers lose their sons."
"Because life is difficult, you, a widow, are trying to make ends meet in the factory, forcing yourself to learn skills."
"A weak woman is forced to shoulder the burden of a family. Some men in the factory are eyeing you. Seeing that you are easy to bully, they want to come and take advantage of you. Liu Dashou in your workshop, Xu Damao from far away."
"But just because you are a widow, you have to set a good example for your children. How did you do it?"
"When they came, you didn't refuse, and sometimes you would take the initiative to go there because you could get discounts from them, such as white flour steamed buns, exchange for food stamps, etc."
"Can't others see this?? They can see it, and many people have seen it. It's just that everyone thinks your life is not easy, so they just pretend they haven't seen it."
"Children learn from whomever they want. You have done this. Didn't Banggeng learn it slowly? That guy Si Zhu didn't stop Banggeng's behavior because of you. He didn't know that it was wrong to do so.
Yes? He knew, but he subconsciously ignored it."
"So, Sister Qin, you have to face your heart, you have to stand up, you have to be strong, let your child know that his mother is a great mother, and let him learn the right way to behave from you.
Values in doing things.”
"Great men have said: Women hold up half the sky, why don't you believe in yourself?"
"The new society has been established for so many years, and some ideas have to change. If you like it, then boldly pursue it. The government encourages everyone to have free love. Why do you think so much?"
"Will you regret it when He Yuzhu gets married?"
"It was too late at that time. This blind date with Silly Zhu failed. I think your mother-in-law definitely doesn't want you to marry Silly Zhu, but she is also worried that Silly Zhu will marry someone else. Then she will definitely ask you to go to the countryside and marry your sister Qin Jingru.
Take it over."
"You need to grasp all this by yourself. That's all I have to say today. No matter how much I say, it's better not to do it. If you do it, you won't regret it. You don't have to worry about Silly Zhu running away with others."
Lin Fan talked so long that his blood was boiling and he was extremely thirsty.
He also understood why Qin Huairu was hesitant about looking forward and backward. One was about his children and mother-in-law, and the other was about his reputation in society.
As long as she handles the first one, the second one is not a big deal. As long as Xu Damao doesn't make trouble, more people will be happy to see Qin Huairu and He Yuzhu get married.
Qin Huairu wiped away her tears, her eyes full of determination: "Thank you, Xiaofan. If it weren't for you, I really don't know what I would have done, but I still want to wait."
Although Lin Fan was embarrassed to know that she liked Sha Zhu, Qin Huairu was Qin Huairu after all, and she planned to wait a little longer to test her mother-in-law's tone before Sha Zhu went on another blind date.
She figured it out, for the sake of her children, and for the thought in her heart, she should pursue it if she liked it. She liked He Yuzhu, and after what happened yesterday, she didn't want to back down anymore.
"I will convince my mother-in-law that she still has children. I want to be with Zhu Zhu."
Looking at Qin Huairu who had made up his mind, Lin Fan nodded with satisfaction. His saliva these past two days had not been in vain.
Qin Huairu, she became angry.
Lin Fan gave a thumbs up to his great deed. He had worked hard for this courtyard house.
"Okay, Sister Qin, I support you 100% in this matter. If you need help, just tell me."
Lin Fan patted his chest and promised, "It's getting late, I'll go back to the workshop first."